Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,207,189 members, 7,998,115 topics. Date: Saturday, 09 November 2024 at 07:48 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Religion / Does God Approve Dating? (8802 Views)
Does God Approve Dating? / Does God Favor Some People Over Others? / How Does God Talk to People? (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by Nobody: 11:58am On Jul 25, 2011 |
paris10:That Means you haven't been reading other comments? Oya , back to page one and come back and make a more rational statement! Why do you think it's the BELIEVER'S responsibility to "prove" the topic, when YOU are the one making the opposing challenge? Preposterous, Right? |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
claremont:Who Decides which society's idea is RIGHT? |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by claremont(m): 12:03pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
pendo89:I used Nigeria as a case study to reflect the stark reality happening in the greater Africa continent. You said "well to some extent", that is your own opinion based on the knowledge available to you at the moment. The facts of the matter is that there is a worldwide negative correlation between religion and development i.e. the most religious societies are the least developed, while the least religious societies are the most developed; that is a documented fact, whether anyone believes in this fact or not does not change the fact that a fact is a fact! Human beings have basic human feelings which has been nurtured in us throughout decades of evolution, why should we now call upon a deity before we express something that is inherent in us?! Does the lion pray before it attacks it's prey? Does the polar bear pray before it goes into hibernation? Does a baby pray before it is born? God did NOT make man, but alas, religious archaeologists themselves have proven beyond every modicum of reasonable doubt, that God was made by man! |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by pendo89(f): 12:21pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
I am not discussing evolution or proof of anything with you.Nope. All I know is we cannot blame God for our own mess.Most of Africa was 'discovered'(I use that word carefully so understand it well) by the religious missionaries. They opened schools ,churches etc. Tht was development.I agree we may have overlooked a few factors because they ended up colonising us. Fast forward.God is development conscious.We are the ones who use religion as a scapegoat.Many 'pastors' take advantage of people's ignorance to brainwash and make them their own puppets.BUT not every believer gets deceived some are too wise. Maybe you meet the wrong ones,the lazy ones who believe more in miracles than hardwork,who believe in seeing God in every lil thing they do,who believe God resides in mountains,who believe in falsehood. Are your leaders christians? The policy makers, are they believers? Then where is God to blame in our mess? We are underdeveloped due to many factors and religion is not even among the top 20. Now lets not derail the thread. |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by claremont(m): 12:27pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
pendo89:Like the Poster of this thread, perhaps?! Inasmuch as I will like to take you up on this issue with my facts, I agree we shouldn't derail this thread, since some persons still prefer to continue in darkness rather than coming to the light of knowledge. Any time you open a new thread that talks about correlation between development and religion, let me know. P.S: I think I am "falling-in-love" with the eyes on your profile pics, captivating! |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by pendo89(f): 12:41pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
Did you say 'falling in love'?? How are you capable of doing that? You are alien rem?You amaze me! And yes I want you to keep falling in love with my one eye till you discover that it truly exists!! coffee now. |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by claremont(m): 12:49pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
pendo89:I amaze myself sometimes |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by Nobody: 12:54pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
claremont:I Ask again, and you refuse to answer, again. WHO DETERMINES WHICH SOCIETY IS RIGHT? You've been blabbing away about human beings and the basic human feelings Nurtured in us and how they are inherent Blah Blah Blah… Can NATURE, account for LOGIC? Nature is defined for humans by the five senses: Touch, Smell, Sight, Hear, Taste. How about THINKING? DO YOU THINK? WHY DO YOU THINK? WHERE DOES THINKING COME FROM? THINKING is not a SENSE found in NATURE, Right? Thus you cannot use it for any basis for THOUGHT or LOGIC. . . . |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by claremont(m): 12:59pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
sexkillz:I will answer all this on one condition, you will have to chip in a good word or two on my behalf to Pendo89 mate. I think I have "fallen-hopelessly-in-love" with her eyes, it's really captivating, or don't you think?! Do this for a bruv, and I will answer all your questions! |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by pendo89(f): 1:05pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
Sexkillz!!! did you hear that? Claremont falling in love!! Its official now. Claremont believes in love and that alone is a[b] miracle![/b]! Two things!! love and miracles! Now claremont seriously,how do you fall in love with my eyes? Okay its allowed they are just eyes after all. When you are done falling for them kindly let me know. |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by claremont(m): 1:07pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
pendo89: The eyes are the window to the soul mate, an eye tells a lot about someone, or don't you think?! BTW "God" has approved Claremont dating Pendo89, I am sure this has his stamp of approval! |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by pendo89(f): 1:11pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
DERAIL.!! Now you believe in God too? LOVE MIRACLES AND GOD?? Thank you God for my eyes then! Claremont was blind but now can see! Gosh we have thoroughly derailed this. lets meet on another thread. cheers! am off now |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by DBestDoc(f): 1:19pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
We've derailed enough already. Back to topic.My opinion-God does not forbid dating rather he forbids those activities(pre-marital sex included)92% of dating partners indulge in while dating.If we can only date without doing some silly things only married couples should do,then it is OK. I wish we can all read the book [b]DATING WITH PURE PASSION. by Myles Monroe[/b]Then some confused peeps here will ve more pure and godly insight on dating. |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by claremont(m): 1:21pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
pendo89:I will not let you off so easily with this your below-the-belt comment. I am not blind and never have been; on the contrary, it is the "love" adherents who have always said that "love" is blind, so they must be the one's who are blind then. |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
Its Interesting to know that Most Nigerians don't believe in God, some have been stretching the issue to angles that he doesn't inter-fer into Human relationships. . . WTF!! All thanks to Mormonism, Atheism, Paganism, Hinduism, Buddhism, Islam and Rastafari which have succeeded in Blinding some of my country men. Anyway, Opinions are not restricted and i keep on saying that only Peeps like Atreides, Sexkillz, Babe and Pendo have provided me with the best Answer i need to hear. Hope those who thinks that God doesn't inter-fer in human's Bullshi*ts goes on doing the wrong thing. . . .We all have got the last day to be summoned!! *Cheers* |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by Nobody: 2:16pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
Does God approve two unmarried fellows dating? Yes, God does approve it. Reference- Joseph and Mary were dating before they got married Down to extents of Kissing and Romancing, are they all enacted in the 'Dos' of the creator?!This is not allowed in Christianity. Reference- Joseph NEVER knew Mary and she remained a virgin. Her virtuousness (among others) made her to find favour in God's sight. |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by BigMeat2: 2:43pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
Let all things be done with decency and in order - including dating. |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by tEsLim(m): 3:19pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
When you are educated you are a new being , else you just let your parents waste all the money spent on education if you are going to keep believing some people from 2000 years ago and what they believed in. Why did you go to school then. @ClareMont - they're educated but chose to wear the hat of ignorance/religion over knowledge and liberation of the mind. |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by Nobody: 3:21pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
Did Joseph and mary date each other back then? i want to know |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by Nobody: 3:28pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
tEsLim: Wow!! So tell me which School [Theological or Educational] that teaches u that "God is too busy to interfer into human relationships"? |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
toba:Thought you said you were a theologian? |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by Nobody: 3:36pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
tEsLim:Which school you come go oga? ITK |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by nglevis(f): 3:39pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
yes it is good to avoid making mistakes |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by paris10: 3:50pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
sexkillz: You're right @sexkillz, enough good reasonings on the topic already. Nigerians are very intelligent people. We don't need any more gullible Xians |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by Nobody: 3:54pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
sexkillz: Atheists are evrywhere!! They get educated at home |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by claremont(m): 3:57pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
I see this thread has been flung into the Religious section of Nairaland by the MODs , deservedly so if you ask me. Now we are free to argue about the sheer folly a belief in religion is! |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by 2Praise: 4:37pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
Great topic. |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by pendo89(f): 4:40pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
claremont. Lol I wasnt aiming there Just a joke take it easy.I donthave strength left to argue more on this. I do say die at times. |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
Yipee! Finally out of ROMANCE SECTION! I"M OUT! I only LOVE! Kill ya selves people!!!! |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by claremont(m): 4:56pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
sexkillz: pendo89:Great to know this thread has been swung to the domain where I hold sway, RELIGION!!! Of course 90% of the former posters will run away now that they have seen that the "Calvary" has arrived, but who cares anyway, at least now we will have posters who will provide a theistic/atheistic opinion on this issue . |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by pendo89(f): 5:36pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
well I need something fresh.I dont see anything interesting in Romance at the moment. Will just read. |
Re: Does God Approve Dating? by avosoft: 6:31pm On Jul 25, 2011 |
Contrary to what others have been saying, the simple and quick answer is Yes God approves dating , but wait when you say dating, what exactly do you mean? Dating - it usually refers to the act of meeting and engaging in some mutually agreed upon social activity in public, together, as a couple. (wikipedia). Courtship -A period during which a couple develop a romantic relationship, esp. with a view to marriage. (wikipedia). boyfriend - A boyfriend is a person's regular male companion in a romantic and/or intimate relationship, although normally not in long-term committed (e.g. marital) . (wikipedia). girlfriend - A girlfriend can refer to female partner in a non-marital romantic relationship .(wikipedia). If the first two is what you are asking about, then YES God approves it. But note that even these can become disapproved once sexual-relation or similar is involved. Sex is a thing for only legally married couples. (Matthew 5:28). for the fact that you see everybody doing it does not mean that it is right. Many people steal, but it does not make it right As for the last two, the answer to your question is NO. (1 Corinthians 6:9) These laws are for our own protection, i guess if people adhere to these laws, there will be fewer or not sexually transmitted disease, motherless or fatherless children. etc think twice before you indulge in sex. |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (Reply)
Do You Think Jesus Is God? If Yes Then Answer These Questions / I Don't Want To Marry A Christian Or Religious Person. / What Are The Differences Between Roman Catholics And Protestants?
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 61 |