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How To Know If She Is Faking An Orgasm by employer2(m): 1:28pm On Jul 26, 2011 |
Have you ever been in that situation when you just wish you could tell what she is thinking during sex? is she enjoying it? Is she faking it? I've read some pretty shocking studies recently that conclude that almost EVERY woman has at some point in her life faked an orgasm, And many women fake orgasms on a CONSISTENT basis.This is bad news. For all us men. This means, that if you don't know what she's thinking then you could even walk away from sex thinking you've done a good job, when in fact, You've just disappointed her again. Now I'm not trying to get too negative. I don't think all men suck in bed. But I DO think that a lot of men think they're a LOT better than they really are at pleasing a woman. Why else would MULTIPLE surveys of women come out with them saying they fake it so often? The bottom line is there isn't enough knowledge around these days on what to do to give a w pleasure, The kind of pleasure she spends the whole of the next day thinking about. The kind of pleasure that the thought of it itself gets her so excited that if you keep it up for long enough you won't even need pre-intimacy any more because she's just so excited to get the pleasure. But of course you'll do the pre-intimacy most of the time anyway just to ramp up her pleasure some more. So what am I talking about here anyway? Firstly, I want to show you how you can READ THE MIND of your woman during sex. Secondly, when you read her mind something special happens, Your ability to give her pleasure goes up 10 fold. If you know what's REALLY pleasing her and what isn't, giving her an orgasm is simple. You just keep doing what pleases her and stop doing what doesn't. So, Step 1, How to read her mind and tell if she's faking it. When it comes to sex, women don't actually TELL you what they're experiencing. You have to work it out. A woman will rarely say "do this, do that, so I can have an orgasm". But what a woman will do is give you subtle hints through her body language (most of the time not even consciously) whether she likes something or not . You see, in a lot of cases a woman doesn't want to disappoint her man, she doesn't want him to feel bad, she wants him to feel strong and powerful. And so if during sex you're doing something that isn't pleasurable she's pretty unlikely to say "what you're doing at the moment is doing nothing to help me orgasm". What she's more likely to do is let you carry on and try and keep you happy by acting like she's enjoying it. And if after a while you just keep doing whatever you're doing that doesn't please her she will fake an orgasm so that sex can stop. I know this might not seem "rational", but you've got to accept this is how women work. There's no getting round it. This is how they work. And once you accept that 95% of the time a woman won't openly tell you exactly what's going on in the bedroom, you can take advantage of it. Knowing this key distinction can make you into the best lover she's ever had. What you've got to start doing during sex now is NOT look at the super obvious hints she gives you or the things she says, You've got to look deeper. You've got to become fully present and in the moment during sex so you can deeply get in touch with where your woman is at. When you start paying closer attention you may notice some of the following things when your woman experience high levels of pleasure or an orgasm, 1 - Her skin gets hotter 2 - Her nipples become erect 3 - She experiences muscle spams 4 - She thrusts her pelvis into you 5 - She becomes wetter or more lubricated 6 - Her pupils dilate Now if you weren't paying full attention to her could you honestly say you'd have noticed these things? You see, if your woman says "that was really good", but then none of these things happened, that's a pretty good indication that you could be doing a better job. Of course, there are exceptions, but this is a pretty good indicatio of where you're at. On top of that you may also want to look for some of these signs after sex is over, 1 - A white sticky fluid left on your penis (some women release this at points of peak pleasure) 2 - Is she tired? A big orgasm will tire your woman out when she's done 3 - Is she truly satisfied? If you have to ask yourself "is she satisfied?" then the chances are that she ISN'T. If you'd truly satisfied her then you would know. There would be no doubt there and you wouldn't have to ask the question. Anyway, the reason I wanted to give you a whole bunch of different indicators is because it's really important to start paying a lot of attention to where you're woman is at during sex. If you want to give your woman an intense orgasm then the formula is simple. Test out different pleasuring methods until you find one that she responds well to (using the signals I just gave you to figure out if she likes it) and then keep doing the pleasure method she likes at the same intensity until she orgasms. It's really that simple. But to really crack that formula you've got to know what she's experiencing. And when you do, you become a true master in the bedroom. Now you might be wondering, "what are some different pleasuring methods that are likely to get her to respond well?" And that's a great question to ask. |
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