Ibime:
Raumdeuter polygamy thesis is still valid

But know this, you cannot keep two women under the same roof.

We have a major polygamist in our family and each wife has her own house, and she is responsible for the happiness of her household. Each house is also in a different town. Baba rotates between houses but is in his latest wifes house 90% of the time. The older wives rarely get a visit, but they live with everything they need for them and their children. Baba was a rolling stone. RIP.

Okonkwo lived in his own Obi and Nwoyes mother, Ekwefi and Ojiugo had their own individual Obis. What's understood need not be explained.

ned nwoko says hi

raumdeuter:


izzou come and learn about spanking and stop behaving like village boy from Iseyin

This one is far from beating but closer to BDSM
Ojina si lilu, osumo BDSM

iamoyindamola:

They encourage fetish
The tictok prophet is cele

If it's valid within the tenets of their religion, then there's nothing wrong with it, na just because we dey look this thing from eye of Christians and Muslims we think what they're doing is wrong.

GrammarNazi1:

Maids could do this.

Guy You think a maid can raise your children? Who do you think is going to teach the maid to cook food as you like it? You think a maid who is an employee who can leave at any time has any actual investment in you and your well being?

GloriousGbola:


I was checking the girls thread and wondering about the prominent nose ring. So 21 tracks. But I weak sha. All these genz chicks just dey form. Like wtf does a 20 year old want with a 40 year old? What are they even going to talk about? No wonder madam dey vex.

Is Jarus 40? He looks almost 50.

raumdeuter:


From the receipt posted I saw that the transfers were this year. So the issue of getting 2nd wife na this year sef

Is he still together with the first wife?

They went to Ileya together just few back. He even posted her picture.

raumdeuter:


izzou come and learn about spanking and stop behaving like village boy from Iseyin

😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭

pocohantas:


Nothing honest about beating your wife "a couple of times". That was a serious own goal. Also no woman would take polygamy lying low. Except she had/has her own plans from the beginning. I have a uni mate that went into polygamy fully prepared. She sef na agaracha and she clearly said she can't be with a monogamous man.

I do hope we can all agree that men (and women) grow into their taste of partners as they have more means. As a broke student, I was sure I didn't have a spec in men. It is foolhardy to assume one's husband cannot stray because she built with him.

I am interested in this bold part. How does this work

Do you know any woman who is an expert at building men, I might need to see her for some mentorship

iamoyindamola:

They encourage fetish
The tictok prophet is cele

A lot of those Tiktok prophet are fake(if not all sef). They prey on gullible and desperate people whom they chop their money

GloriousGbola:


Guy You think a maid can raise your children? Who do you think is going to teach the maid to cook food as you like it? You think a maid who is an employee who can leave at any time has any actual investment in you and your well being?

I didn't refer to raising children ooo.

I only talked about hot home cooked food ooo.

Not particularly a maid.

A chef may cook you hot meals.

I wasn't referring to raising children.

TrebleChamp:
Even this treatment dey pain my wife, but men and women dey endure plenty sha...

Na normal thing for marriage.

Theflint1:
Was Jarus attempting to keep both women under one roof?

I'm talking in response to someone mentioning that bringing a second wife home leads to an unhappy home. I won't talk on Jarus situation cos that's his private business and I have his number and already reached out to him offline.

In general and non-specific terms, the man is the one to move out of the house to join his new wife in the new house while his old family stay put. That's my Baba approach

pocohantas:


Is Jarus 40? He looks almost 50.

I believe am older than Jarus. Probably by two to three years. Jarus and Dayo should be same age group

Theflint1:
Exactly, the whole Jarus thing just screams someone who's not experienced enough with women, or doesn't have the personality that makes it possible to handle the fallout of such drama expertly. You carry new wife enter house reason say buying her a few gifts was enough to put things to bed

I think it wasn't fair for Jarus to proceed with the divorce based off seeing his wife do juju sha, but I can understand reacting the way Jarus did if you're the very religious type.

I think he messed up there. You no dey use gentle face start that kain thing. Na boldface dem dey use do am

And its better done when you done get one fight for ground wey you go capitalize on and say you dey leave. iamoyindamola shey you dey take note?

Anyday your wife mocks you because Arsenal lose, na your opportunity be that.

I am going to take a new wife that will support me in my Arsenal support

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/6/man-set-to-marry-new-wife-admits-he-beat-his-first-wife-after-she-refused-to-let-him-exercise-his-islamic-right-to-pick-a-second-wife-2.html

*in davido's voice "


🎵Dem wan to put me for Linda🎵 😬

Omor shit's getting quite serious

https://x.com/Lagosdsva/status/1806671367309594649

pocohantas:


Omo. This polygamy no easy o. This thing is painful, but she didn't have to go that far. Either you stay or you leave.

To be able to leave you have to have something doing. A lot of women are dependent on their men and so in effect they have to take a demotion.

GloriousGbola:


I believe am older than Jarus. Probably by two to three years. Jarus and Dayo should be same age group

Jarus is 41/42.

Ibime:


I'm talking in response to someone mentioning that bringing a second wife home leads to an unhappy home. I won't talk on Jarus situation cos that's his private business and I have his number and already reached out to him offline.

In general and non-specific terms, the man is the one to move out of the house to join his new wife in the new house while his old family stay put. That's my Baba approach

Okay, I get now, but I doubt Raumdeuter said you have to keep both wives separate sha, he spoke in general terms about successful and happy polygamy.

raumdeuter:


I am interested in this bold part. How does this work

Do you know any woman who is an expert at building men, I might need to see her for some mentorship

If Jarùs himself was once all over NL admitting to her influence and support in his growth, he would be in a better position to explain to you how it works and where to find such women.

GloriousGbola:


I believe am older than Jarus. Probably by two to three years. Jarus and Dayo should be same age group

He looks way older than you. I have seen the picture that started the drama and a 40yrs old man shouldn't even play polygamy that way. You don't see Ned jumping upandan Regina's comment section. Comport yourself!

Theflint1:
Omor shit's getting quite serious

https://x.com/Lagosdsva/status/1806671367309594649

Ah s**t

Ishilove:

I really don't see the correlation between his private life and business. His marital issues will not stop me from doing business with him if it ever arises

I strongly recommend you see the movie "Bodied".

BlueRayDick:
Gloriousgbola see what we talked about. This person don bring out calculator calculate the money he press to his wife

He also mentioned she has 2 personal SUVs.

raumdeuter:


I think he messed up there. You no dey use gentle face start that kain thing. Na boldface dem dey use do am

And its better done when you done get one fight for ground wey you go capitalize on and say you dey leave. iamoyi.ndamola shey you dey take note?

Anyday your wife mocks you because Arsenal lose, na your opportunity be that.

I am going to take a new wife that will support me in my Arsenal support

The whole thing have turn on his head
No one is saying she's fetish but they all concentrate on the beating part
Omo otilo

GloriousGbola:


To be able to leave you have to have something doing. A lot of women are dependent on their men and so in effect they have to take a demotion.

Omor...I doubt the needs of e GenZ babe go dey in any shape or form similar to the needs of e more traditional first wife.

liveLongNprospa:
😂😂😂

I'm really disappointed and feel embarrassed.
Known Jarus for more than 15 years, didn't/ never saw this part of him.
A big lesson for all, don't send that message if you're angry.
He's about using his own hands destroy all that he built.
Marrying the second wife is the least of the problem but admitting to DV on Twitter is indefensible.
Even if you did it under provocation, you don't state it on social media.
Felt like crying going through the stories cos man has been successful and so many are envious of him. They will all use this to drag him for years to come.

Theflint1:
Omor shit's getting quite serious

https://x.com/Lagosdsva/status/1806671367309594649

Shiiiiit ! 🤦‍♂️

GloriousGbola:

Ah s**t

It was only a matter of time.

Ballzproblemm:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/6/man-set-to-marry-new-wife-admits-he-beat-his-first-wife-after-she-refused-to-let-him-exercise-his-islamic-right-to-pick-a-second-wife-2.html

*in davido's voice "


🎵Dem wan to put me for Linda🎵 😬

Just look at this old cargo headline, no wonder WizKid they rubbish her
She prey on people's misfortune with that her ads infested site

Theflint1:
Islam needs to be reformed to fit with the demands of modern society, all those talk of perfect religion na rubbish...if you have this many gray areas in a religion and scholars of that religion arguing for an against things that would seem obviously wrong, that religion is overdue reformation.

Christianity from the 18th/19th century is very different from the Christianity of today and that's why we're not having as many issues solely based off the religion.

Bruvv we are threading on dangerous grounds here regarding that religious talk, There are many reforms needed in Islam and other religions but abeg lets drop the religion talk small.

There was a time Seunn made some critical talks about Islam and some people promised him fatwa. Omo Seuun fold all of us sef follow am fold and beg taya. That was some of the issues that led to locking the islamic section

GloriousGbola:


Ah s**t

Admitting to something like that publicly...those feminists no go ever forgive am, dem go wan use am teach others lesson. Na that overzealous in-law start this drama, and probably Jarus' lack of comportment.

Theflint1:
Omor shit's getting quite serious

https://x.com/Lagosdsva/status/1806671367309594649

Obidients are also out for blood
Raumdeuter, oasisx your brother needs you now