Good day nairalanders

I need your advice
There is this lady I love so much. We use to be close and attached when we knew each other at first. But I never asked her to be my girlfriend. She is a good lady with a good Christian upbring. It’s 3years now even though she is still single. Of recent we became close. But she is not interested in any relationship with me again even when I indirectly asked her to be my girlfriend. She said we can be close friends and business partners. From some of our conversations she always say words that narrow down to “we can’t date” . Though she complained about few of my attitude. Am confused because we play together and move together. Why is she refusing my proposal. Is it because we are now in same place or what. Am lost and confused. I really love this lady . She is a wife material and such women are rare in this new Nigeria. Please I need advice on what to do. Should I leave her and move on or try to formally talk to her been my girlfriend and get her response. Letting go weaks me because she is someone I see always and guys do disturb her but she is yet to agree to any of the guyz. We are still close. Am lost �

You have given her what she should be begging for, full attention, why would she need you? You're like a LovePeddler man. Man-Up. Take away the attention completely and watch here come running after you begging you to take her

Bestrongalways1:
Good day nairalanders

I need your advice
There is this lady I love so much. We use to be close and attached when we knew each other at first. But I never asked her to be my girlfriend. She is a good lady with a good Christian upbring. It’s 3years now even though she is still single. Of recent we became close. But she is not interested in any relationship with me again even when I indirectly asked her to be my girlfriend. She said we can be close friends and business partners. From some of our conversations she always say words that narrow down to “we can’t date” . Though she complained about few of my attitude. Am confused because we play together and move together. Why is she refusing my proposal. Is it because we are now in same place or what. Am lost and confused. I really love this lady . She is a wife material and such women are rare in this new Nigeria. Please I need advice on what to do. Should I leave her and move on or try to formally talk to her been my girlfriend and get her response. Letting go weaks me because she is someone I see always and guys do disturb her but she is yet to agree to any of the guyz. We are still close. Am lost �

Pls leave her.


Those type of women are for Simps

She is a virgin bro
Simp will be happy having her

Guy go hustle..and stop chasing her. Work on urself and u will see how she herself will ask you out.
Them guyz she iz saying no to must be just like you. Step up ur game on urself.

Bestrongalways1:
Good day nairalanders

I need your advice
There is this lady I love so much. We use to be close and attached when we knew each other at first. But I never asked her to be my girlfriend. She is a good lady with a good Christian upbring. It’s 3years now even though she is still single. Of recent we became close. But she is not interested in any relationship with me again even when I indirectly asked her to be my girlfriend. She said we can be close friends and business partners. From some of our conversations she always say words that narrow down to “we can’t date” . Though she complained about few of my attitude. Am confused because we play together and move together. Why is she refusing my proposal. Is it because we are now in same place or what. Am lost and confused. I really love this lady . She is a wife material and such women are rare in this new Nigeria. Please I need advice on what to do. Should I leave her and move on or try to formally talk to her been my girlfriend and get her response. Letting go weaks me because she is someone I see always and guys do disturb her but she is yet to agree to any of the guyz. We are still close. Am lost �

Don't ask her again....
Change strategy....make her feel other girls want you..... ...post pics of random girls with caption like...my paddy for life....5&6 mi....fine babe...enjoy your day....
.pick calls of babes when you are with her ..if you don't have babes calling you ....fake it when you paddy calls..

also.. avoid see finish and giving her access to you whenever she wants ...when a girl is close to you and gets all the rights of a girlfriend without being a girlfriend..your value becomes decreased ....
..be scarce....say no to her requests more often......dont be a simp that does everything for her and gives her money to win her heart..you will lose..

Weda friendship or romantic relationship..the rule is not to lose all the leverage because we humans like to take advantage ....


.if these doesn't work after a while ..move on ...cut her off ....shes not into you....

You have a point

blackboy:
Guy go hustle..and stop chasing her. Work on urself and u will see how she herself will ask you out.
Them guyz she iz saying no to must be just like you. Step up ur game on urself.

I will give this a try and see how it goes.

advanceDNA:


Don't ask her again....
Change strategy....make her feel other girls want you..... ...post pics of random girls with caption like...my paddy for life....5&6 mi....fine babe...enjoy your day....
.pick calls of babes when you are with her ..if you don't have babes calling you ....fake it when you paddy calls..

also.. avoid see finish and giving her access to you whenever she wants ...when a girl is close to you and gets all the rights of a girlfriend without being a girlfriend..your value becomes decreased ....
..be scarce....say no to her requests more often......dont be a simp that does everything for her and gives her money to win her heart..you will lose..

Weda friendship or romantic relationship..the rule is not to lose all the leverage because we humans like to take advantage ....


.if these doesn't work after a while ..move on ...cut her off ....shes not into you....

Bestrongalways1:
She is a virgin bro Simp will be happy having her

Yes.
now leave her alone.