iamphenomenal:
Victorious testimony of a Nairalander in his mid-twenties...

It has now been two years since I bid an eternal farewell to pornography and masturbation. It was a very serious battle but here I am, celebrating my victory. I also made a post last year when I celebrated my one-year victory
https://www.nairaland.com/6751753/celebrating-one-year-victory-over-masturbation

This testimony is not to debate whether the addiction is bad or not. That is for you to decide, especially if you're struggling with it. So, this testimony is much about celebration, recognition and appreciation, and probably motivation for anyone inspired by this remarkable feat

To avoid a voluminous write-up, I would not include here my life story, progress, challenges, the ups and downs, and the benefits. You can find everything in our Nairaland Community
https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread

It's very important to note that I also took it the hard mode by deliberately staying off sex, so in these two years, I've not had sex, viewed porn in any form or masturbated. I avoided a relationship and also declined sexual proposals. It's been total celibacy. The technical term is Semen Retention. Of course there were girls available, but I was fully determined in my heart to avoid anything related to sex or indecency. What fueled this mission was the desire for a reunion with God, and the path of self-discipline and self-discovery

This was totally impossible owing to the level of my addiction, but I really discovered that "impossibility is a mere illusion created by - and only exists in - the human mind"

In our Nairaland NoFap community https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread , I got the opportunity to serve as the President, for which I am extremely grateful. A former PMO (Porn and Masturbation) addict leading an anti-PMO movement - I would vehemently argue this could ever be possible, given a few years ago

I've had a wonderful run, and it's never been by my strength alone. I must give reference to everyone that participated, directly or indirectly, in this achievement

Credits:
- God Almighty my Redeemer and supplier of strength
- Members of my lovely community Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread
https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread
along with my winning brothers like Seas, CR777, challengemaster, FunNoStrings, Onelove508, can't mention y'all
- The Redpill Community
- Global NoFap Community - Reddit, Fight The New Drug, YouTube NoFap channels
- YouVersion Bible Community
- Apps - Reboot, Iron Will, StopM
- Joseph Okechukwu YouTube
- Brian Tracy's No Excuses: The Power of Self-discipline
- Righteousness2 : Sir, I did it again. I made it!
- Honourable Nairaland Moderators - Mynd44, Seun, lalasticlala et al

Dedication
I dedicate this phenomenal achievement to all Nairalanders. You are a set of intelligent, funny and wonderful people who made ₦airaland Forum an interesting place to be. Keep up the good work!

Closing remarks
God bless you, all readers. The grace of God abides with everyone that has taken part in this achievement, those who will be motivated by it, and those who will join me to celebrate this victory. I assure you, whatever addiction you struggle with, total victory is possible if you are willing to fight for your freedom and pay the price

Much Love,
Long live Nairaland Forum
Long live NoFap™

From the President,
Nairaland NoFap Community™

AdeProgrammer:


If God does not exist, how there you talk about moral?
Where did you get your concept of moral from?
How did you get to know what is evil and what is good?

Mufakirnaqdiun:
It would have been great if you gave yourself the credit instead of attributing it to God.
Did he fly down to stop you?look, if you weren't determined, there's no way you'd stop it.

We keep asking why your God can't feed the hungry children or those kids born with cancer and disease, or your God couldn't save Deborah from being lynched, or better still those people who died in owo the other day.

I bet you no Christian will ever be able to give an answer because deep down they know their God only exist in their mind, the moment they try to give an answer they start sounding stupid and illogical.

NoFucksToGive:


Chai.... May you sons act like this

Bye

Mufakirnaqdiun:

The same person who helped him couldn't help Deborah,that one nah God?

Odebayo4010:


You're sacrilege,I don't think you're Normal person, Best thing is to ignore you with you stupidity

Mufakirnaqdiun:

I already did,and guess what he didn't respond cos he doesn't exist.simple.
He will be doing himself a great favor by helping the hungry children

Mufakirnaqdiun:
It would have been great if you gave yourself the credit instead of attributing it to God.
Did he fly down to stop you?look, if you weren't determined, there's no way you'd stop it.

We keep asking why your God can't feed the hungry children or those kids born with cancer and disease, or your God couldn't save Deborah from being lynched, or better still those people who died in owo the other day.

I bet you no Christian will ever be able to give an answer because deep down they know their God only exist in their mind, the moment they try to give an answer they start sounding stupid and illogical.

Mufakirnaqdiun:

If you need the concept of God to tell you right from wrong then you are a hypocrite.

A simple thought exercise, based upon your question.
Given: There is no god
Assumption 1: We have morality
Assumption 2: We know the difference between right and wrong.

If we still have morality, it came from us. It came from our parents. It came from our teachers and the other adults in our lives. It came from our friends and the times we accidentally hurt them and felt bad about it.
How dare you speak like you lack common sense?

Mufakirnaqdiun:

Oga shut up and tell me why your God couldn't save Deborah and his children that were all slaughtered?

Mufakirnaqdiun:

Oga shut up and tell me why you keep serving a God that doesn't exist.

Mufakirnaqdiun:

The same person who helped him couldn't help Deborah,that one nah God?

NoFucksToGive:
So many weak kpomo ju men on this forum
. Dem go just come online dey cap careless.

Over 120 million men in Nigeria and trust me they all have problems but porn and masturbation isn't on their list . They have bills, family issues ,health issues, career issues, social issues but porn and soapy is not one of their problems .

Paddy your problem is you were born weak, raised weak, indulged to be weak hence why blue film wey you dey watch on phone and soapy became your problem to the extent you came without any shame to post this online. Maybe in your mind you are a motivator to other weak men like you? . Osanobua!!!

This is the problem with Nigeria today. In the old days our fathers were men. They had too much time being men to have feminine problems like soapy and porn.

Kai I dey shame for you OP. See wetin son of a supposed man posted online with pride and full chest

Too many kpomo ju men on this forum no wonder Una dey always get time argue and abuse each other tribe like women !!! I spit In disgust!!
Who dey raise all these weak men abeg?!!
Abeg Were dem from come ?

U go see men dey cap stupidity online with pride , dey abuse each other like women! Now see this one dey announce say him stop soapy and blue film as achievement with pride o?!!! Osanobua!!!

Nor wonder babes just dey misbehave because the men don become more like women while the women don dey man up... It's natural evolution in nature, when there is an absence of the apex predator the weaker animals take its place .. I dey shame for these breed of men!!!!

Osanobua!!!

To wipe the OP USB cord for neck dey hungry me

NoFucksToGive:
So many weak kpomo ju men on this forum
. Dem go just come online dey cap careless.

Over 120 million men in Nigeria and trust me they all have problems but porn and masturbation isn't on their list . They have bills, family issues ,health issues, career issues, social issues but porn and soapy is not one of their problems .

Paddy your problem is you were born weak, raised weak, indulged to be weak hence why blue film wey you dey watch on phone and soapy became your problem to the extent you came without any shame to post this online. Maybe in your mind you are a motivator to other weak men like you? . Osanobua!!!

This is the problem with Nigeria today. In the old days our fathers were men. They had too much time being men to have feminine problems like soapy and porn.

Kai I dey shame for you OP. See wetin son of a supposed man posted online with pride and full chest

Too many kpomo ju men on this forum no wonder Una dey always get time argue and abuse each other tribe like women !!! I spit In disgust!!
Who dey raise all these weak men abeg?!!
Abeg Were dem from come ?

U go see men dey cap stupidity online with pride , dey abuse each other like women! Now see this one dey announce say him stop soapy and blue film as achievement with pride o?!!! Osanobua!!!

Nor wonder babes just dey misbehave because the men don become more like women while the women don dey man up... It's natural evolution in nature, when there is an absence of the apex predator the weaker animals take its place .. I dey shame for these breed of men!!!!

Osanobua!!!

To wipe the OP USB cord for neck dey hungry me

nony43:
I never knew I will stop bet9ja virtual betting. I was so addicted that I bought small 20 leaves for forecasting games. I will be at home sleeping seeing sequence but yet when I play it will cut. It leaves me broke most times. Until one day I won 105k with 200 naira I said to myself if you don't stop now then I can't stop again. I took the bold step I fought myself chaii.

See ehh addictions are so bad that when you want to pull out you don't have the idea of how deep you have fallen. To defeat an addiction is not easy rara. I stop bet9ja virtual in August 2017 since then I have been proud of my future self. But before that August since January 2017 I have been saying every month that I will stop till August I said a big NO.

God1000:
Stay blessed, overcoming any addiction isn't easy.

To my fellow guys, refrain from such pernicious acts

Juanmike:
What of normal betting?

BeanmanX:
Because majority of them are pretenders,,,they don't say it blantantly cuz they actually don't want people to judge them unlike men that re more open,,,,even Rozross and other females here re chronic másturbators,,,

In Nigeria especially Lagos,, majority of females there have dildos,,,