I have heard it several times, when someone says that I am a proud person.

Nigerians expects me to always do their will or to behave the way they want. When they tried to use me wrongly, I always resist them.

I once live in a building where the landlady put the whole compound in darkness for 41 days because one woman has not paid her light bill for the last four months.

I told the son of the landlady that, do not near my gate over new light bills. You and your mother will have to pay NEPA their bills since you people decide to put everyone in darkness because of one person. He just kept looking at me as arrogant. How can a person asked me to pay money on light while living in darkness?

Everyone paid her 26k, she said one person has not paid, so the building must be in darkness

One day, I told the landlady, why are you eating the light bill? She hated me for this even though it was true.

I once work for someone I newly know. We agreed to a certain amouth of 200K. After I finished the work, he tried to shot pay me 50k, I plainly told him, you must pay my money in full, which he did. He began to see me as a bad person and look for ways to attack me.

Two of my sisters once told me, I am a proud guy. Because I told them to their face that, their constant lieing will ruin them. Why will a person keep lieing to you in all levels of life and wants you to give into their lies?

A friend of mine has been telling people that I am a proud guy. Why? because he wants to be using me to do all his will. When people tried to manipulate me to please them and do their will, I will resist them. Then they says that I am a proud guy.

My only reply to them is, you won turn me to mumu abi?

I have always tried to do what is right and not try to foolishly please men. I do my work deligently, even my work bosses always praise my humility and honesty.

I always speak my mind without fearing anyone and I always succeed in what I do. I also like to learn from others.

Why do people always fault find out-spoken person?

It's life. Once people can't use you, they attack you

So, where is the smartness in all these

Different topic Different story.
Na wa ooo

Zonefree:
So, where is the smartness in all these

It is when you are smart enough not to allow humans to wrongly use you.

Nonam:


It is when you are smart enough not to allow humans to wrongly use you.

It is common sense not to allow people use you.

There's no smartness here, you're just outspoken....

bukky1994:
There's no smartness here, you're just outspoken....

OK.
I noted and edited.

I am like u oooo I don't take shit when u misbehave I tell u plainly nd that's why some people do see me as an arrogant person, even my man is aware of that where he is suppose to take action he won't he is just too quiet nd it's kind of giving me concern am always the one gingering him I really don't give a hoot about any godamn person. Am living my life the way I was created.

Nonam:
I have heard it several times, when someone says that I am a proud person.

Nigerians expects me to always do their will or to behave the way they want. When they tried to use me wrongly, I always resist them.

I once live in a building where the landlady put the whole compound in darkness for 41 days because one woman has not paid her light bill for the last four months.

I told the son of the landlady that, do not near my gate over new light bills. You and your mother will have to pay NEPA their bills since you people decide to put everyone in darkness because of one person. He just kept looking at me as arrogant. How can a person asked me to pay money on light while living in darkness?

Everyone paid her 16k, she said one person has not paid, so the compound must be in darkness

One day, I told the landlady, why are you people eating the light bill? She hated me for this even though it was true.

I once work for someone I newly know. We agreed to a certain amouth of 11K. After I finished the work, he tried to shot pay me 5k, I plainly told him, you must pay my money in full, which he did. He began to see me as a bad person and look for ways to attack me.

Two of my sisters once told me, I am a proud guy. Because I told them to their face that, their constant lieing will ruin them. Why will a person keep lieing to you in all levels of life and wants you to give into their lies?

A friend of mine has been telling people that I am a proud guy. Why? because he wants to be using me to do all his will. When people tried to manipulate me to please them and do their will, I will resist them. Then they says that I am a proud guy.

My only reply to them is, you won turn me to mumu abi?

I have always tried to do what is right and not try to foolishly please men. I do my work deligently, even my work bosses always praise my humility and honesty.

I always speak my mind without fearing anyone and I always succeed in what I do. I also like to learn from others.

Why do people always fault find out-spoken person?

they hate you because you say things as they are, don't stop

if you refused to play the role people want you to play they label you anything, that's life

You can be outspoken but don't be a parrot

Nonam:
I have heard it several times, when someone says that I am a proud person.

Nigerians expects me to always do their will or to behave the way they want. When they tried to use me wrongly, I always resist them.

I once live in a building where the landlady put the whole compound in darkness for 41 days because one woman has not paid her light bill for the last four months.

I told the son of the landlady that, do not near my gate over new light bills. You and your mother will have to pay NEPA their bills since you people decide to put everyone in darkness because of one person. He just kept looking at me as arrogant. How can a person asked me to pay money on light while living in darkness?

Everyone paid her 16k, she said one person has not paid, so the compound must be in darkness

One day, I told the landlady, why are you people eating the light bill? She hated me for this even though it was true.

I once work for someone I newly know. We agreed to a certain amouth of 11K. After I finished the work, he tried to shot pay me 5k, I plainly told him, you must pay my money in full, which he did. He began to see me as a bad person and look for ways to attack me.

Two of my sisters once told me, I am a proud guy. Because I told them to their face that, their constant lieing will ruin them. Why will a person keep lieing to you in all levels of life and wants you to give into their lies?

A friend of mine has been telling people that I am a proud guy. Why? because he wants to be using me to do all his will. When people tried to manipulate me to please them and do their will, I will resist them. Then they says that I am a proud guy.

My only reply to them is, you won turn me to mumu abi?

I have always tried to do what is right and not try to foolishly please men. I do my work deligently, even my work bosses always praise my humility and honesty.

I always speak my mind without fearing anyone and I always succeed in what I do. I also like to learn from others.

Why do people always fault find out-spoken person?

u are on d right track

Because they can't control and scam you at that point.

Yea that's what I am facing too Tbh, I look quiet and I am mostly an introvert, so when I get to somewhere new I dont make noise and keep to myself, mostly going out of my way to help the people around me because it's my nature.
But I have noticed that many people just assumed that I am naive, or a soft person and in Nigeria once people sees you as soft they dont admire you instead they take advantages of you, they talk to you anyhow, they want you to do their works for them, they generally disregard you but once I said NO and dont let them use me, they start disliking me thinking i care.
Sometimes I blame myself because of the first impression I gave to them, the feeling that they have seen a MuMu they can use not knowing they are so fucking wrong lol.
Just live you life and dont care what people think about you.

Prettygirl200:
I am like u oooo I don't take shit when u misbehave I tell u plainly nd that's why some people do see me as an arrogant person, even my man is aware of that where he is suppose to take action he won't he is just too quiet nd it's kind of giving me concern am always the one gingering him I really don't give a hoot about any godamn person. Am living my life the way I was created.

How were u created?? To be hot headed...

You will go far in life.
But always work in the right direction though.

Know your limit sometimes esp when it come to your helpers(boss etc). But still don't let them underpay or cheat you.


You are Good!

Silentgroper:
How were u created?? To be hot headed...

Am a bit hot tempered. Am harsh shaaa

Same reason Nairalanders attack Nwaimekpe

Prettygirl200:
Am a bit hot tempered. Am harsh shaaa

it seems obvious.. Lol..

Silentgroper:
it seems obvious.. Lol..

how is it obvious, have u been observing me?? Though it's my weakness,

Prettygirl200:
how is it obvious, have u been observing me?? Though it's my weakness,

I read people's behavioural pattern ;P .. So i could tell. Ok, that was a lie but u seem pretty hot tempered on this forum na. I've nt been observing u but ur comments on this forum na fire.. D only day i saw u calm was d day one bros been wan dey chyke u..

Silentgroper:
I read people's behavioural pattern ;P .. So i could tell. Ok, that was a lie but u seem pretty hot tempered on this forum na. I've nt been observing u but ur comments on this forum na fire.. D only day i saw u calm was d day one bros been wan dey chyke u..

Ewooo which bros u no well, I can be friendly I only get angry when u get on my nerves. It's my weakness but M good in every other side. It is well.

You are just like me. It is better you speak out or stay silent/cheated forever

Prettygirl200:
I am like u oooo I don't take shit when u misbehave I tell u plainly nd that's why some people do see me as an arrogant person, even my man is aware of that where he is suppose to take action he won't he is just too quiet nd it's kind of giving me concern am always the one gingering him I really don't give a hoot about any godamn person. Am living my life the way I was created.

Everybody cannot be like you.
You gingering him to be outspoken, whereas he is not asking you to do otherwise.

That's why we have different temperament.

jericco1:


Everybody cannot be like you.
You gingering him to be outspoken, whereas he is not asking you to do otherwise.

That's why we have different temperament.

yeah I know since am like this every guy I do meet are always quiet and it keeps me Wondering

Prettygirl200:
yeah I know since am like this every guy I do meet are always quiet and it keeps me Wondering

You should be happy.

That's is the perfect combination of temperament.

You that is short fused want someone that is like you? That doesn't sound good

jericco1:


You should be happy.

That's is the perfect combination of temperament.

You that is short fused want someone that is like you? That doesn't sound good

yeah u are right Any ways it's fine