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I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by MediMedi(m): 8:05am On Aug 15, 2022
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by mymadam(m): 8:13am On Aug 15, 2022
MediMedi:
A dude at 24...
Please, am I normal?

No

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Messi1: 8:15am On Aug 15, 2022
You are not normal..infact you will never be normal.Just drink sniper to end the shit.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by doctorexcel: 8:34am On Aug 15, 2022
Your confusion is seriously confused. At 24, you should be re-enforcing solid foundation for your self but it seems there is no foundation, not to talk of what to re-enforce. Bro, get a life and let the opposite sex be for now

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by DaInferno(m): 8:39am On Aug 15, 2022
You have a disorder undecided

Make sure to tell people this when yall meet at first to spare them the aftermath trauma; lest they start thinking all dudes are same

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Reinamaria(f): 8:40am On Aug 15, 2022
MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?

Let us address the issue from the root first;
Why do you lose interest when you're shown affection?
What are you afraid of?
Don't you want to be loved?

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by MediMedi(m): 9:15am On Aug 15, 2022
doctorexcel:
Your confusion is seriously confused. At 24, you should re-enforcing solid foundation for your self but it seems there is no foundation, not to talk of what to re-enforce. Bro, get a life and let the opposite sex be for now
Seriously, No foundations am confused bout my own self.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by MediMedi(m): 9:16am On Aug 15, 2022
mymadam:

No
help needed

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Demigod22: 9:30am On Aug 15, 2022
OP, you are not normal and you need help. I have experience something like that before, I enjoyed wooing ladies but immediately they accepted, I will lose interest. But at some point, I realized that playing with people's feeling doesn't make me intelligent.

First of all, you have to sit down and think about what you really want from the opposite sex. When you meet a girl,let her know the kind of guy you want. For example, I easily get bored with attention, so I always tell girls not to be too available for me if I want to take her serious.

You just have to be aware of the fact that you are growing and you have to adjust to reality. You can still talk to people you trust about it.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Natbrowny: 9:48am On Aug 15, 2022
Niggy. U r only interested in sex. I get it.

Some school of thought says you are not interestd in relationship and commitment because (fear of seeing it fail in the future) there's a word for it. Cant remember for now

Another school of thought says u are related to the SEAT CLAN.

SEAT means Smart, Evolved, Awakened and Intelligent.


U r both normal and not normal. Depends on how u see ursef.
But if sex show u no dey run abi. grin

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Nonexisting: 10:18am On Aug 15, 2022
You are perfectly normal. Me too, I hate it and lose interest whenever vaginarians tell me I love you or try to claim me as their boyfriend. I keep telling them to never develop any emotion for me but some of them still won't listen. I like it when they hate me and not love me because those daughters of Jezebel only kill who they love but you see that man they hate, them dey fear am. When they hate their husbands, they run leave the marriage but when they love am, small time they done pour am hot water or use knife kill am. We men are endangered species now.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Reinamaria(f): 11:59am On Aug 15, 2022
MediMedi:

Seriously, No foundations am confused bout my own self.

Seek God first and you will find yourself.
Trust God, and God will perfect all that concerns you.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Reinamaria(f): 12:01pm On Aug 15, 2022
Nonexisting:
You are perfectly normal. Me too, I hate it and lose interest whenever vaginarians tell me I love you or try to claim me as their boyfriend. I keep telling them to never develop any emotion for me but some of them still won't listen. I like it when they hate me and not love me because those daughters of Jezebel only kill who they love but you see that man they hate, them dey fear am. When they hate their husbands, they run leave the marriage but when they love am, small time they done pour am hot water or use knife kill am. We men are endangered species now.

No, it's not normal.
What you feel is not normal.

What is normal is everybody wants to love and be loved.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Ovulo: 12:07pm On Aug 15, 2022
Your very much normal bro...you're just trying to avoid getting Heart broken or breaking hers either.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by narite: 12:14pm On Aug 15, 2022
MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?
Honestly, I have always thought am the only one like this... same here exactly. I like people and I like to put people above me but once they start to like me or trust me due to my extremely caring attitude which they just can’t ignore, I begin to hate them. Consciously or unconsciously I find ways to sabotage the relationship; Especially when I am involved with a lady. I am 27 and I am perfectly single and lonely for this sole single reason. I just run away from people; those that care about me. Though of recent I am reading a book and I am coming to realized I have been emotionally damaged when I was a boy by mother.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Sheistoopretty(f): 12:24pm On Aug 15, 2022
Messi1:
You are not normal..infact you will never be normal.Just drink sniper to end the shit.

Your comment reeks of stupidity and gross foolishness, it's a pity I share thesame country with you and many of your type. embarassed embarassed

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by BadNews: 12:26pm On Aug 15, 2022
Cha E!

Something Is Really Wrong Somewhere

Get In Touch With BAD NEWS For Counseling
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Draslo(m): 12:26pm On Aug 15, 2022
You're afraid of commitment. Even at 44 some men are still afraid of commitment after 2 baby mamas. You're normal. Just try to give someone a chance.


Either that or you are as straight as a multicolored flag

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by bmdmix23: 12:26pm On Aug 15, 2022
Yes
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Realmi: 12:26pm On Aug 15, 2022
No
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Sheistoopretty(f): 12:26pm On Aug 15, 2022
MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?


You're very much normal dear. Nothing wrong here

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by inoki247: 12:27pm On Aug 15, 2022
lol consult your Dr....
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Nackzy: 12:27pm On Aug 15, 2022
You are it's sad experience
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Holluwhakemmy(f): 12:28pm On Aug 15, 2022
You need relationship orientation not normal at all.
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by SpecialAdviser(m): 12:28pm On Aug 15, 2022
If it's a Nigerian Lady, you are normal.
If it's not a Nigerian Lady, you are abnormal.

Only abnormal people get excited when a Nigerian Lady says I love you in this harsh economy.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Nobody: 12:28pm On Aug 15, 2022
No dear.You have save your money for better things.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Hndrrxxx(m): 12:28pm On Aug 15, 2022
Why should I have love for her when she ain’t knelt to my feet??




Why should I be caring when I know I can’t be beat?

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by esthel(f): 12:28pm On Aug 15, 2022
You probably have trust issues

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Tickles001(m): 12:29pm On Aug 15, 2022
I think you are perfectly normal. You have a nature that would have saved most men if they had it.
If it's not caused by PTSD, then you should be feeling lucky.

What to do:
Stop backing out if you're really interested in the girl.
Keep the disgust for her love language running in the background. It will make you less clingy and she'd like you more for it.
If you're still struggling. Avoid serious relationships for now.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Adesuwag(m): 12:29pm On Aug 15, 2022
Nonexisting:
You are perfectly normal. Me too, I hate it and lose interest whenever vaginarians tell me I love you or try to claim me as their boyfriend. I keep telling them to never develop any emotion for me but some of them still won't listen. I like it when they hate me and not love me because those daughters of Jezebel only kill who they love but you see that man they hate, them dey fear am. When they hate their husbands, they run leave the marriage but when they love am, small time they done pour am hot water or use knife kill am. We men are endangered species now.
you got past traumas and mummy issues. Be healed boy

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