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My Babe Is Too Clingy by Brightw278: 10:50pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
Who else is having issues with a clingy girl. I have been in a relationship with my girl for sometime, everything has been going on fine a good girl and all you can desire in a lady. The issue here is she is so clingy, I mean it’s good to be clingy but I think this one is extreme. The nature of my job make me leave house very early and come back late at night. Before I wake up she is calling me, at work she is calling, when I’m back she would have given me 10 missed calls. We talk everyday, but sometimes a man just want sometime to himself, and if I miss just a call I will have to Dey/dx the reason for missing that call, not to talk of the explanations. Every missed calls is always a potential cheating scenario to her. She monitors my movement as Bleep, I have to tell her where I’m going, when I’m coming, even if I’m going to the rest room and I did not tell her she flare up. I don’t think of settling with anybody else as this is only her flaw but how do I reduce this, it’s affecting me a lot, if I’m out with freinds she wants to know them, can’t even speak to femal colleagues at work anymore. How do I go about this m, she is a sweet person. For the records I have never cheated on her before, she checks my phone from time to time too any chat with a female colleague and she is already suspecting me not until I open up the chats for her to read the contents and see we have nothing together. How do you all handle clingy girls it should not look like I’m overreacting 46 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Papichulostunne(m): 10:57pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
End it while you still have your sanity is a good way of permanently reducing it without you looking like you are overreacting. While you may love her, she isnt inlove with you. The word is "OBSESSED". Obsession seem sweet when it starts and as a man your head will swell that the girl love you die. Before you know one day she go bath you acid cause of false suspicions. Or threaten to kill herself that is when you will know you're in a ronaldo "DELIMA".. GET IT.. DELIMA - RONALDO . ![]() ![]() 364 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Natbrowny: 10:59pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
U have ursef an obsessed girlfriend and i am not happy to tell you but i will YOU ARE IN SERIOUS TROUBLE. she could kill u via poison on mere suspicion My Advice - BE RUTHLESS, better to be single than deal with an obsessed partner. Good luck 193 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Geosystem(m): 10:59pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
This is a serious issue. What you have is an unhealthy relationship. It will only get worse if you wife her. Think long and hard about the future of this relationship. Personally, I would call it quit with her. Peace of mind is non- negotiable in any relationship. 66 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by doggedfighter(f): 11:09pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
Isn't she busy? Is she jobless? Why so much time on her hands? 173 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by H0didon(m): 11:10pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
With all of these things that have happened so far and she is still your babe?? Them suppose dey call you Endurance or patience ![]() With everything you've been through in the hands of an obsessed and desperate lady, and you are still alive?? You are a strong man ![]() The elders would say when you see an obsessed/desperate woman on one side of the road and you see snake on the other side,follow the snake side to avoid unforeseen casualties ![]() As our Ancestors would say "There is little or no difference between an obsessed woman and a lion because both are ready to devour when the opportunity arises". 80 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by PrimeWatermark: 11:12pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
Until she sets you ablaze abii 76 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Brightw278: 11:15pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
doggedfighter:still in school, ASUU strike 6 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Brightw278: 11:16pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
Lalasticlala |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by doggedfighter(f): 11:17pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
Brightw278: You are her preoccupation for now. And this can be tiring. Suggest she gets herself engaged with learning something. Just about anything of her interest. Insist she does, if she doesn't want, explain why she should. If it fails. Take a look at yourself and tell yourself the truth only you can tell yourself. 43 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by posty56: 11:21pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
only one way :- breakup , any other way is invalid and prolonging the inevitable where she will either stab you or set you on fire ,fear women 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by RedChiefPriest: 11:22pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
Awww you've gotten yourself an obsessive Ogbanje,so romantic ![]() Brother flee from people that are too obsessive or jealous, they are ticking bomb waiting to go off any minute. People like that reeks of low self esteem,insecurity and trust issue. Flee like that dude that slapped our igwe while he was sleeping inside the Palace, run as far as your legs can carry you. But you can also try and talk to her also maybe she will listen, Na your choice. Dj! 2 kegs of palmwine with peak milk for me Barman! Play me "na so e dey start" by Kelvin Hart and Pasuma. 52 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by PerfectStranger(m): 11:32pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
You’re in prison, not in a relationship. 16 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by duduade: 11:47pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
She's got insecurity issues It's better you thrash it out with her before taking it further in this relationship If she still isn't able to control her obsession about you, then my brother please move on because of your sanity Plenty calm sweet and patient ladies dey 11 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by libertyfather(m): 11:56pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
Those stories of wife killing their husbands starts like this, they are so lovely but misbehave at any slightest provocation and always feel insecure can make life miserable for you at times and they wont leave for any reason....wish i had know all this earlier 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Divay22(f): 11:58pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
I'm i missing something here ![]() |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Vijuchoco(f): 12:13am On Jul 22, 2022 |
Such an affair is unhealthy.. Does she have a job? 6 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by BlaqJosh: 12:21am On Jul 22, 2022 |
enjoy it. |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Exkandayee(m): 12:23am On Jul 22, 2022 |
doggedfighter:Maybe she ugly. ....she no get more niqqas chyking her 7 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Slynation(m): 12:28am On Jul 22, 2022 |
Interesting...!! You have a lot of work to do, leaving such a relationship ain't gonna be an easy task I must tell you, I remembered vividly a friend of mine had a chronic clingy GF like this and she's the type that always threatened to injure/kill herself whenever anything wants to go south, it was so bad to the extent my guy became weak and depressed... He has stylishly introduced the girl to different guys to date but she only wants him, he purposely cheated on her just to end the ship, but babe forgived him without him begging ![]() ![]() To be very honest, I felt for her because her only crime was madly obsessed with my niggi...but there was absolutely no breathing space for my guy and Baba just had to do the needful 71 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Nobody: 1:09am On Jul 22, 2022 |
Natbrowny: sharrap! but u re managing a girlfriend that is worse than OP's own, she has cheated on u and u forgave her but here u re telling a man to dump a girl that Clearly "Loves" him, Op just be open to her and tell her she's the one and mean it, give her the assurance, and for this mumu here typing nonsense don't take advice from kids that their own gf is doing worse, is only on SM u see a man and women that engage in domestic violence, GBV giving advisory 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by czarr(m): 1:34am On Jul 22, 2022 |
Just because she is monitoring you doesn't mean she is not cheating on you, she may just be projecting and throwing you off her scent. I'd advice you to not be deceived with her obsession, investigate her she is probably cheating. 36 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by shege45: 1:36am On Jul 22, 2022 |
Brightw278:you have to clear her. Make you always explain to her that’s why. |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Gadafii: 2:10am On Jul 22, 2022 |
Have you told your clingy girlfriend she’s clingy asf ![]() If not getat of here 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Nobody: 2:11am On Jul 22, 2022 |
BrightW278, correct your babe with love. Let her know she should relax, you are for her. She dey protective her entitlement which is normal. The excesses can be reduced. Papichulostunne:Your brain digressed to offside. 2 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Kobicove(m): 4:55am On Jul 22, 2022 |
You have a possible psychopath on your hands ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Eazie351(m): 5:02am On Jul 22, 2022 |
Clingy is romantic until it gets toxic, this one will tear your female boss or coworker slap, no time. Update: na burn dem dey burn men now o.(3 cases within 2 weeks) 12 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Hacks4dummies: 5:27am On Jul 22, 2022 |
Brightw278:bro.. that's her only flaw right? Sit your woman down and talk to her, try to put yourself in her shoes.. ask her why she does that.. and give her assurance. She would change gradually. If you break up with her cause of only that reason.. you may regret it. You also mentioned that she's sweet. Understanding btw the both of you is what's lacking now. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Hacks4dummies: 5:28am On Jul 22, 2022 |
Sweetplum:same thing I told Op 1 Like |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Newton2024: 5:50am On Jul 22, 2022 |
This is not love but obsession. Obsession is dangerous. Your life is in danger. 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by CuteMaro(m): 5:53am On Jul 22, 2022 |
Your gf is just idle & has so much time in her hands. Get her engaged in something meaningful and interesting. Maybe get her to learn a skill while the strike is till on. That way she gets to be busy, meet new people and also engage in conversations outside her love for you. And please stop letting her check your phone ! As a man you should not be totally predictable by ur woman. It’s called see finish! Once she’s totally sure you can’t ever cheat on her, u become boring & one day she’ll cheat on u with a new and more ‘interesting’ guy & tell you it’s a mistake. Women love who they can’t control / predict…they spend their time trying to figure you out totally and that is what makes it interesting for them. Think of it like trying to win u over everyday. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by gassbee: 6:10am On Jul 22, 2022 |
Brightw278:dis are the type of babes dat wil burn u alive wen she suspects u of cheating, i bliv u av heard of d osun woman dat burn her husband because she suspected her hubby of cheating 5 Likes 1 Share |
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