LEGALSER:


Guy, you don't need any advise, you only need to stand up and walk out of that relationship stop acting and sounding Petty. You be man, act like one.

Gabkan7:
You can't be a comrade
accept the red flag and walk away be you a mental damage or suffer phycosis

SIMP LIKE YOU HAVE NO SELF WORTH
na for house and with you niggaz your type dey form am a man

pass me the spark

Save1soul:


" I am a man" hahaha

Why would a girl be intimidated when her man says that he is a man and should be respected. I just tire.

Save1soul:
Nairaland family, help a bro here, I had to open another account to post this, pls read till the end.

I have been dating this girl for more than 3 years, I will say that I have been experiencing hell fire in the past 1 year and 6 month. I know no one is perfect but the problem is too much.

She have some good sides every man will cherish, she appears decent and well brought up, but here are the problem.

1. She gets angry easily. This is a problem to our relationship because we can't have a normal conservation without quarrel, like we quarrel almost every 2 days.

2. Recently she talks to me disrespectful: if there is any small argument or disagreement among us, she talks to me like her jnr sister, not minding or caring how I feel.

3. Anytime we have a fight, she gives me the silent treatment for days and I end up apologizing even when she is wrong. When I remember her good side, I want to make peace and beg her.

4. Most times when we argue, I try telling her that I am a man and i won't take some things she does. This statement " I am a man" gets her provoke. She complained against me using that statement.

5. She does not want to be scolded, she doesn't want me to complain about wrongs she does, she believes with complains about her behavior, her self esteem will be affected. She confessed to me of having an ego.

In one of the arguments, she said I make her regret saying yes to me. Just last week, we had a small disagreement; I tried helping her recover something and since I was not able to do that, I told her I will still try and her response got me angry, she didn't appreciate the fact that I was trying, that got me angry.

I uploaded a female friends picture on WhatsApp and wished her happy birthday, my girlfriend screenshot the pic, sent it to me mocking me, calling me immature, saying that I am not mature, that if I post 100 female pictures, it won't disturb her.

This is a girl I have never cheated on for the 3 years we have dated, I respect and tell her virtually everything I do, all my plans, and she knows that I love her alone. She knows that she is the only girl I am seeing and I have promised to marry her, she also know that I am working towards marrying her.

Early this year, she phycologically abused me, she knew that I love her so much, so she was playing games with my emotions, today she will act like she is angry with me and not talk to me, when I beg she will calm to forgive me, tomorrow she will continue same thing, until she stopped when I got her in the game.

I will take all the insults, Nairaland family, what do I do here.

AntichristXXX:
Baba fvck wetin you wan fvck and have other ladies on standby. Both of you no fit marry, forget it. No say I no warn you o.

AntichristXXX:
Baba fvck wetin you wan fvck and have other ladies on standby. Both of you no fit marry, forget it. No say I no warn you o.

Gabkan7:

She's not intimidated by your words, she is only irritated bcus ur action are not congurent with your words.
you vibe no be am
find your class 'lol'

Save1soul:


Funny as this may sound, but it's the truth,she said that because she didn't see how a man I was.

Chris2863:
op, take this advice. Those qualities you listed there, my babe dey flex them pass and as I dey do, I’m just catching cruise now. I’m fine trying. Whenever she is tired, she will find her way

luscioustrish:
I’m even irritated on your behalf and I’m a girl.
.
Ignore her.
Give her silent treatment.
Keep on repeating “I am a man” whenever the need arises.
Most importantly; DO NOT BEG!
.
People don’t value what they have until they lose it.

luscioustrish:
I’m even irritated on your behalf and I’m a girl.
.
Ignore her.
Give her silent treatment.
Keep on repeating “I am a man” whenever the need arises.
Most importantly; DO NOT BEG!
.
People don’t value what they have until they lose it.

ruffkenny:
The real problem here is not with the girl but with u,"if the foundation be destroyed "how can u save yourself..

You have shown her the nice,soft and easy part of u,always caring for her and opening up every details for her like your life depends on her validation,hence this see finish,lost of respect,getting angry and shouting at you,giving u the silent torture and making u feel less of a man cos she knows u will still be the one running to her even if she is wrong,u have indulged her so much and u have shown her indirectly that she can treat u that way. Now u have lost your self esteem and confidence to even act as a man where she is,infarct u are loosing yourself to the point she wants to even control your birthday wishes to friends. when u refuse to do what u ought to do as a man every time from your mind but do always what a girl tell u or want u to do this is always the result..

It is disheartening but u have to start acting as a real man,be more masculine and stronger than her,let her do what u want and act less concerned if she doesn't do what u want or better still,punish her by withdrawing every help or closeness u have with her little by little, withdraw your love, attention and care..If it is sex she is using to get u,don't touch her,hang out with friends and meet new people as well as new girls,and don't always spend too much time at home or around her, Find a way to bruise her ego and self esteem so she can come running back to u, you as a man is supposed to be in charge not a woman in charge of u..Never beg her at all in any case,I repeat never beg her especially when u are not wrong,The way u act towards her can either decrease or increase your self worth,if u act needy,u will decrease your ego and if u act opposite ie nonchalant and less concerned to her,u will increase your ego..Remove this scarsity mindset u have,there are many fishes in the river, she ought to know that u can easily replace her with a better girl if u want..

Save1soul:
Nairaland family, help a bro here, I had to open another account to post this, pls read till the end.

I have been dating this girl for more than 3 years, I will say that I have been experiencing hell fire in the past 1 year and 6 month. I know no one is perfect but the problem is too much.

She have some good sides every man will cherish, she appears decent and well brought up, but here are the problem.

1. She gets angry easily. This is a problem to our relationship because we can't have a normal conservation without quarrel, like we quarrel almost every 2 days.

2. Recently she talks to me disrespectful: if there is any small argument or disagreement among us, she talks to me like her jnr sister, not minding or caring how I feel.

3. Anytime we have a fight, she gives me the silent treatment for days and I end up apologizing even when she is wrong. When I remember her good side, I want to make peace and beg her.

4. Most times when we argue, I try telling her that I am a man and i won't take some things she does. This statement " I am a man" gets her provoke. She complained against me using that statement.

5. She does not want to be scolded, she doesn't want me to complain about wrongs she does, she believes with complains about her behavior, her self esteem will be affected. She confessed to me of having an ego.

In one of the arguments, she said I make her regret saying yes to me. Just last week, we had a small disagreement; I tried helping her recover something and since I was not able to do that, I told her I will still try and her response got me angry, she didn't appreciate the fact that I was trying, that got me angry.

I uploaded a female friends picture on WhatsApp and wished her happy birthday, my girlfriend screenshot the pic, sent it to me mocking me, calling me immature, saying that I am not mature, that if I post 100 female pictures, it won't disturb her.

This is a girl I have never cheated on for the 3 years we have dated, I respect and tell her virtually everything I do, all my plans, and she knows that I love her alone. She knows that she is the only girl I am seeing and I have promised to marry her, she also know that I am working towards marrying her.

Early this year, she phycologically abused me, she knew that I love her so much, so she was playing games with my emotions, today she will act like she is angry with me and not talk to me, when I beg she will calm to forgive me, tomorrow she will continue same thing, until she stopped when I got her in the game.

I will take all the insults, Nairaland family, what do I do here.

Ezendimmuo:


Even this babe dey vex for you...
This is the greatest height of it OP

M very sure after reading all these comments
You won't leave her
I was once in your shoes...
One of the worst people to advice are guys in love

Save1soul:


Exactly bro, I feel I might not get another girl like her.

Nonam:


Shut up and change your mumu mindset.
Who said you will not get someone more better than her? You don't need advice becos poverty has turn you to mumu

You will have sence when she teach you a regrettable lesson

ruffkenny:
The real problem here is not with the girl but with u,"if the foundation be destroyed "how can u save yourself..

You have shown her the nice,soft and easy part of u,always caring for her and opening up every details for her like your life depends on her validation,hence this see finish,lost of respect,getting angry and shouting at you,giving u the silent torture and making u feel less of a man cos she knows u will still be the one running to her even if she is wrong,u have indulged her so much and u have shown her indirectly that she can treat u that way. Now u have lost your self esteem and confidence to even act as a man where she is,infarct u are loosing yourself to the point she wants to even control your birthday wishes to friends. when u refuse to do what u ought to do as a man every time from your mind but do always what a girl tell u or want u to do this is always the result..

It is disheartening but u have to start acting as a real man,be more masculine and stronger than her,let her do what u want and act less concerned if she doesn't do what u want or better still,punish her by withdrawing every help or closeness u have with her little by little, withdraw your love, attention and care..If it is sex she is using to get u,don't touch her,hang out with friends and meet new people as well as new girls,and don't always spend too much time at home or around her, Find a way to bruise her ego and self esteem so she can come running back to u, you as a man is supposed to be in charge not a woman in charge of u..Never beg her at all in any case,I repeat never beg her especially when u are not wrong,The way u act towards her can either decrease or increase your self worth,if u act needy,u will decrease your ego and if u act opposite ie nonchalant and less concerned to her,u will increase your ego..Remove this scarsity mindset u have,there are many fishes in the river, she ought to know that u can easily replace her with a better girl if u want..