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Re: Is It Bad To Assist Your Wife Or Fiancee With House Chores by ImaIma1(f): 10:27pm On Aug 22, 2022 |
So washing his own clothes is now a chore for him. What happened to washing machine or dry cleaner? Some men think marrying a wife is equals to acquiring a maid. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Bad To Assist Your Wife Or Fiancee With House Chores by ETIIKO: 10:57pm On Aug 22, 2022 |
If you need a happy family and want to sustain your marriage to last longer please assist your wife in whatever task and capacity you can at home. Do not listen side talk. Thank you |
Re: Is It Bad To Assist Your Wife Or Fiancee With House Chores by jesmond3945: 7:25am On Aug 23, 2022 |
Zonefree:didnt you eat from the plate? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Bad To Assist Your Wife Or Fiancee With House Chores by Francisanointed(m): 11:27am On Aug 23, 2022 |
ETIIKO:Sometimes it is better not to give listening ears to third parties 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Bad To Assist Your Wife Or Fiancee With House Chores by Helpout12345: 4:08pm On Aug 23, 2022 |
It is not a bad thing if the wife is overwhelmed. It is the primary responsibility of the woman in the house. Just like funding and providing for the family is the primary responsibility of the husband. The wife too can help the man in funding if the man will be overwhelmed. |
Re: Is It Bad To Assist Your Wife Or Fiancee With House Chores by Helpout12345: 4:14pm On Aug 23, 2022 |
I also think it depends on the society and culture where the marriage was formed. In Nigeria and Africa, my advise is same as up there. But in western world, its different. No one has house chores or financial responsibilities assigned in western culture marriages. That's their culture. And Nigerians should stop importing everything foreign including marriage cultures. |
Re: Is It Bad To Assist Your Wife Or Fiancee With House Chores by Ibechris2: 4:57pm On Aug 23, 2022 |
Zonefree: So,if u wash plate u will die? U see ur life. I have a nanny and I still wash plate and that is what I don't like to see unwash in my house and I don't complain. If I enter the kitchen now,the first thing i do is help out irrespective of who is there,be it my wife,my daughter or nanny. There is absolutely nothing in this life oh...I just feel u guys attached alot of ego to yourselves at home. Take it easy,she is your wife and not your slave ok. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Bad To Assist Your Wife Or Fiancee With House Chores by Nobody: 5:15pm On Aug 23, 2022 |
ImaIma1: Nigerian marriage matter dey always tire person. |
Re: Is It Bad To Assist Your Wife Or Fiancee With House Chores by Acidosis(m): 6:56pm On Aug 23, 2022 |
Any man that is too busy to do chores in his house should be able to pay for such services. If you're too busy such that you're unable to contribute anything (material or immaterial) in your home, then you and your busyness are useless to your home and mankind. |
Re: Is It Bad To Assist Your Wife Or Fiancee With House Chores by Nobody: 8:55pm On Aug 23, 2022 |
Why is this even a question?. Too much ego go kill the black man! |
Re: Is It Bad To Assist Your Wife Or Fiancee With House Chores by ImaIma1(f): 5:46pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
truthsayer009: The traditional and rigid mindset of some men is the problem. If not, indeed no crime in doing chores in your own house. |
Re: Is It Bad To Assist Your Wife Or Fiancee With House Chores by slan87(m): 5:52pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Francisanointed: It's good but shouldn't be on a regular basis. |
Re: Is It Bad To Assist Your Wife Or Fiancee With House Chores by Kobojunkie: 8:06pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Skyview01:Africa's one and only "blessing".... the ego on the black man. ![]() 1 Like |
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