Re: Unusual Behavior Between My Step Brother And My Wife by jimmychang: 9:39am On Aug 16, 2022 |
grop1040:
Seriously no cruise catching here, as the matter take happen na him i lay am down here, i message the guy wey fit help with whatsapp spy, though her own phone is not passworded, like i said formerly she has graduated from keeping secret on phones, u cant find anything there, na that my bro phone i wan remotely spy on, cos i dey sure him nor go don delete anything. The guy i sent a message to have not replied me yet for the spy. Madam sort of calm down after he brother spoke to her, just like i said she doesnt listen to me, she does listen to her brother, reason why i feel she stopped taking my bro call since that saturday. Yes because he looks like someone who can't control himself.And also don't blame yourself hundred percent If you find something incriminating. A woman that wants to cheat will cheat even though she is married to Jesus himself.I am not excusing your actions sha.I am just saying don't go hard on yourself. Also sir there are ways to find out.You can get a private PI.Someone who will come with photos and evidence.IF YOU READY DROP MONEY.You can also share your wife's location on your phone even your brothers but you have to have access to their phones sha. |
Re: Unusual Behavior Between My Step Brother And My Wife by jimmychang: 9:51am On Aug 16, 2022 |
grop1040:
The truth is that my nature as a philanthropist and a nice person has led to my acting weak, though out of everyone in the family, I have been the only one that has put him in his place sometimes, the others fear him. I could be very slow in reacting but my ending actions are always as brutal as apocalypse. I will from today refrain him in having his way in my family.
Maybe that is what you think,which might not be true at all.Someone you do put in his place will never double cross you.You have to be unpredictable and firm,they know that you will never complain.You put family before yourself for people who put family before themselves.Sir learn to read and study people and react to them accordingly.Be nice to who is nice to you and your family. Look at your wife,Half brother and mother in the eyes and tell them NO for the first time in your life and STAND by it.Have a great day and try kpansh your wife well this week. |
Re: Unusual Behavior Between My Step Brother And My Wife by sukkot: 7:56am On Aug 17, 2022 |
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Re: Unusual Behavior Between My Step Brother And My Wife by Secondly: 2:30pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
grop1040: Hi guys,
Something happened 9 months ago, I decided to keep mute or probably just wait for the right time to commence my investigation to actually know what is going on between my step brother and my wife.
So I'm 9 years already into my marriage, and we have 3 kids. My step brother who is the 2nd of my mum has temperamental problem.
He's bossy and very vulgar plus he's controlling, everybody knows him for that, he was married 13 years ago, however after his family relocated to the USA, he later found out that his 3kids aren't his, the marriage ended like that, ever since then he's been traumatized, emotionally and any other way one can describe him as. Sometimes in order to at least feel that children presence around him, he would ask me to have my children come over to his place for some days, and I could witness how that really helped him over time, but then I noticed the absence of his wife started making him familiarize with my wife in certain odd manners which I was not really down with.
For example, if he comes to our house, most times comes around with a friend, either female or male, my wife seems not to be the attache type who would sit with us in the living room, she will rather be upstairs in the room, I have witnessed cases where he will shout at her, saying how can everybody be here and ur there upstairs?
There was even a time when one of the visitors he came with sighed and made face in a way that defined, wow, "was that necessary". Or times when he will ask her to cook stew for her, if she forgets or probably didnt want to do it because she knew it isnt her duty, she will be yelled upon, you'll here things like, where is the egusi i told u to make, even the one you made last time, u didnt put enough this and that
Now yall might think am a dullard or a simp, or someone too relaxed as gentle and as patient as I am, I be original demon, if I start my madness, the result will end in eternal damage, and our family background from my mums side where this my brother was born, we tend to uphold unity over adversity, so when things like this occur, mum would rather have us calm and not fight so unity can continue.
So sometimes last year, the major issues started grooming that made me start to think if there was something going on with my step and my wife, it started with when the kids were with him, so madam and I were suppose to go for outing, so we decided to branch at his place to check up on the kids, on getting there while in his living room, he said to my wife "I like your hair" she responded thanks, he was like are u guys going out, I was like yea am taking her out, next thing she asked my madam, so when are we going on our own outing? I shrugged and didnt understand where that came from, though she didnt answer him.
While we were leaving, I was waiting for her to bring up the topic and put it to me that why did ur brother say such a thing, even if its a joke, its too expensive, but she didnt, I brought up the topic, and she was like shes surprised too that she never thought he would say such a thing.
5 days later, we had a family party in his house, my other brothers, cousins and my mum, my children were there, while the caterer were cooking outside, and we were all in his living room drinking, he opted to get some meat to dish and give everybody to at least be chewing something, he served it round but when it got to my wives turn, the one he already bit off from was what he gave her, funny thing is, it was only my mum and myself that saw the scene, my wife was not aware, that was when I knew something could be going on.
Afterwards, I put the ish through to my wife, she acted disgusted and said she cant blv he would do such, that although my mum already called her to say the same thing. So I asked details of what she discussed with my mum, she said my mum advised her that whenever he calls her, she shouldnt pick, that when he knows its obvious that shes avoiding his call, he probably would want to report to her, and then she will now break the silence of what she my wife have been experiencing with him thus her refusal to pick his call.
So I called my mum and I was like being calm, patient and cooperating with the useless policy of the family doesnt mean that the recent things happening won't seat any longer with me, that am gonna have to confront him and put him in his place. My mum begged me and begged, cos she's 76 years old, I considered and I had no choice but to cooperate with her advise.
The funny thing is, after this whole ish, I asked her that if he calls, will you pick, she answered yes I will, but I will have to see what he has to say first to know if I will continue the conversation or not, I was like for real? You must be kidding me, it means something that I am not suppose to know of is happening, she was like oh well its ur fault, why didn't u confront him instead of listening to ur mums advise.
Since then, I have let it slide, but what actually made me bring up this issue again, was when I went to my bros house to pick some stuffs my sister sent from the USA, madam was off to the market, I called her to ask if she would like the only size 10 of the shoe I saw cos she wears 9, she didnt pick after calling like 4 times, immediately my brother called her with his own phone, she picked and was like sorry when you called I try to pick but it was nt connecting, I just weak at that moment sey wetin dey sup.
Guys, ladies, from deep experiences u guys must have gone through, what do u think could be wrong and what do yall think I should do, something could be happening that if I dont unravel early, it might be the cause of ones demise or destruction. Wow! There's some real bullshit_ going on there. |
Re: Unusual Behavior Between My Step Brother And My Wife by ness90(m): 7:48am On Aug 20, 2022 |
@Op,
As a married man, I really don't think that anything is going on between them.
The man cut across like someone you have a lot of regards for.. And so your wife fears and respects him wey too much than he deserves.
I see ur wife as a kind woman who is empathetic to your Brother's situation and would not want to add to his woes.
She's expecting you to handle the situation by setting clear boundaries for your brother.. You can't cede that responsibility to her.
How can someone come to my house and be shouting my wife's name? Them no born am 1 Like |
Re: Unusual Behavior Between My Step Brother And My Wife by jimmychang: 2:13am On Aug 21, 2022 |
ness90: @Op,
As a married man, I really don't think that anything is going on between them.
The man cut across like someone you have a lot of regards for.. And so your wife fears and respects him wey too much than he deserves.
I see ur wife as a kind woman who is empathetic to your Brother's situation and would not want to add to his woes.
She's expecting you to handle the situation by setting clear boundaries for your brother.. You can't cede that responsibility to her.
How can someone come to my house and be shouting my wife's name? Them no born am The matter no muzz you ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) ...Anyways Op has learnt his lessons.I hope he is okay. |
Re: Unusual Behavior Between My Step Brother And My Wife by James289(f): 5:43pm On Oct 06, 2022 |
Maybe he knows one of her secrets. Thereby emotionally blackmailing her somehow. try run a DNA on your kids. |
Re: Unusual Behavior Between My Step Brother And My Wife by Wisipro2010(m): 11:44am On May 07, 2023 |
There Is Something Fishy About Your Wife And Your Stepbrother, And They Are Keeping A Secret,Anyway I Know Someone Who Is Full Of Wisdom And Can Help, Send Me A Message At Debest1960@gmail.com 1 Like |
Re: Unusual Behavior Between My Step Brother And My Wife by skj1377(m): 5:01pm On Jun 15, 2023 |
It's been over a year how far with your wife. grop1040: Hi guys,
Something happened 9 months ago, I decided to keep mute or probably just wait for the right time to commence my investigation to actually know what is going on between my step brother and my wife.
So I'm 9 years already into my marriage, and we have 3 kids. My step brother who is the 2nd of my mum has temperamental problem.
He's bossy and very vulgar plus he's controlling, everybody knows him for that, he was married 13 years ago, however after his family relocated to the USA, he later found out that his 3kids aren't his, the marriage ended like that, ever since then he's been traumatized, emotionally and any other way one can describe him as. Sometimes in order to at least feel that children presence around him, he would ask me to have my children come over to his place for some days, and I could witness how that really helped him over time, but then I noticed the absence of his wife started making him familiarize with my wife in certain odd manners which I was not really down with.
For example, if he comes to our house, most times comes around with a friend, either female or male, my wife seems not to be the attache type who would sit with us in the living room, she will rather be upstairs in the room, I have witnessed cases where he will shout at her, saying how can everybody be here and ur there upstairs?
There was even a time when one of the visitors he came with sighed and made face in a way that defined, wow, "was that necessary". Or times when he will ask her to cook stew for her, if she forgets or probably didnt want to do it because she knew it isnt her duty, she will be yelled upon, you'll here things like, where is the egusi i told u to make, even the one you made last time, u didnt put enough this and that
Now yall might think am a dullard or a simp, or someone too relaxed as gentle and as patient as I am, I be original demon, if I start my madness, the result will end in eternal damage, and our family background from my mums side where this my brother was born, we tend to uphold unity over adversity, so when things like this occur, mum would rather have us calm and not fight so unity can continue.
So sometimes last year, the major issues started grooming that made me start to think if there was something going on with my step and my wife, it started with when the kids were with him, so madam and I were suppose to go for outing, so we decided to branch at his place to check up on the kids, on getting there while in his living room, he said to my wife "I like your hair" she responded thanks, he was like are u guys going out, I was like yea am taking her out, next thing she asked my madam, so when are we going on our own outing? I shrugged and didnt understand where that came from, though she didnt answer him.
While we were leaving, I was waiting for her to bring up the topic and put it to me that why did ur brother say such a thing, even if its a joke, its too expensive, but she didnt, I brought up the topic, and she was like shes surprised too that she never thought he would say such a thing.
5 days later, we had a family party in his house, my other brothers, cousins and my mum, my children were there, while the caterer were cooking outside, and we were all in his living room drinking, he opted to get some meat to dish and give everybody to at least be chewing something, he served it round but when it got to my wives turn, the one he already bit off from was what he gave her, funny thing is, it was only my mum and myself that saw the scene, my wife was not aware, that was when I knew something could be going on.
Afterwards, I put the ish through to my wife, she acted disgusted and said she cant blv he would do such, that although my mum already called her to say the same thing. So I asked details of what she discussed with my mum, she said my mum advised her that whenever he calls her, she shouldnt pick, that when he knows its obvious that shes avoiding his call, he probably would want to report to her, and then she will now break the silence of what she my wife have been experiencing with him thus her refusal to pick his call.
So I called my mum and I was like being calm, patient and cooperating with the useless policy of the family doesnt mean that the recent things happening won't seat any longer with me, that am gonna have to confront him and put him in his place. My mum begged me and begged, cos she's 76 years old, I considered and I had no choice but to cooperate with her advise.
The funny thing is, after this whole ish, I asked her that if he calls, will you pick, she answered yes I will, but I will have to see what he has to say first to know if I will continue the conversation or not, I was like for real? You must be kidding me, it means something that I am not suppose to know of is happening, she was like oh well its ur fault, why didn't u confront him instead of listening to ur mums advise.
Since then, I have let it slide, but what actually made me bring up this issue again, was when I went to my bros house to pick some stuffs my sister sent from the USA, madam was off to the market, I called her to ask if she would like the only size 10 of the shoe I saw cos she wears 9, she didnt pick after calling like 4 times, immediately my brother called her with his own phone, she picked and was like sorry when you called I try to pick but it was nt connecting, I just weak at that moment sey wetin dey sup.
Guys, ladies, from deep experiences u guys must have gone through, what do u think could be wrong and what do yall think I should do, something could be happening that if I dont unravel early, it might be the cause of ones demise or destruction. |
Re: Unusual Behavior Between My Step Brother And My Wife by MrbasHH: 9:48pm On Jun 15, 2023 |
grop1040: Hi guys,
Something happened 9 months ago, I decided to keep mute or probably just wait for the right time to commence my investigation to actually know what is going on between my step brother and my wife.
So I'm 9 years already into my marriage, and we have 3 kids. My step brother who is the 2nd of my mum has temperamental problem.
He's bossy and very vulgar plus he's controlling, everybody knows him for that, he was married 13 years ago, however after his family relocated to the USA, he later found out that his 3kids aren't his, the marriage ended like that, ever since then he's been traumatized, emotionally and any other way one can describe him as. Sometimes in order to at least feel that children presence around him, he would ask me to have my children come over to his place for some days, and I could witness how that really helped him over time, but then I noticed the absence of his wife started making him familiarize with my wife in certain odd manners which I was not really down with.
For example, if he comes to our house, most times comes around with a friend, either female or male, my wife seems not to be the attache type who would sit with us in the living room, she will rather be upstairs in the room, I have witnessed cases where he will shout at her, saying how can everybody be here and ur there upstairs?
There was even a time when one of the visitors he came with sighed and made face in a way that defined, wow, "was that necessary". Or times when he will ask her to cook stew for her, if she forgets or probably didnt want to do it because she knew it isnt her duty, she will be yelled upon, you'll here things like, where is the egusi i told u to make, even the one you made last time, u didnt put enough this and that
Now yall might think am a dullard or a simp, or someone too relaxed as gentle and as patient as I am, I be original demon, if I start my madness, the result will end in eternal damage, and our family background from my mums side where this my brother was born, we tend to uphold unity over adversity, so when things like this occur, mum would rather have us calm and not fight so unity can continue.
So sometimes last year, the major issues started grooming that made me start to think if there was something going on with my step and my wife, it started with when the kids were with him, so madam and I were suppose to go for outing, so we decided to branch at his place to check up on the kids, on getting there while in his living room, he said to my wife "I like your hair" she responded thanks, he was like are u guys going out, I was like yea am taking her out, next thing she asked my madam, so when are we going on our own outing? I shrugged and didnt understand where that came from, though she didnt answer him.
While we were leaving, I was waiting for her to bring up the topic and put it to me that why did ur brother say such a thing, even if its a joke, its too expensive, but she didnt, I brought up the topic, and she was like shes surprised too that she never thought he would say such a thing.
5 days later, we had a family party in his house, my other brothers, cousins and my mum, my children were there, while the caterer were cooking outside, and we were all in his living room drinking, he opted to get some meat to dish and give everybody to at least be chewing something, he served it round but when it got to my wives turn, the one he already bit off from was what he gave her, funny thing is, it was only my mum and myself that saw the scene, my wife was not aware, that was when I knew something could be going on.
Afterwards, I put the ish through to my wife, she acted disgusted and said she cant blv he would do such, that although my mum already called her to say the same thing. So I asked details of what she discussed with my mum, she said my mum advised her that whenever he calls her, she shouldnt pick, that when he knows its obvious that shes avoiding his call, he probably would want to report to her, and then she will now break the silence of what she my wife have been experiencing with him thus her refusal to pick his call.
So I called my mum and I was like being calm, patient and cooperating with the useless policy of the family doesnt mean that the recent things happening won't seat any longer with me, that am gonna have to confront him and put him in his place. My mum begged me and begged, cos she's 76 years old, I considered and I had no choice but to cooperate with her advise.
The funny thing is, after this whole ish, I asked her that if he calls, will you pick, she answered yes I will, but I will have to see what he has to say first to know if I will continue the conversation or not, I was like for real? You must be kidding me, it means something that I am not suppose to know of is happening, she was like oh well its ur fault, why didn't u confront him instead of listening to ur mums advise.
Since then, I have let it slide, but what actually made me bring up this issue again, was when I went to my bros house to pick some stuffs my sister sent from the USA, madam was off to the market, I called her to ask if she would like the only size 10 of the shoe I saw cos she wears 9, she didnt pick after calling like 4 times, immediately my brother called her with his own phone, she picked and was like sorry when you called I try to pick but it was nt connecting, I just weak at that moment sey wetin dey sup.
Guys, ladies, from deep experiences u guys must have gone through, what do u think could be wrong and what do yall think I should do, something could be happening that if I dont unravel early, it might be the cause of ones demise or destruction. Come gist us; what’s the outcome of everything Abi your wife don get belle for your husband? |
Re: Unusual Behavior Between My Step Brother And My Wife by nairalanda1(m): 12:14pm On Jun 23, 2023 |
MrbasHH:
... Good morning. Earlier today, you quoted me and said that I had no sense. In response, I wish you well, and hope that in your life this week, and in the comming years, all will be well with you. Also, your comment was not right, and uncalled for. If someone says the same to you, I can only hope they calm down and realize that one should not just be so abusive because it is the internet. Thanks and grow up. |
Re: Unusual Behavior Between My Step Brother And My Wife by Chibuezem(m): 3:04pm On Jun 23, 2023 |
nairalanda1:
Good morning.
Earlier today, you quoted me and said that I had no sense.
In response, I wish you well, and hope that in your life this week, and in the comming years, all will be well with you.
Also, your comment was not right, and uncalled for. If someone says the same to you, I can only hope they calm down and realize that one should not just be so abusive because it is the internet.
Thanks and grow up. passive aggression nice |