victooman:
please l need a sincere and a sound advice,

family problems, money worries, tragedy and more Wahala will always face a man till he dies but it might take you another 15 years to meet a woman you love and can actually function with. Mark the word FUNCTION.

DorianD:
Why not share ur concerns with her.Leave no stone unturned and ur fears behind

bukky1994:
Where is this op from, see no marry that girl because age is not on her side, no be you cause am, she is motivating u so you can marry her asap, u still have younger ones, you better face your life and hustle by 30 u will still get a good woman there are many out there because if that girl gets to 30 and you too 30, u will find her unattractive because she mist have depreciated girls no dey finish my bro and to think of it, she is older than u, na when u marry am u go sabi wetin dey sup

victooman:
please my attraction is not base on the assertion you are highlighting above,, not every woman is pretending to be good,,, did she tell u men were not asking her out before l came to her? l was the one who intends to marry her and not the other way round,, if l ask her to go now l am sure she wont last upto 6 months as a spinster , because she posses the beauty, intelligent and smartness everyvman is looking for,, l am not looking for younger girls bro, thank u

bukky1994:
mumu why u carry the mata come online since u sabi wetin you wan do

Unzerious:
Not all Dreams are Achievable. You'll have to chose between your Family and Her. Both Decisions will have Repercussions.

If you chose her, She'll never fit into your Family and may likely sever ties between You and your Family.

If you chose your Family, You will Break not just her Heart but Yours.

This isn't the best time to be You, but, I think you should get the Opinions of your Parents and Elders.

victooman:
God punish your father, why u no skip the thread since you have nothing to contribute,,, thank u for ur advice the thread is not for teenagers so u can leave, because if u quote me again with insult u will regret the day u join nairaland

Kirkman:
A lady who did all these for you in this day and age...

"l met and fall in love with the most precious being any man can ever pray for,, she regroom my life, gave me confidence and showed me love, during service year she encourage me to save so we can start a business , as God will have it after service we started our business separately and doing well for ourselves,"

I would only tell you this... you will get another woman "yes" but you will never get another woman like her or even close to her. Do wetin dey your mind, I have no advice to give you.

victooman:
Thank you my brother,,

victooman:
please l need a sincere and a sound advice, what you tell me today may go a long way to determine my future decision,
l am the first son of my family, not just the first son , it took my mother another 10yrs to give birth to another child after me, we are four in numbers,the one following me is 10 years younger than l, am 27yrs and he is 17, the other two are 11 and 9 respectively,, l didn't come from a family that is financially bouyant , so we really struggled with my education, l graduated last year and during the service year l met and fall in love with the most precious being any man can ever pray for,, she regroom my life, gave me confidence and showed me love, during service year she encourage me to save so we can start a business , as God will have it after service we started our business separately and doing well for ourselves, a business that pays 6- 7k on daily basis is honestly not a bad start,,
My problem is this: l am 27yrs and she is 27yrs too ,, in fact she is my senior with like five months,, l know as a woman age is no longer on her side in terms of marriage, we have sat down and discuss our future and l told her as long as she is with me she is someone l intends to marry, my major concern is my family, going by my description above , l have a lot of work to do,, will it be selfish from my side if l went ahead to marry her , because l intends settling down at age 30 or 31,, l just have this deep feelings if l let this girl go l will regret it for the rest of my life,,but base on my analogy will l be able to carry and solve my family problems even at 40,, does that mean l wont get married or settle down? l want to expand my business and go see her people,, but my head is just scattered,, please help me nairalanders,, please lalasticala take this to the front page l need audience,