Pweetiedude:
My cousin is a feminist married to a Simp. The other day she slapped him for a misunderstanding they had and the simp of a husband kept mute.

Na one chance your cousin enter soo.

Novemberaura:


I'm in love with feminist and want to marry her.

I'm asking cux I just want other people view

I hope you know Chimamanda Adichie is a feminist, but she has been married for many years?

What is your understanding of a feminist and feminism?

In love already? Your salvation is far...

Novemberaura:


I'm in love with feminist and want to marry her.

I'm asking cux I just want other people view

Freelane33:

May peace be upon you and your households.
Big bro ,There is nothing like feminist in the real world . If you marry your match i.e someone that matches your energies in all ramifications of life . We only talk about alphaness , feminism and other when we are already on the bad side of life .
That’s why we ( human ) needs to stay true to our personal self and intentions
Before you go into relationship
Ask yourself few questions
Do I really love her ?
Is she exactly what I want
And tell her to ask herself the same
If anyone faults the questions and ride on because of the benefits he or she is expecting or looking at , the fellow must be ready to face the consequences.
We are living in the world of consequences
You do good or you do bad , you’re finna face da consequences.
May peace be upon you once again

I love you already .

Death to all simps

Kollins11:
Retàrd.

This your pains is increasing everyday don't worry you will heal okay!

I pray a SIMPle idiotic fool will marry you before the end of this month okay.

Death to all simps.

Kobojunkie:
Submission is instead God's curse on marriage in the bible and only those who don't wish to enter God's presence live under the curse - Genesis 3 vs 16b. So I take it that your source is the Quran. Am I to also to assume then that you live your life by Islamic tenets?

Staying consistent to your lame logic….That a man must work before he eats and that a woman must labor before she gives birth are part of the curse.
Question: Are those who entered “God’s presence “ exempted from these too?

Why do you stick to whats not working?
Feminism according to study is the largest cause of frustration among young women. Not mentioning the broken marriages.

Kobojunkie:
Men don't submit because?

Women are to submit because?

stop derailing this thread with your foolishness before I locate you and do make my hands touch you.
Your stupidity on this forum is nauseating

Novemberaura:


Please detail me why

I want to know the reason why you make this assertion

I wan learn.

I mean if she really loves you.


Sometimes I feel most feminist are born out of severe heartbreak and disappointment from men.

Stop listening to all these boys I beg you. There's nothing like feminism dear. Because an average African man wants a woman he will treat like a child, that's why they label any woman that stands for her right a feminist.

Human beings don't submit except you are a slave. Treat people the way you would want to be treated, that's all the so called feminists ask for including myself. Share expenses together, distribute shores etc. It takes efforts from both man and woman to make marriages work not the woman alone as most guys see it.

I'm enjoying my marriage o. 11+ in marriage

desireoge:


Stop listening to all these boys I beg you. There's nothing like feminism dear. Because an average African man wants a woman he will treat like a child, that's why they label any woman that stands for her right a feminist.

Human beings don't submit except you are a slave. Treat people the way you would want to be treated, that's all the so called feminists ask for including myself. Share expenses together, distribute shores etc. It takes efforts from both man and woman to make marriages work not the woman alone as most guys see it.

I'm enjoying my marriage o. 11+ in marriage

Hahahahaha Orisirisi.

Kobojunkie:
You watched your mother submit to your father and you never once felt to ask her why she did what she did?

Sorry, my father and mother were both educated partners in their relationship.

I love you dear

blinking001:

I never had to ask because she was properly loved and cherished by my father. Being a nurse didn't stop her from submitting to my dads authority as the man of the house. For the records they are both highly educated too.
So what stopped your mother from submitting to your father's authority?

Submitting to your dads authority? Is your dad her God? Irritating I must say! Whatever happened to mutual understanding between man and woman. They should respect each other dear. If the submission works for them let it be. I can't submit o, I can only respect my partner because I love him. I'm not a baby now!

With all your comments here, you are simply DULL!!!

Kobojunkie:
I don't listen to your Oprah or anyone on issues so please don't expect me to argue any of their claims.

My question to you remains. You claim feminists all have hidden agendas that fall under the two categories you listed, yet I can pick about 10 random threads on romance section from this week alone that were created by guys who never used the word "feminist" to describe their womem/gal friend. Yet all 10 complaints have something to do with the women using them for at least one of the reasons stated in those two categories you claim apply mostly to feminists, how come?

frozen70:


What exactly do you want her to submit

her self esteem I gues . The men on this forum have low IQ true true

Feminism by itself is just that women and men both deserve dignity and mutual respect as equals. Some women do act closer to a "female supremacist" but thankfully this is rare. Though it is tempting, try to not let this "vocal minority" - that being female supremacists - define the label of feminist. Technically speaking, feminism just means equality of the sexes and no supremacy can exist with this definition.

Feminist women make good partners and are typically more intelligent. There is nothing like a woman with a body AND mind that excites you. Intelligence and humor are so strongly related and I thank God my wife makes me cry with laughter from her wit!

As a country we are very far behind rich and powerful nations when it comes to gender. Feminism has made the western countries rich and hold back so many ones like nigeria. If more women were career oriented here instead of just baby-machines, maybe we would not have a terrible population boom that will cause so much tension and instability in the coming years.

God help us.

Isi odikwa Onye nma ? !!!!! Please when last did you check your manhood ? Go and recheck

Kobojunkie:
Men don't submit because?

Women are to submit because?

Novemberaura:
Is there anyone here married to a feminist lady.

I need inputs.

What are the challenges and benefits. Is it really as awful as people say it is

Why do feminist ladies end up not married or have failed marriages.

As long as she is playful, you will enjoy her. If not

Kobojunkie:
Oh, I see now! Feminists don't submit, and the some is you can't submit yourselves, but expects the females to submit to you on grounds that they are females. I get it now!

Yes that's what he said. Now let's give you the "repeaters are stùpid" award

Novemberaura:
Is there anyone here married to a feminist lady.

I need inputs.

What are the challenges and benefits. Is it really as awful as people say it is

Why do feminist ladies end up not married or have failed marriages.

Yeah I married a feminist kind of woman

She didn't show it all before wedding

But she knew I was a very stubborn Man and that I was very tough. During our courtship, she wanted to show somehow, omo I threw the sink on her.
I finished her that day
She blocked my line

I boned her
She later called reporting she blocked my line
That she is finding it hard to unblock it
I yabbed her that this is a warning not to block my line again

We later got married

The good thing was she wasn't promiscuous at all
Never Sabi man before
I married her a virgin, intact.

She is extremely resourceful
Very hard working, infact works harder than many men I know

Can cook very very well
Extremely organized, keeps pushing me to be my best

The beginning wasn't easy
We so much quarrelled

Infact a time, she went to her dad's house
I even wanted to end the thing
But we later settled

I learnt that with women, you need patience to marry them

Now we are understanding each other more
Being there for each other more

I used to call her my grace of God

Because honestly if it was based on my past
I never deserved such Lady

A woman not promiscuous
With all I hear from men today

I no dey worry for that side at all

That's my story

djon78:


Yeah I married a feminist kind of woman

She didn't show it all before wedding

But she knew I was a very stubborn Man and that I was very tough. During our courtship, she wanted to show somehow, omo I threw the sink on her.
I finished her that day
She blocked my line

I boned her
She later called reporting she blocked my line
That she is finding it hard to unblock it
I yabbed her that this is a warning not to block my line again

We later got married

The good thing was she wasn't promiscuous at all
Never Sabi man before
I married her a virgin, intact.

She is extremely resourceful
Very hard working, infact works harder than many men I know

Can cook very very well
Extremely organized, keeps pushing me to be my best

The beginning wasn't easy
We so much quarrelled

Infact a time, she went to her dad's house
I even wanted to end the thing
But we later settled

I learnt that with women, you need patience to marry them

Now we are understanding each other more
Being there for each other more

I used to call her my grace of God

Because honestly if it was based on my past
I never deserved such Lady

A woman not promiscuous
With all I hear from men today

I no dey worry for that side at all

That's my story

It's really comforting reading your input. I'm at a fix,I don't want to go back on my plans to Marry her but I feel skeptical cuz she said alot of guys who came to marry her in the past also left under funny circumstances. Probably because the couldn't put up with her feminism.

I feel I might be turning a blind eye to a potentially catastrophic sign. I come from a broken home so I know why am so afraid of marriage

realmindz:


Op, can u see the way this poster is jumping all over the thread like a rottweiler.

Love is not about battle for supremacy, being with a feminist will drain out your energy. The moment you are supposed to be enjoying your companionship and life, you wil be busy researching vocabularies for your next arguments.
U can keep them as friends but never as partners. Just see them as your fellow guys

This is the story of my life..
Although I'm still hoping to watch her grow Cox she's currently still leaving in fantasy, she never see real life. Bleep self I no dey see. All our talking are all abt[code][/code] serious serious discussion, so I have to be in good up senses to even make fun chat, it has to be deliberately Intelligent chat and it suck not even after a stressful day, na to task my brain dey chat serious serious, no fun chat, I do watch my typing, watch my vocab Cox I also don't want to fuckup so as to avoid savage emotional insult, she can question any form of joke, something she could have just laughed off but for where, she can give savage clapback , I just tire. But she's a good girl career wise which attracted me to her, everyone likes her vibe , hardworkings and co but her private social life sucks, she sometimes admit this. She's just 23, So I'm still hoping with time, she LL come to her senses that there is more to life than been rigid.

For now I get my bleeps, funny chat, companionship with side chicks. So I no too really dey bother her till she get sense, then which I LL discard other secret relationship for her.

Kobojunkie:
Submission is instead God's curse on marriage in the bible and only those who don't wish to enter God's presence live under the curse - Genesis 3 vs 16b. So I take it that your source is the Quran. Am I to also to assume then that you live your life by Islamic tenets?

You are always saying nonsense..

Kollins11:
Babe, why are you in severe pains?

Well, I blame SIMPs who are getting married to all these evening Nigerian newspapers feminist wh*res.

One foolish simp got married to Rita Dominic, now i heard that one idiotic Simp is about to get married to Mercy Chinwo... That evening newspaper coded runz babe disguising as minister of God to her gullible followers.

Death to all simps

Mercy Chinwo will be 32 this year. Spare her abeg. She just barely spent 2 years as evening Newspaper unlike the 35+ and 40+ year olds bitter feminist here

Pakwel:

This kodojunkie girl am sure no one loves her. And she's ugly and no one has bleeped her in years. That's why she's so agresive. No one can win with this lady

Imagine marrying someone like kobojunku. U will emotionally b in trouble all d days of ur life.

Novemberaura:


I'm in love with feminist and want to marry her.

I'm asking cux I just want other people view

I pity you. The choice of a spouse is one of the most important decisions you'll ever make. Love is important but compatibility, ideologies , character are more important if you'll want to live long . Feminists are not worth it at all, they'll cheat , they'll challenge you, compete against you rather than supporting you.


As a man you must be able to separate emotions from logic. You'll meet another girl that you'll love more than her

Novemberaura:



It's really comforting reading your input. I'm at a fix,I don't want to go back on my plans to Marry her but I feel skeptical cuz she said alot of guys who came to marry her in the past also left under funny circumstances. Probably because the couldn't put up with her feminism.

I feel I might be turning a blind eye to a potentially catastrophic sign. I come from a broken home so I know why am so afraid of marriage

See with woman
You need to pray to God to help you

I have been with very submissive women

But most times they may not really push you to be your best

It's all marrying a mixture of both

And also coming from mens perspective
Many men are weak

A man is meant to be firm and stubborn but at same time able to listen to his woman and apologize when needed

But most times we have very weak men that can't stand there ground

So first pray, consult God

Prayers helped me to avoid destroyers

There is a woman you marry

You will never amount to anything

My wife has made me better all round

Kollins11:
Babe, why are you in severe pains?

Well, I blame SIMPs who are getting married to all these evening Nigerian newspapers feminist wh*res.

One foolish simp got married to Rita Dominic, now i heard that one idiotic Simp is about to get married to Mercy Chinwo... That evening newspaper coded runz babe disguising as minister of God to her gullible followers.

Death to all simps

Pls what makes her a runs babe? Prove your point.

Echoban:


This is the story of my life..
Although I'm still hoping to watch her grow Cox she's currently still leaving in fantasy, she never see real life. Bleep self I no dey see. All our talking are all abt[code][/code] serious serious discussion, so I have to be in good up senses to even make fun chat, it has to be deliberately Intelligent chat and it suck not even after a stressful day, na to task my brain dey chat serious serious, no fun chat, I do watch my typing, watch my vocab Cox I also don't want to fuckup so as to avoid savage emotional insult, she can question any form of joke, something she could have just laughed off but for where, she can give savage clapback , I just tire. But she's a good girl career wise which attracted me to her, everyone likes her vibe , hardworkings and co but her private social life sucks, she sometimes admit this. She's just 23, So I'm still hoping with time, she LL come to her senses that there is more to life than been rigid.

For now I get my bleeps, funny chat, companionship with side chicks. So I no too really dey bother her till she get sense, then which I LL discard other secret relationship for her.

She won't change! She won't change! She won't change!

They can only get worse with more money and success , dude be wise

bigtt76:
They are lovely people to be with unlike the perception painted by Nigerian online feminists. Women who are feminists only want to be treated equal as men nothing more than that. They want to be in charge of their choices - don't foist your will on them or try to make them look like a pity party or grant them concessions just because they are females. If you abide by their rules, trust me you go love die

Pls elaborate more on this. An average Man naturally have ego and authoritarian, territorial issue, So how do u deal with this with u marrying a man and still want to be in charge of ur choice?? Cox that's the major reason many of them are single, divorce Cox they can't mingle their choice under a man territory.

I'm currently dating one, too much career doings , no fun chat as she's always all abt Intelligent chat, make joke and see her savaging u, question u unnecessary on something she can just laugh off, All d relationship joy/companionship I currently get are from chicks, I'm only still hoping she LL change Cox she's still young, as she never see life...

Kobojunkie:
Oh, I see now! Feminists don't submit, and the some is you can't submit yourselves, but expects the females to submit to you on grounds that they are females. I get it now!

Feminists should marry themselves, it's that simple. It's the duty of a wife to submit to her husband. A husband's responsibility to his wife is love. That's how the Bible ordained it. Two captains cannot run a ship. You must submit to your husband, that's what you owe him while he owes you love. Any woman who can't submit to her man should marry herself.

I'm not saying you should be a doormat to your man. Have dignity, self respect and self love. Choose a man that respects and loves you. When you find him, give him total submission.

Novemberaura:
Is there anyone here married to a feminist lady.

I need inputs.

What are the challenges and benefits. Is it really as awful as people say it is

Why do feminist ladies end up not married or have failed marriages.

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As long as you truly understand that feminism is synonymous with frustration, you will be ok.

/

Ishilove:

I hope you know Chimamanda Adichie is a feminist, but she has been married for many years?

What is your understanding of a feminist and feminism?

Have u seen her husband? Nigga look like pussy simp God forgive me, e sure na him go dey cook, watch plate , watch cloth for that house