Allisgud:
If u have a good and understanding woman u will not feel it that much,una go soak Garri with joy drink am with happiness

Seunomobo:
My elder sister is married to a man with a very low source of income with three children.....

The thing is the man is not ready to do extra to make extra income for the family.

My sister has been doing odd jobs to ensuring the kids won't suffer...

Now my sister cant help but have a side boyfriend to help with the upkeep of the family, since the husband is utterly useless.....

MrPoe:
I am a single guy living alone though I have aged parents to take care of.

And I must say that the current situation of hardship in Nigeria have made me to give up.

Currently battling suicidal thoughts.

candidbabe:

They brought the hardship upon themselves
Why getting married when you know that, you are not capable of taking care of your wife and kids .
Or is it because of the free sex?

candidbabe:

They brought the hardship upon themselves
Why getting married when you know that, you are not capable of taking care of your wife and kids .
Or is it because of the free sex?

Andolive47:


I earn about N150,000 per month, I realize I can't marry with this salary

Atk1nson:
Not to go back, we've been preaching for Nigerians to vote wisely for over 8 years now.

Many lamentations even by people who supposedly have jobs and earn average. The thing reach everybody las las.

Cant even pick calls from Nigeria anymore because situation hook people, any message you cant drop on whatsapp, forget it.

occfx:


LOL, why not divorce the man and marry the side boy friend since he is the one capable. Lazy women every where

Seunomobo:
My elder sister is married to a man with a very low source of income with three children.....

The thing is the man is not ready to do extra to make extra income for the family.

My sister has been doing odd jobs to ensuring the kids won't suffer...

Now my sister cant help but have a side boyfriend to help with the upkeep of the family, since the husband is utterly useless.....

MrPoe:
I am a single guy living alone though I have aged parents to take care of.

And I must say that the current situation of hardship in Nigeria have made me to give up.

Currently battling suicidal thoughts.

easzypeaszy:
Not every other persons or ppl is lik ur family.
I just pity her bc it's better she divorce n settle wt d so called rescue officer b4 all of una go regret am.
Nawaooo so like dis u kw say 2 dinco dey Bulaba ur sister punny.. U try oo

BigBlackPreek:
At 31 years of age, I've lost interest in women let alone approaching them for friendship

It is like an herculean task for me

I've never had a girlfriend before and many may it difficult to believe...


please is something wrong with me or am I the only one in this kinda situation?

Minjim:
I usually wake feeling wave of apprehension and a fear.
The worry is just too much especially when you have a baby to feed. That one doesn't send.

I've sold all the iron condemned around me already.
And I only survive on hope from reading the Bible

spiritedtete:



You think is by that...how naive are you. So you think people don't crash when the are up there sometimes... there are so many unpredictable side to life no matter how careful you are.... you will weep when you hear some people's story.

Allisgud:
If u have a good and understanding woman u will not feel it that much,una go soak Garri with joy drink am with happiness

Carcinogenic:
I had my first girl friend at 32 barely a year ago and had sex. Today, I make close to 200k monthly and still doubling my hustle. There is nothing wrong with you. Probably you are a discipline person
and working on your goal. You don't need money to f##k a girl below your class. No bi broke boys de give girls belle?. You don't need that distraction now.

Foodhub2023:
At one point der was sth call Shane but right now no more because the kids must eat, rent just expired, school will Soon resume. It's all happening so fast that my heart wil stop breathing at some time but I no God will show forth. Any idea on what I can do for daily income is wellcome please 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏




quote author=DenreleDave post=114303062]To all the men out there that are married and blessed with kids..... How are you coping?

How are you surviving with no job?

How are you surviving with low source of income?

How is your home? How do u keep going despite the hardness?

My experience today seeing a family man is not good ....

I feel so bad that I am so helpless to help forever......

Your sadness will be over... Every difficult thing in your life will be solved... You and ur family will smile......

God bless all struggling married men with responsibilities....

Seunomobo:


Even regret is not new under the sun....

Life continues, we are only here for a while....

benzics:
It may sound harsh, but you have no business going into marriage and starting a family without multiple streams of income and stability to some extent.

Except something happened after the marriage, maybe a loss of a job or setbacks in business, I see no reason why you’re jumping into a marriage when you’re not stable.

But some no go hear, carry wishful thinking dy start family

ceejay80s:

How is he utterly useless ?
U think it's easy to venture into 2 jobs at a time, at least he has something he's doing

montanaguy:
What if you had everything while going into marriage and suddenly, something happened and you lost everything. Won't you buckle up and manage?

Seunomobo:
My elder sister is married to a man with a very low source of income with three children.....

The thing is the man is not ready to do extra to make extra income for the family.

My sister has been doing odd jobs to ensuring the kids won't suffer...

Now my sister cant help but have a side boyfriend to help with the upkeep of the family, since the husband is utterly useless.

Evolutionlove:
We are Coping absolutely fine.

Infact I just gave my Wife N500,000 to go to Market and stock up the house with everything we will need for consumption till December.

I have Paid my children school tuition fees for 2024 season.

I just Deposited N5,000,000 into my Children Trust Fund Account.

This Regime is the best and i keep on praying it will continue to favor me and my family.

Seunomobo:


Trust me when I say she's not lazy, the present job she's doing can never sustain her and her three children...

Because the universe dey work in your favour nor mean say make u open Ur mouth wa, dey all people lazy....