Datboredberri:
The second most stupid comment...

Fish out single mothers...

How does this even make any sense? You're the one who spent years fu** ing anything with a hole... If contraceptives didn't exist, you would be father Abraham... And you think you're in the position to judge?

You want a help mate... Should have thought of that before making yourself a community di**...

I fu**ing hate people like you... If you were smart, women would think you were worth sh** but they don't... Tells a lot...

newbornmacho:


Oga there are many 40 plus in that boat. REST!

Datboredberri:
Karma is a bit**... But I won't judge... Many men are like you... Spend their youth sexualizing women then complain that there aren't any decent women left when they've passed their 'whoring' phase... Who were you fu**ing? Didn't matter then, did it?

You should change your circle... Go places where you would find the sort of women you want... Depending on your interests... Like books, go to the library... An art gallery... Culture? History? Science? Join online groups too...

That way you find someone who would truly appreciate you...

pansophist:


Good answer, but na only women wey get sense go notice or watch out for these things. The smarter she is, the more discerning she becomes about these qualities in a man.

If she is dumb, then money is enough to qualify as a good man. A girl that tells you "I love you" less than 24 hours is probably dumb and should be dumped. It's money and her selfishness she loves and came for, not him.

kartelkid:
Please guys I need to understand something that really bothers me; I sometimes result to smoking to cope with, as I find it really depressing.

In my early days I used to have girlfriends, and it was quite a deal, back then in school.
As I got older I switched to being used to hookups and ashawo; and the sorts, because I realized all I wanted was sex.

Years past, I've outgrown this hookup thing, and value creating relationships with women; which obviously includes sex, but is more serious and could lead to something in future.

What worries me is that despite all my attempts online and offline to find a relationship material woman; I realized that almost all the ladies I toasted wanted nothing but hookup. The moment I appear serious; they disappear or try to play mind games.

Please guys is this a normal thing now in our country, or it's just me experiencing this. It's really sad; and hopeless, as a normal relationship will help my morale and prepare for the future.

Have you found it easy to have permanent relationships without playing the religion card?

michjunior:


How sure are you that timaya and don jazzy are happy being single without a family?? Do u live in their head to know them??

Fantazy:
Don't act too serious at first! As in don't bring marriage into it first.
Just toast and be dating, as time goes on when the love is getting to another level (I hope you know love have levels)

Then you let her know you will like to be more serious, as in engaging her and getting to spend the rest of your life with her (if she's actually the type you want o).
It will be difficult for her to withdraw at this stage.


Even me sef I no get Girlfriend!