I like and even love u

Blessed are the peacemakers for their's the kingdom of God

Of course u ve gonna be a peace maker cos u know i dont joke with u and never hesitate in showing my affectn towards u

My Pendo where are u?

helo?
why are you shouting from the mountain top?
has the wind blown again?

Lmao. Not at all. Just want to be by ur side

Is pendo avoiding me?

Mornin' Pendo!!!

Is it only pendo thats in the house?

Sorry my TOba how are you bro?

Lights,camera,action
**hovering like Voldemort**
anybody online?

yep Lari!

how's you today?

Halo Nayah and guests.

HELLO Sweety how are you today?

hi Pendo,
how is/was work today?

Hmmn I have been reminiscing about my very short,less than 3 decades on earth and I just noticed some people insist on been stubborn,cos they don't know how to change.

wow Lary what a subject! lol

lari03:

some people insist on been stubborn,cos they don't know how to change. 

Now how can you not know how to change?? and change what? the world,behaviour, clothes,diapers    what!

hum Pendo not so harsh oh

Its not funny,if one dies or becomes or a victim as a result.10 years ago,a friend of mine died on my bit,I was lucky,he wasn't and a lot of times,I think if I had been more cautious. . .

ok seriously Lari I have no clue what you are referring to.What killed him?

Behaviour would seem the right word,but am not reckless just strong willed.maybe shy or even soft spoken,so its all boils down to actions taken.
My friend drowned in the lagoon.

Sorry Lari but as Pendo I have no clue either bro

Its not just me, I look around and I see a lot of obstinate people, hanging on to their own views (especially on NL) they go ahead and get their fingers burnt. Look around there's rarely a week that you don't find a new casualty in the romance section.
But then we just won't be human if we could all be reasonable! lol

Lari okay am more lost.

Sorry brother I don't understand your point

What am trying to say is: you tell someone do not do this, and they don't listen. Or do this, and they don't comply. It may seem reasonable to you giving advice, but to the person, it seems like you are cramping their style.People will hang on to their own beliefs because it's theirs until they get hurt. I was guilty of it, and I see many other people doing the same, in  fact I could write a novel about all my escapades and romances with trouble.
(let me stop here and see if you are getting the picture).

Ok let met ask a question, how do you make a strong willed person change attitude or behavior?
(please specify technique)

Lari whats ur mission here? Are u getting at something indirectly?

^^