Why A Man Must Be Financially Responsible In Relationship -- Nigerian Lawyer

Mr Olakunle Allison has argued that financial responsibility is an obligation for men in marriage and relationship. Read the piece he wrote below;�

"We must be consistent and realistic as men.

Someone asked where it is stated that men must be responsible for financial obligations in relationship or marriage.

I smiled.

Some men have a problem with me saying they must lead and support financially in a relationship.

Men who have issues with this are not being honest and rational.

They are also not being consistent.

Men cannot in one breath say they want traditional women and in another breath argue against being traditional men.

It's either you believe in traditional gender roles or you don't.

And if you believe in traditional gender roles, you must be the financial leader in any relationship or marriage. That is what traditional men have always done.

If you want a woman who prioritizes your home and raising your children at home above her career, you must also be a man who prioritizes making money and providing for that woman and your children.

It's a FAIR BARGAIN AND BALANCE.

You cannot be claiming 50/50 contribution from a woman who has sacrificed her career and stuff just to take care of you and your family.

If that woman works and earns a decent income, it's not for you to "tax". She works so that she can support her children and herself, so that she doesn't become a liability to herself and particularly to you. She can buy her own personal things without disturbing you all the time.

You have no business demanding that she gives you her money in a relationship. That's why you work. You should be able to take care of yourself and your family without "taxing" your woman.

NOW, if she chooses to support you, that's because she is a good woman. That's her prerogative. It is not your RIGHT to demand.

Again, a REAL traditional man does not demand money or financial support from his woman.

Our fathers did not demand from our mothers.

When our mothers gave us money it was because they saw a need and voluntarily chose to support our fathers.

If you have a habit of demanding financial support from a woman, you are not ready for adulthood.

In fact, you are the major reason why we have feminists.

Feminists think they are equal to men because SOME men give them that impression by always demanding money from them; by challenging them to work and earn like men. Sadly, they (feminists) obeyed.

Some men won't even bother working or searching for work the moment they know that their woman is loaded. And you think she wouldn't feel she is powerful enough to claim equality?

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