YoudeyVexme:
When asking for help from someone been monetary assistance....if you don't have to give or don't want to...I prefer been ignored.
no need writing me back.

just read and ignore.

trust me I respect you more.

But writing me back to tell me lies you don't have, when you and I know you do is painful and annoying.


So tell me guys which do you prefer?

please tell me no, it is better than keeping quiet.

Will share my story as regards this

See this Serial begger.

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BoredBerry:
Depends...

Ignoring someone asking for aid i disrespectful...

If you don't have... Just say so...

If you have but you can't or wouldn't give... Say no too...

No one is entitled to another person's money... It would hurt but atleast I would know that I shouldn't ever ask you again... Either I'm being a pest or I'm not worth helping... It's good to know

90 percent ignore

nazicartel:
Haa. For me . Sometimes I reply. Sometimes I ignore. It all depends on my mood and the person asking. Not all these ppl that will write you anytime they are in need of something.
But if I'm asking for someone. I prefer you reply and tell me you don't have than not replying my message actually

If it's a lady I will ignore. If it's my fellow guy I will explain things to him. I don't give ladies money. They only lady I give money is my closest female friend, which she doesn't ask for , I always insist. I no get gal friend. Bcus when I no get money no gal accept me.

YoudeyVexme:
When asking for help from someone been monetary assistance....if you don't have to give or don't want to...I prefer been ignored.
no need writing me back.

just read and ignore.

trust me I respect you more.

But writing me back to tell me lies you don't have, when you and I know you do is painful and annoying.


So tell me guys which do you prefer?

Entitled mf, whatever my reply is shouldn't be your business.....go and work for your own money if you're gonna be a proud mf....usually to peeps like you I ignore and den tell you God go give you.

PerfectStranger:
Lol I prefer the beautiful lies “ I don’t have” than being ignored.
But me I Dey ignore people sha than telling them I don’t have

We full here! Lol

Ignore and sometimes block the person if the calls/messages are becoming too much.

It depends on who is asking though. Some people do not deserve a proper reply, so it is OK to be rude sometimes.

vickydevoka:

If it's a lady I will ignore. If it's my fellow guy I will explain things to him. I don't give ladies money. They only lady I give money is my closest female friend, which she doesn't ask for , I always insist. I no get gal friend. Bcus when I no get money no gal accept me.

Didn't even bother adding girls to the list because I don't give them. Apart from my mum and sisters. I hardly release money to girls like that. They tag me stingy. But still doesn't want to leave the stingy boy ... I have a girlfriend. I give her ones ones ... She's not really demanding. She has her own business...

Lol.. I prefer telling de lies than ignoring outrightly.. but both de pain sha

I prefer you tell me you don't have, even if is a lie. Is so annoying and embarrasing to be ignored like that. If am sure you read my message and ignore me, will delete you from my contact list. I am not the begging type and is hard for me to ask for help.

Laggafin:
Lol.. I prefer telling de lies than ignoring outrightly.. but both de pain sha

ava make them do something for me
even if na 5h

Spizzy1:

We full here! Lol

Ignore and sometimes block the person if the calls/messages are becoming too much.

5h chairman.. agbeg.
people don too ignore me

I would reply you to take your lazy ass to go and work.
There is lot of money outside there.

I treat others the way I want to be treated

If nah my guy , bro no get

If nah random guy , I no get

If nah girl wey I dey in good terms with and wey dun ty for me. ahhh bby me no get ooo I dun use am do something, I fit reason anyhow eee go be, that nah if at all

If nah just mutual girl and no bahd string, I no get babe

If nah girl wey I no dey in good terms with , I'll ignore your papa or ask for doggy if she disturb me

BoredBerry:
Depends...

Ignoring someone asking for aid i disrespectful...

If you don't have... Just say so...

If you have but you can't or wouldn't give... Say no too...

No one is entitled to another person's money... It would hurt but atleast I would know that I shouldn't ever ask you again... Either I'm being a pest or I'm not worth helping... It's good to know

I like this.

juman:
I would reply you to take your lazy ass to go and work.
There is lot of money outside there.

big man if person not chop him not fit work

Any small thing for your boy, before I create this topic so them don ignore me tire

nazicartel:
Didn't even bother adding girls to the list because I don't give them. Apart from my mum and sisters. I hardly release money to girls like that. They tag me stingy. But still doesn't want to leave the stingy boy ... I have a girlfriend. I give her ones ones ... She's not really demanding. She has her own business...

Ladies genuinely love their family, especially elder ones, so I give me sisters alot. Only this year I find give dem pass 400k. And I'm happy. If na random girl I for no forgive myself. Me and one de talk yesterday, na so she emotionally say make I send something for her, na so I emotionally tell her I get project at hand. Same gal way stingy pass obi get mind de ask person for 100k. I ask dis same gal last two years when I never japa, to give me 5k I go pay her wen salary come she say she don budget de money. Buh finally na my gist partner buh Money no join us. Anything money no, anything gist yes. Especially when I de off from work.

YoudeyVexme:
When asking for help from someone been monetary assistance....if you don't have to give or don't want to...I prefer been ignored.
no need writing me back.

just read and ignore.

trust me I respect you more.

But writing me back to tell me lies you don't have, when you and I know you do is painful and annoying.


So tell me guys which do you prefer?

Ignoring people is perceived to be rude.

What I usually do is respond by saying that I’m quite low on cash at the moment, and that if anything comes up I will reach out to them.

YoudeyVexme:
When asking for help from someone been monetary assistance....if you don't have to give or don't want to...I prefer been ignored.
no need writing me back.

just read and ignore.

trust me I respect you more.

But writing me back to tell me lies you don't have, when you and I know you do is painful and annoying.


So tell me guys which do you prefer?

How do you know if the person is lying. You are worse off

nazicartel:
Didn't even bother adding girls to the list because I don't give them. Apart from my mum and sisters. I hardly release money to girls like that. They tag me stingy. But still doesn't want to leave the stingy boy ... I have a girlfriend. I give her ones ones ... She's not really demanding. She has her own business...

Ladies are the most stingy people on earth. No this and have peace. They use stingy to pent u black. Accept the stinginess and have your peace

YoudeyVexme:

big man if person not chop him not fit work

Any small thing for your boy, before I create this topic so them don ignore me tire

I be poor man also.
I pick euros from street you should also go out and pick nairas.
Go and do whatever people do to get money.

vickydevoka:

Ladies genuinely love their family, especially elder ones, so I give me sisters alot. Only this year I find give dem pass 400k. And I'm happy. If na random girl I for no forgive myself. Me and one de talk yesterday, na so she emotionally say make I send something for her, na so I emotionally tell her I get project at hand. Same gal way stingy pass obi get mind de ask person for 100k. I ask dis same gal last two years when I never japa, to give me 5k I go pay her wen salary come she say she don budget de money. Buh finally na my gist partner buh Money no join us. Anything money no, anything gist yes. Especially when I de off from work.

Nice one. Family first. Always give to your family

Ijaya123:


Ignoring people is perceived to be rude.

What I usually do is respond by saying that I’m quite low on cash at the moment, and that if anything comes up I will reach out to them.

bros 5h na people dey ignore me for o.
I go happy if you run am for me

I consider ignoring someone as rude. It makes most people feel bad, so, if I'm not capable of the favor, I will tell you politely

I prefer replying that you don't have than been ignore... Even if you have to lie about it

[quote author=Ademola47 post=114229810]Simply texting "I don't have" seems to frank and can cause friction in a friendship. I think it'll be okay to say it in a less straightforward way.

Not replying at all is worse. The person can see it as pride, mockery or as being unemotional to their plea. [ We may not be good friends. I like it hitting it on the head straight.]

Immediately u beg me money, na so u go de tell me sorry because I have stories a lot.

Reinamaria:


Childish!

I tell you.

Tribalism123:
Immediately u beg me money, na so u go de tell me sorry because I have stories a lot.

. even if na 1k like the way I won beg you like so.
bros agbegi reconsider