SmartyPants:


I dont understand.

You sent the money to his account...why are you surprised that he knows his wife asked?

Clearly he and his wife discussed asking you. He overruled her and then suddenly you sent money.

Dont you think a mature man can put two together and realise it was his wife that still asked?

Thank you Jared, you get the jist. E fit be say the woman self no know say him go do the transfer quick quick like that

shortIGBOman:


You've said it all. I also like the fact that, the lady asked him to send the money to her husband's account. That shows she is a straightforward person.

Op God will bless you for this. Forget weather the woman told her hubby or not. But the 20k you gave them will go a long way. These days, so many families are going through alot.

So you be real human being with a conscience. Reading through your political opinions, I thought you can't make heaven but I was mistaken.

When we meet in heaven, na so I go dey slap you for those nonsense wey you been dey write for Nairaland politics section.

deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

You did well my Guy!! Nothing they sweet me pass for this world like being the reason why others are happy!!! Baba God please bless me abundantly, I promise to make it go round

Gkay1:


I m not sure that u have gone through the message.

Go through the passage again please

deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

Oga Mi,
You have done the right thing. Guy man don run low,madam come take make moves.

deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

women cannot watch their kids go hungry.she did what every woman will do,just be open in your dealings.as a guy man too,when u know ur guy is down financially don’t wait for him to ask before pushing him something once once.as the wife make that move u for tell her ok,after a few minutes I just call ur friend to send his Acc details then send to him

deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

I don't know how old you are, but it appears you are slow. Very slow at that. A woman who is your friend's wife called you and you didn't think it fit to hint your friend about it. What if he sees bank alert and notices a transfer from you, how would you explain to him that nothing is going on between his wife and you?

deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

ok so you saying yor wife want u to put it inside & u scared....corrřrrect?...r u not a man? brotherr u OK sir?(no oofencse)

ahnie:
She planned it with her husband issa colabo thingy.



No modified...I still insist that it's a colabo remix because,the husband was too ashamed to asked you directly for help(men ego)
So he bowed to pressure from his wife and asked her to call you herself.
So simply put,the husby was in the know that the wife called you for help.

Hahahhahahaha

deavicky:

blah blah blah

since the hubby never asked you directly and he knew his wife had you in mind to ask, he figured out who must ha e approached you. If you have not been transacting with him before and just sent that 20k out of the blue, then it will only make it simpler to figure out.

,,,

His ashamed. God bless your good heart!

ahnie:
She planned it with her husband issa colabo thingy.



No modified...I still insist that it's a colabo remix because,the husband was too ashamed to asked you directly for help(men ego)
So he bowed to pressure from his wife and asked her to call you herself.
So simply put,the husby was in the know that the wife called you for help.

This woman too get sense abeg.

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ahnie:
She planned it with her husband issa colabo thingy.



No modified...I still insist that it's a colabo remix because,the husband was too ashamed to asked you directly for help(men ego)
So he bowed to pressure from his wife and asked her to call you herself.
So simply put,the husby was in the know that the wife called you for help.

Can you please do the same for obi

Op, thank you for your effort, the point is that the husband was not comfortable asking you for help at this time but his wife did, it is possible the wife didn't tell him initially but later informed him which made him to reach out to you,
Don't overthink this issue as there is nothing to worry here, the husband asking you not to listen to her next time is to avoid the bad habit of begging you for help without his knowledge. When ever they face challenge

There is nothing wrong be hsppy that you even have to give.




There is more happiness in given

I'm a victim of this same story last week, uptill now I never send shishi

You can send her money but not with your personal account, just go use a POS.

deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

Thanks for helping out.
She may not also have told the husband, he guessed, she admitted and he called you.

She has no choice than to own up if the husband demands that from her.

Please donot listen to anyone advising to lock up and not help her next time.
They are Red demon pillers. They have swallowed demons that hate woman and anything women stand for.

When you have to spare, don't take too long.
Transfer something to them. But take the advise here to carry the husband along.

deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

No she isn't. She is a loyal wife doing what the man can't cos it's so necessary.
I have been in your shoes before.

What you should have done is taken the guy out for a drink and asked him how far with things then just droped the cash in his lap and walk.

Guy, use this one buy fuel.
Everyone saves face that way.

ahnie:
She planned it with her husband issa colabo thingy.



No modified...I still insist that it's a colabo remix because,the husband was too ashamed to asked you directly for help(men ego)
So he bowed to pressure from his wife and asked her to call you herself.
So simply put,the husby was in the know that the wife called you for help.

Yes.
They were probably sitting down together when she made that call.
If the guy was really offended and ignorant he would have returned the money

alizma:

She didn't tell the husband but your friend is smart to know that his wife must have called you. You self for use guy man style, call your guy make him come buy you drink in the evening, then him go tell you say ground no level then you for tell am say make him show any how, any how say the bill go be on you. Then when una finish, you for give am 20k say make e take hold body, say e get how small money take fall in for your hand for office. With that, your guy for reach house go they dance say miracle don happen but this one wey you do be say I'm woman just dey push am make him call you, then after some minutes, guy man just received alert just like that. If him no decode I for know say na dull guy you dey move with.
Just call your guy make you tell am say make him blood

Exactly! Na the way to run am be dis.

deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

EASY,

Just Call your Friend and tell him....His wife Called....
tell him, you understand, That he doesn't need to be shy to ask you for help himself...
then send the cash to him.

then check on him occasionally if he has improved...

Sorry bro, your guy is a bitch

deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

deavicky:
My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

Let me tell you what happened:
Wife asked her husband to contact you for financial help but pride wouldn't let him.
The husband later received credit alert fro you.
He confronted his wife about the money from you and the wife had no choice than to confess what she did.
The husband called you but didn't tell you how he got to know, he just told you what you shouldn't do next time. Period!
I like the wife, I like the husband and I like you too. Wouldn't blame anyone for their roles

i hope this is not going to lead to tatatatatata


Not my business just asking ooh

LadyExcellency:


So you be real human being with a conscience. Reading through your political opinions, I thought you can't make heaven but I was mistaken.

When we meet in heaven, an so I go dey slap you for those nonsense wey you been dey write for Nairaland politics section.

It is like a colabo and it looks fishy! But the wife is responsible for that not the husband; though they might had ran out of cash but the wife planned it all. Forget about men Ego! I was with a lecturer friend one day and his former friend called him if he is around and he said "yes "so the guy said he is coming over. My friend told me that; he might be coming for money. I was there when the guyman came, exchanged pleasantry, we joked and laughed for awhile before he stated his mission "he told my friend how life had been treating him, no money to take care of his wife and kids " he was actually begging for 20k. To cut the story short; my friend told him he doesn't have such amount in cash with him but he will do something. He went to another office and came back and gave him a bundle of cash. So, those saying that "it is ego " I don't agree with you all..