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Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by ArticleBeast: 3:13am On Jul 24, 2022
Fadafada231:


Alright thank you, I'll take her to different hospital to ascertain her status.
She is right. If you go to govt hospital, they will take your blood sample without telling you what it is for. After some time they will call some people aside, those ones get while others can go

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Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by charlesdainty(m): 3:31am On Jul 24, 2022
If you love her being positive is nothing just follow her to go and register for ARv, within 8 months on constant intake of TLD her viral load will reduce and be undetected.Hiv is like a normal sickness. I work at FMC .people die and suffer cus of shame going to register and people seeing thebug once you visit the days they collect drugs n see people you will be motivated.help her to register n keep it secret btw only 2 of you

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Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by Abbeytoy(m): 3:32am On Jul 24, 2022
I do HIV test almost every 6 months and I don't have any results at home... Though I see the result but them no dey take am home.

Most comments up there don't know thier status, ehs they should know better.

@OP, follow her go if you're no comfortable, but don't expect anyone to bring home the result.

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Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by otigerald: 3:34am On Jul 24, 2022
Be the Man and take charge. Take her to the hospital you choose and both of you should do the test and wait to get the result. That way , it is more transparent.

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Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by dlordy100: 3:40am On Jul 24, 2022
Fadafada231:
Please guys is there anything like involuntary HIV test in a government hospital? I sent my GF to the hospital to check her status and she came back told me with smile on her face that she is negative, I demanded to see the result but she said they didn't give it to her.

I asked her why? She replied me that the man told her that the receipt of the result can't be given to her because it's involuntary test. Hmmm local man is confused


Positive results are withheld by the hospital only negative results are issued out... Carry out ur investigation on her properly and go check ur own status....

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Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by nuelyoyo(m): 3:42am On Jul 24, 2022
All the heart to heart centre I have been to in government hospitals don't give result. They just tell you the result orally, then counsel you.

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Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by ZeroChil: 3:57am On Jul 24, 2022
brightest5050:
Send her to a government hospital you both do the test.

Avoid sex with her by all means
Avoid which sex? Op has been bleepin raw from time immemorial.
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by dragunov: 4:08am On Jul 24, 2022
PerfectStranger:
Involuntary test grin grin

Send her back make she go do voluntary test na. Wakko people everywhere cheesy

It's wacko. Ok?
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by Popesuccess(m): 4:11am On Jul 24, 2022
oluplus:


I'm sure the result is in your file. If you had asked for it, they would have given you a copy.
Op, no dulling oo
The woman that was doing that test was not part of the hospital staff, is like a seperate government agency or private organisation. Though i'm not trying to defend the lady o, people can be dubious sometimes.
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by crackhouse(m): 4:13am On Jul 24, 2022
Yes. She did the test on her own and was not sent by any doctor or hospital to do it so she may not need a written result... such things happen. It have happened to me before but if u want to know her status u can follow her to the hospital and they will show u where the result is written on their record book.

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Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by kamez(m): 4:15am On Jul 24, 2022
Fadafada231:


This is strange to me because I called the Doctor she meet and the man said that they only show the people their result without giving them the receipt. I did my own last week although it was in a private hospital I was given the paper conspicuously showing my negative status, I'm planning of taking her to that same private hospital or other government hospital for confirmation.

Relax bro she is right..in general hospitals, no test result is given on paper.. if u want a HIV paper result, then go to a private hospital

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Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by IamAsiri: 4:22am On Jul 24, 2022
Fadafada231:


This is strange to me because I called the Doctor she meet and the man said that they only show the people their result without giving them the receipt. I did my own last week although it was in a private hospital I was given the paper conspicuously showing my negative status, I'm planning of taking her to that same private hospital or other government hospital for confirmation.

When I did one a decade ago, the result was not given to me, probably because I only saw them conducting free tests and decided to tag along smiley. It might be the policy of the hospital (maybe it's the free type she went for).

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Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by tayolove12(m): 4:27am On Jul 24, 2022
PerfectStranger:
Involuntary test grin grin

Send her back make she go do voluntary test na. Wakko people everywhere cheesy

I'm very sure the girl is APC agent
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by Caseless: 4:30am On Jul 24, 2022
Fadafada231:
Please guys is there anything like involuntary HIV test in a government hospital? I sent my GF to the hospital to check her status and she came back told me with smile on her face that she is negative, I demanded to see the result but she said they didn't give it to her.

I asked her why? She replied me that the man told her that the receipt of the result can't be given to her because it's involuntary test. Hmmm local man is confused
that girl go forge result give you if you're not careful. Make sure you follow her to a reputable hospital and have her do it.
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by Curious346: 4:35am On Jul 24, 2022
Popesuccess:
Is true, there was a time my wife was very sick, i took to a general hospital. One of the test they did was HIV, infact they did for both of us. They just told us the result without giving any paper.
yes because it's not the final result ..

You could test -ve today ,and +be after 6weeks..

The virus may be in your body ,but yet to manifest
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by Desusi: 4:46am On Jul 24, 2022
goshikid:
cry You dy fear
So you dy fear.. I think say you be superman
HIV did not know super man oooo!
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by Desusi: 4:49am On Jul 24, 2022
Fadafada231:


Lol guy it's not all about trust, even the day I did mine the hospital I went for d test there are many couples and others who came for the same test, so are you trying to tell me they don't trust themselves? It's good to have a routine test with your partner not only HIV test so that's how we do our own thing. So it's far from trust she is not wayward, just that the statement that she cannot be given her test result because the test is involuntary sound so alien to me and from the comment above it seems some government hospital don't give test results.
So after all these stories what else do you want to hear
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by emmyluizzz: 5:08am On Jul 24, 2022
brightest5050:
Send her to a government hospital you both do the test.

Avoid sex with her by all means

is too late for that... remembered the nigga said she is his gf


if she is positive then I pity for him
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by supereagle(m): 5:34am On Jul 24, 2022
Fadafada231:
Please guys is there anything like involuntary HIV test in a government hospital? I sent my GF to the hospital to check her status and she came back told me with smile on her face that she is negative, I demanded to see the result but she said they didn't give it to her.

I asked her why? She replied me that the man told her that the receipt of the result can't be given to her because it's involuntary test. Hmmm local man is confused

The two of you should go and submit for test, go there together to collect the results . I have done it in government hospital twice and my results given to me. I have seen people who did it there too, the results given to them. You paid for it. It is your property. Egbekiniwa it is own.
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by lovchalice(f): 5:50am On Jul 24, 2022
Women don suffer
HIV test for girlfriend not wife to be
Equals to unprotected knacking
What of pregnancy
That's how she will be taking contraceptive upandan
Tomorrow to born na na wahala
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by Sixfiguresmart(m): 5:51am On Jul 24, 2022
brightest5050:
Send her to a government hospital you both do the test.

Avoid sex with her by all means
That should have been the initial advice when he met her. To avoid sex until marriage when all the checks and balances are done. Too late now. If she tested +, then he is too.

Ask him why he sent her in the first place, and why he didn't go with her?
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by Theevilone(m): 6:08am On Jul 24, 2022
Is possible, I have noticed that government general hospital doesn’t give results they document it, I did mine few weeks ago and they also refused to you will get your results if you have gone to private laboratories �
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by armyofone(m): 6:14am On Jul 24, 2022
Fadafada231:
Please guys is there anything like involuntary HIV test in a government hospital? I sent my GF to the hospital to check her status and she came back told me with smile on her face that she is negative, I demanded to see the result but she said they didn't give it to her.

I asked her why? She replied me that the man told her that the receipt of the result can't be given to her because it's involuntary test. Hmmm local man is confused

Local man, be wearing or using condom o. No second chance with diseases and unplanned pregnancy.

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Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by jamislaw(m): 6:48am On Jul 24, 2022
Fadafada231:
Please guys is there anything like involuntary HIV test in a government hospital? I sent my GF to the hospital to check her status and she came back told me with smile on her face that she is negative, I demanded to see the result but she said they didn't give it to her.

I asked her why? She replied me that the man told her that the receipt of the result can't be given to her because it's involuntary test. Hmmm local man is confused
In general hospital lab nobody will give you result they will just tell you if you're positive or negative.
except if you and your partner want to do it for marriage purpose.
When I did my own in general hospital in Kaduna here after spending like four minutes, the lab guy told me I'm negative he even explain everything to me that's how I summoned courage to go with my girlfriend in another hospital to do another HIV test and we both came out negative.
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by asiga(m): 6:50am On Jul 24, 2022
Your girlfriend may not have lied. This is why:
There is the provider initiated testing and counselling services in most health facilities where organizations working on the HIV program are stationed in, what that means is she may have met one of their testers who just tested her to add up her testing numbers to meet her target for the day, result from those random testers most times needed to be confirmed before official release. When it turns out negative, they just do post test risk reduction counselling and ask the client to come back after 3 months for another test without really giving out a result.

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Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by Cutehector(m): 6:55am On Jul 24, 2022
Fadafada231:
Please guys is there anything like involuntary HIV test in a government hospital? I sent my GF to the hospital to check her status and she came back told me with smile on her face that she is negative, I demanded to see the result but she said they didn't give it to her.

I asked her why? She replied me that the man told her that the receipt of the result can't be given to her because it's involuntary test. Hmmm local man is confused
women! cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by Nobody: 7:05am On Jul 24, 2022
Go do your own and show her your result

Fadafada231:
Please guys is there anything like involuntary HIV test in a government hospital? I sent my GF to the hospital to check her status and she came back told me with smile on her face that she is negative, I demanded to see the result but she said they didn't give it to her.

I asked her why? She replied me that the man told her that the receipt of the result can't be given to her because it's involuntary test. Hmmm local man is confused
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by Aqesimitta: 7:08am On Jul 24, 2022
Are you pouring the engine oil inside the engine without using oil filter?
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by Choski78(m): 7:16am On Jul 24, 2022
she is right, the did the same to me, the just showed me the negative result.
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by Deeprooted: 7:26am On Jul 24, 2022
Fadafada231:
Please guys is there anything like involuntary HIV test in a government hospital? I sent my GF to the hospital to check her status and she came back told me with smile on her face that she is negative, I demanded to see the result but she said they didn't give it to her.

I asked her why? She replied me that the man told her that the receipt of the result can't be given to her because it's involuntary test. Hmmm local man is confused


The test, if conducted in a government hospital,is free but if you need the result printed, you must pay 1k. Otherwise you'll be told the result verbally.

OP your babe no wan pay the 1k.
Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by Rheminx: 7:28am On Jul 24, 2022
Fadafada231:
Please guys is there anything like involuntary HIV test in a government hospital? I sent my GF to the hospital to check her status and she came back told me with smile on her face that she is negative, I demanded to see the result but she said they didn't give it to her.

I asked her why? She replied me that the man told her that the receipt of the result can't be given to her because it's involuntary test. Hmmm local man is confused

If she did the test in a government clinic/hospital and she went there on her own accord i.e walked in just to do the test then she might not be given a result paper if she is negative. The nurses will just tell you to leave that you are negative and that's all. But if positive, counselling commence from there.

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Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by PROPEACE: 7:28am On Jul 24, 2022
karkinase:
Nuthing to worry about…She’s clean.. a person who got a news she’s HIV positive can never smile @ that instance. #pure psychology
And what if she knew it long before then?

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