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Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Jeon(f): 9:45pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Chnbanc: Is like her pussy has expired and you no longer feel the taste, well there's someone for everyone and that person for you is a psychiatrist not that LovePeddler under your roof. 3 Likes |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Chnbanc: 9:48pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Jeon:Dil.do Rider See the kind of words coming from a self acclaimed virgin!! Dil.do go cast ur pvssy |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Jeon(f): 9:54pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Chnbanc: Shut your mouth when talking to me. 3 Likes |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Chnbanc: 9:55pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Jeon(f): 9:58pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Chnbanc: Therapy is expensive, diving into the glorified LovePeddler's vagina mighty calm you down. Because light travels faster than sound. This is why some people appear bright until they speak. Just like you. 3 Likes |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by lyndaway(f): 10:08pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
My brother you will always reap what you sow direct or indirectly if you succeed to marry a virgin ,will your female children succeed ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by lomprico(m): 10:21pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
siofra: Define damage. |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Nobody: 10:45pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Evidences that show you have the favour of God. Apostle Joshua Selman. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0GWl32MFSX0 |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Hassanmaye(m): 11:06pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
NwaAdazzi:" A so called decent girl" did she later turn out to be bad? |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Chnbanc: 11:13pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Jeon:No wahalla. I enjoyed myself. Simple |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Wwwq: 11:39pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Hmmm |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by ddeola: 1:31am On Aug 11, 2022 |
Don't give yourself to anyone to damage you shikena ! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Riscawendy(f): 1:36am On Aug 11, 2022 |
pansophist:what of men that rape women and after they will want to marry a virgin. Karma is real, one way or the other you will be served your own meal. 1 Like |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by bepositive11: 4:04am On Aug 11, 2022 |
It's not your choice. It's who you are that will attract what you deserve. As for Kim Kardashian, show me even one decent man who would want to be with her. All those men who want to be with her see her as nothing but a s*x toy. Do you think they have respect for her? See how Kanye treated her when they were married. He gave her gifts that would suit a prostitute. I don't see virgins as worthy of more respect than non virgins. You can only know whether they have self control when they are no longer virgins. You can't miss what you haven't tried. As for the man you're talking about, it's very complicated. A man or woman can be someone who doesn't sleep around anyhow but still lack self respect. Why was he with those women in the first place if he knew that they sleep around anyhow? He needs to build himself up to a level where he has enough respect for himself to only tolerate women who have respect for themselves and their bodies. advanceDNA: 1 Like |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by advanceDNA: 6:24am On Aug 11, 2022 |
bepositive11: So you think every one that dates horrible or sexually no-discipline people know the kind of people they are dating and want just to tolerate them..?? ..its like uve not heard of cheating and deception? ..are u in this world or an Jupiter?? You've not heard of men dating or married to retired or coded prostitutés....so those men are coded or former prostitutés too.?? .So a faithful man can't be unfortunate in dating or married to a woman deceiving him without his knowledge and vice versa?? Again.. u are a very funny person...u have all these funny ideologies and weird principles that really doesnt play out in real life most times... I have seen good girls fall in the hands of mosters, i have seen amazimg men date terrible women....it's not karma....its not "you are who you attract," ideology... It's because the foundation is destroyed...the rules of the world has changed greatly...laws and norms have become redefined and distorted sometimes it's being naive, ignoring redflags... Sometimes..good things just happen to bad people.... |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Plugsk(m): 7:34am On Aug 11, 2022 |
Come on comot for here joor siofra: |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by bepositive11: 8:15am On Aug 11, 2022 |
First of all, the whole "good things happen to bad people" mentality is complete bullsh*t. Tell me, who is a "good person"? What does society define them as? Someone who is self sacrificing? Someone who puts everyone above themselves? Someone who's a doormat? You know what that person is? That person is toxic! They don't have healthy boundaries. Those are the kinds of people who narcissists love. Narcissists will drain the life out of them until there is no more life left in them. A healthy good person is someone who knows when to draw the line! Society may call them selfish or self-centered, but they are the real good people. The kinds of people who attract partners who are just as healthy and good as they are. All those good people you are saying you know who ended up with monsters. Dig deeper. Learn more about them. Go beyond seeing them as "good people" and see how they attract "monsters" with their so called goodness and naivety. Let me tell you. If you're happy and fulfilled with your life, there is no way on earth that you will attract someone who's toxic. Because you're not desperate for a partner and you don't feel pressured to prove yourself to anyone, you will see through any nonsense manipulation that anyone dares to pull on you. And don't say that people change after marriage. There are always little signs that people overlook because they are desperate or insecure or etc Keep saying that I have funny ideologies and weird principles. I have opened my eyes wide open. I no longer follow all this nonsense beliefs that society pushes down your throat. I am wise now. Go and learn about human psychology especially personality disorders. It will open your eyes. advanceDNA: 1 Like |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Pimine: 8:43am On Aug 11, 2022 |
TMTR:Factos ![]() |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by teebagy: 9:30am On Aug 11, 2022 |
siofra:men dont damage women. Women damage themselves |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Chnbanc: 10:10am On Aug 11, 2022 |
Jeon:This EDO girl. JANE |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by pansophist(m): 12:39pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Riscawendy: Your thinking pattern bend like crayfish, because if you read to understand and not to respond, you'll see that your point differs from mine, just as a monkey differs to a donkey. Read again, get my point, then come back if you want a good dialogue. 5 Likes |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by pansophist(m): 7:24pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
nenyewrites: Lol no. Good guys are those with character, and money is a topping. Unless I'm blind, but with the women I see these days, its like the female eyes dont see 80% of men, just because she thinks he is poor, even if its not true. To these women, a rich man is a good man, and a poor man is an evil man ![]() Last year in Accra, I met with MI. If you didn't knew who he was, you'd think he was just an ordinary Ghanian hustler. He wore a Jean, a t-shirt and a simple shoe. Lots of girls would instantly ignore him just by appearance. Perhaps he dressed like that to prevent unnecessary attention. And a strategy to detect women that are not shallow and materialistic. And such women shamefully are quite few. Take nairaland as an example, lots of Nigerians female writers should be here writing, but they are so few. Now go to Instagram and tiktok, na there them full. Shallow people ![]() And don't give me that crap that they left because of redpiller or men yabbing them, what about quora then? Reddit, and other writing platforms? The simple fact is that women of nowadays are so damn shallow, that they suffer because of it. Good men comes your way everyday, you're just not smart to see him. You expect him to come off as rich like a rapper, but rappers are broke. The guys who owned the label with simple Jean is richer. For most women, it's to have money first, then character after. But this strategy is bad because you'll be a "plate", as in, you go serve all the rich men with your honey-pot. Them go nack your pot tire but commitment, you shall not see. You think rich good men are fools? They see it clearly that you're with them for the money, not for love. They didn't attain wealth to give it to one foolish girl that thinks because she is young and beautiful, she should be worshipped. Just as you're targeting rich men, other women are also targeting, which kick-start his polygamous nature, and instead of privatise one chick, he sample all the abundance before him. Afterall, he sees clearly that the women didn't came for who he is, but for what he has. Lots of women are so damn shallow that they think men sees the world as them. Because your looks is your asset doesn't mean it same for men. For many of us, it's our bank balance, our character, being a man that is there for our families. Men dress for functionality, not to attract attention. Normally I won't go out without something that has a pocket, because where would I put my phone and, key and wallet? Unlike female dresses normally that many have no pockets but to accentuate beauty. So if you start understanding men and not judging and discarding them on sight, you may meet good men that are wealthy. All the wealthy men I know are frugal, they don't waste it on designers, since they don't want unnecessary attention from shallow people. If I randomly pick hundred women and ask if they want a good man, all of them would say "YES", but if you look closely how they live their life, you'll see that it chases good rich men away. Ask the average girl what is her hobby, all youll hear is shopping, clubbing, dancing, travelling, hanging out with friends etc. Shallow hobbies. Oh the new one, like toktoking, chatting and an aspiring actress ![]() How about reading, writing, producing, drawing, history and things that shows that she is a woman of depth. How can one meet a good man when your hobbies such as clubbing and shopping center's around spending his money ? 22 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Raalsalghul: 7:42pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
pansophist: You are a god pansophist. This is just beautiful and laced with so much wisdom. I be wan send something in appreciation of this piece but who are my for where my Oga dey. But please, if you know anyone that needs it, please recommend and I'll transfer 5k naira as a token of my appreciation. I've gained so much for your posts and this is my little way of giving back. I trust your recommendation. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by toujurs: 8:02pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Jeon:Don't you even have shame ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Jeon(f): 8:05pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
toujurs: Shut up. You must be really jobless and pained in the ass for noticing the secs/mins/hours /days /weeks /months and years I spent on NL. 3 Likes |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Hassanmaye(m): 8:30pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Prettygirl200:Women are sex gate keepers they have the choice to open the hole or not we don't force them |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Nobody: 9:24pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
pansophist: Try research instead of making assumptions. |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by PumpumPrince: 9:51pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
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Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by pansophist(m): 10:28pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Raalsalghul: I need the 5k bros, I go donate am to somebody. I go mention you later when I get him account number. I swear he go happy die ![]() He get one guy for here wey just rent house last week, and I wan give am some gift. He go appreciate the money. 3 Likes |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Raalsalghul: 10:36pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
pansophist: Please do! Thank you. |
Re: Men, After Damaging Some Women, You Now Want To Settle Down With One Not Damaged by Jman06(m): 11:26pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
pansophist:Don't just mind them! Let them continue fooling around and then later turn around and blame men for their foolishness. |
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