300whitewolves:
My emotions are in a mess right now I am typing this right up. Everything was fine about me before I met this lady. I had just started my internship program UCH and things were going well until I met this lady, she was also an intern like me, at first we didn't really talk and one thing let to the other we started talking, exchanged numbers and all, she was even the one that initiated the process. That was how one night we were talking and she asked me whether I was single or dating, we actually live in the same hostel provided for interns but I went home that very day cos I was off duty and my house was in that state. I told her I was single, she went on to ask me what I wanted out of being with her, I was actually taken aback cos we just barely knew eachother though I was already falling head over hills for her, feeling all the knots in my stomach for her to the extent I had to ask myself what was wrong with me. My response to her was that she was distinct that I wanted to know her more, like friends and all, she said okay, she thanked me for my response, she went on to tell me that she liked me which was not the right thing cos she has someone she was dating but she is finding it so difficult not to fall for me. I was actually surprised, so I told her how I felt about her too that I liked her and all. That day went with other conversations going but we already created this tense atmosphere around each other. On Sunday I cooked rice and I was chatting with her, I asked her if she cared for the rice I am cooking she said yes, I told her I would call her if the rice was done. She came over when the rice was done, I told her to come with a covered plate so she could take her share to the hostel. When I finished with dishing hers she told me if I would follow her to the common room, we'll I told her yes, cos I didn't see anything wrong, it's a common room and it's open so I didn't see any danger in it. After like 1 hours talking in the common room she brought up the topic of she falling for me and all, that she wanted closure, I tried telling her how I felt with the thinking maybe she was just joking about the fact that she already had a boyfriend, during this conversation she placed her head on my chest, with time I couldn't hold it any longer, I asked her if I could kiss her, she said yes, and we went on kissing her her for like 5mins without her stopping me, I later withdrew she was looking scared, moaning under her breath, we kissed again, then we stopped, I then went on to say I was sorry, she told me I shouldn't be. Emotions we raging through her, then she blurted out that she was engaged that she has a fiance and she loved him and doesn't want anything to come between them. I became so sad, how could this be, I had already fallen for her, now she telling me this after the hot kiss and all. She stood up from the common room and went on to dress for work, cos she was on night duty. Through out that night, I was unable to sleep. Fast forward to yesterday she called me that she wanted to see me, when I got there she told me she already told her fiance about it that he came around earlier that day. She told me she wanted to cut off all attachments from me. I said OK but I was hurting, bruised, this girl led me on and shattered me along the way, she moved on quickly but am still her hurting. I really like this girl, but it's life I have to move on myself, the only painful thing is that we live in the same hostel. I will always have the mind that she lives close by.

It's always best to avoid romance with your neighbors and co-workers. That's because the risks usually outweigh the benefits

To be honest, the girl didn't lead you on. You were the one that played yourself.

She gave you the chance to be romantic with her but you were acting weak all along.

Everything she was doing screams FUCCCK ME but you were acting like a sissy or nice guy. There is a reason we say "nice guys finish last."

I suspect your "nice guy" attitude was why she decided to cut you off.

Ladies lie a lot. I'm suspecting she's just testing you for now. She's likely lying about telling her fiance about what happened. I don't expect her to be that foolish. She likely told you that to scare you off.

My Recommendations:

1. First, accept that you acted weak. If I were you, I would have told her I want to fucck her on that day you guys had your first romantic talk. Don't tell me you didn't want to have sexx with her. We know that's a lie. I would have just say "I want regular romance with her though nothing committed."

2. Leave her alone and ignore her as much as possible. Don't stalk her. Don't beg her. Delete her contacts or block. If she greets or initiate conversation, make it as snappy as possible and move on.

3. Find another lady, especially one prettier than her. When she starts seeing you with your new girl, she will know she ain't that important and is replaceable. Usually, she will try to get you back when she sees that another lady is now in your life. Ladies like going for what they can't have. They prefer getting guys who already have other ladies in his life to a guy who has no luck with ladies.

Chnbanc:
simp.
always learn to control your emotions

Passionnn:

You classify every lover a simp, wheres you do worse things

2dice01:
She wanted your premium díck but you didn't get the memo

thebosstrevor1:
The real truth of the matter is that because you didn't finish your work that is why she had to tell you that.

If you had continue without all these silly questions you were asking, you would have layed her by now.

Btw, she didn't scattered your emotions, you did that by your own self

300whitewolves:
My emotions are in a mess right now I am typing this right up. Everything was fine about me before I met this lady. I had just started my internship program UCH and things were going well until I met this lady, she was also an intern like me, at first we didn't really talk and one thing let to the other we started talking, exchanged numbers and all, she was even the one that initiated the process. That was how one night we were talking and she asked me whether I was single or dating, we actually live in the same hostel provided for interns but I went home that very day cos I was off duty and my house was in that state. I told her I was single, she went on to ask me what I wanted out of being with her, I was actually taken aback cos we just barely knew eachother though I was already falling head over hills for her, feeling all the knots in my stomach for her to the extent I had to ask myself what was wrong with me. My response to her was that she was distinct that I wanted to know her more, like friends and all, she said okay, she thanked me for my response, she went on to tell me that she liked me which was not the right thing cos she has someone she was dating but she is finding it so difficult not to fall for me. I was actually surprised, so I told her how I felt about her too that I liked her and all. That day went with other conversations going but we already created this tense atmosphere around each other. On Sunday I cooked rice and I was chatting with her, I asked her if she cared for the rice I am cooking she said yes, I told her I would call her if the rice was done. She came over when the rice was done, I told her to come with a covered plate so she could take her share to the hostel. When I finished with dishing hers she told me if I would follow her to the common room, we'll I told her yes, cos I didn't see anything wrong, it's a common room and it's open so I didn't see any danger in it. After like 1 hours talking in the common room she brought up the topic of she falling for me and all, that she wanted closure, I tried telling her how I felt with the thinking maybe she was just joking about the fact that she already had a boyfriend, during this conversation she placed her head on my chest, with time I couldn't hold it any longer, I asked her if I could kiss her, she said yes, and we went on kissing her her for like 5mins without her stopping me, I later withdrew she was looking scared, moaning under her breath, we kissed again, then we stopped, I then went on to say I was sorry, she told me I shouldn't be. Emotions we raging through her, then she blurted out that she was engaged that she has a fiance and she loved him and doesn't want anything to come between them. I became so sad, how could this be, I had already fallen for her, now she telling me this after the hot kiss and all. She stood up from the common room and went on to dress for work, cos she was on night duty. Through out that night, I was unable to sleep. Fast forward to yesterday she called me that she wanted to see me, when I got there she told me she already told her fiance about it that he came around earlier that day. She told me she wanted to cut off all attachments from me. I said OK but I was hurting, bruised, this girl led me on and shattered me along the way, she moved on quickly but am still her hurting. I really like this girl, but it's life I have to move on myself, the only painful thing is that we live in the same hostel. I will always have the mind that she lives close by.

blinking001:
Wonders shall never end. Indeed many were born males but only a handful are men. Count your loses and move on. It's that simple.

Person carry free yansh come give you, you decide to jonz for what ever reason best known to you. Gtf

kelspinall:


gal em go knack emotions enter her head em go dey use silly talk talk wey enta..em forget say that format don cast..men no longer talk too much before getting her where she pose to

H0didon:
You're a mumu man . Better make money and live life.
She intentionally led you on and you fell. Exactly what happens when you let your dick take charge thereby neglecting your brain. Girls are very smart. You act like they ain't your priority, act hard like someone who doesn't care or give a damn and they'll fall for you. You will even enter them freely but they will treat you like trash when you act weak, SIMPle, caring or even give them your time.
Better wise up.





As our Ancestors would say "When it has to do with the affairs of women, always use your head and neglect the action of your dick".

blinking001:
Wonders shall never end. Indeed many were born males but only a handful are men. Count your loses and move on. It's that simple.

Person carry free yansh come give you, you decide to jonz for what ever reason best known to you. Gtf

PrinceofAgoAre:
Now here lies her aim op but u were slow... She was looking to have little fun before she's being wifed and wouldnt get d chance anymore..