HEY I STARTED WITH A RELATION 8 MONTHS BACK AND THAT TIME THIS GUY WAS COMMITTED ND WAS LIKE I M ABOUT TO  END UP THINGS WITH HER SO I GAVE HIM THE SPACE AND TIME BUT IN THAT PATTERN OF TIME  WE BOTH REALLY  CAME CLOSE AND CANT THINK OF APART FOR THE TIME BEING BUT FEW MONTHS BACK THAT IS LIKE 3 MONTHS BACK HE CLEARLY TOLD ME THAT WE CANT HAVE ANY FUTURE AS HE WILL MARRY THAT GIRL IN FUTURE, THEY  DO NOT MEET THAT MUCH DUE TO LONG DISTANCE ISSUES, BUT IN THESE 8 MONTHS THEY MET THIS MONTH THRICE AS THEY BOTH HAD THERE BIRTHDAYS THIS MONTH, HE LOVES ME A LOT AND HE HAS PROVED THAT BEING WITH ME IN BAD  TIMES AND EVEN I LOVE HIM WAY TOO MUCH BUT HAVEE DECIDED TO GO FOR ARRANGE MARRIAGE, I PERSONALLY WANNA HAV MY BEST TIME WITH HIM TILL V R TOGETHER BUT AT TIMES WHEN HIS PHONE IS BUSY OR WEN HE MEETS HER WHICH IS VERY RARE I AM NOT ABLE TO CONTROL MA ACTIONS AND THEN IT ALL TURNS OUT T B VERY BAD, DO NOT UNDERSTAND HOW TO DEAL WITH ALL THIS I M REALLY MESSED UP

1st who u referrin 2 as HEY?
U think we ur mates huh?
2nd cant read nor comprehend ur write up

welll this is the first time i hav logd in to the forums so not that aware of the do's and dont's, whatever i have written is not that complicated to understand

He "CLEARLY" told you and you are still looking for advice?
 

Yup! You are messed up if you ONLY wanno be messed up! Never give ANYONE that kind of power! Male or female!


Rule# 1.
Learn to MENTALLY dump a guy before he physically dumps you!
Stop humiliating yourself!
No man is worth the hassles!
Love is ONLY relevant on a h-orny day!

Rule# 2.
Make ANYONE an option where you are NOT a priority!
Please, respect yourself.
Thank you ma! 


Back to my sweeeeeet job jare! Heavy paychecks coming up!
Nigeria/China. . . Here I come.

@chintua,I love ur second advice.poster pls follow is advice he took the word right of my mouth.

i agree to everything but cant i behave selfish for a change and be with him till i want and then dump him,  because if i dump him in present situation i am going to be the sufferer so can i apart gradually being with him ,  as i am very habitual of him