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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by seanwilliam(m): 8:24am On Aug 30, 2022
Faber:


Blessed up man...no time to check time. She will come begging, but zero your mind and pursue greater heights. Me I don line up the replacement of the one I dey with now.

Her replacement dey for bench, waiting for her to bleep up, then I get her fired

Lol. My brotherly advice to you is that if a woman gives you slightest reason to doubt her, pls don’t go ahead.

Dem no Dey manage woman for marriage. U can keep her for gf and if by mistake she gets pregnant for you , DONT BY ANY CHANCE CONSIDER MARRYING cos of that if she’s not convinced you enough .. ,

When I’m ready to find wife and settle, I know where to go grin

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by BrotherCork: 9:25am On Aug 30, 2022
Sweetplum:

You are referring to your mum, sisters, unborn female kids and all females in your entire genealogy

Calm down please. This is not acceptable.

CC
Lalastilala Seun, mynd, Farano, Rocktation
Rule 2 and Rule 8 broken again.
Kindly action.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Kaymicheal852: 9:32am On Aug 30, 2022
Just have a nice house ,iPhone and if possible a nice car 80% of girls you meet will want to move into your house immediately,they have no shame ,no modesty ,no character,no loyalty ,they don’t have a dime ,no chastiness ,no accountability whatsoever and the worst thing is that they will still want to boss you like they are some kind of a Demi-God or some princess while all they posses is a smelly ,over used pussy ,I don fine one that them no born her papa well make she cross my boundaries and leave Naija girls alone for you stronghead guys ,I no want wahala


If cheating come I go cheat if e no come I go keep my dick inside my sokoto jejely and if you’re not my wife and you see 5 kobo for my hand na juju you use

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Kaymicheal852: 9:43am On Aug 30, 2022
abobote:
Men who are not ready to settle are looking for excuse.
I'm married, and happy


If only you choose wisely you will give a more profound advice to guys than saying they are looking for excuses,well ,your wife will still show you shege when time comes,I promise you

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by BrotherCork: 9:58am On Aug 30, 2022
Sweetplum:

You are referring to your mum, sisters, unborn female kids and all females in your entire genealogy

Olosho Please calm down therrrris no need for violent & therrris no need acting like ilitarate....anyways gimme yor nomba please? (no oofencsse) embarassed

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by yemi1504: 10:22am On Aug 30, 2022
Demigod22:


Very bore attempt. How can a girl be a feminist when she can't feed herself? When she is jumping from one penis to another for money? A feminist is an intelligent, productive, industrious, independent and highly intellectual and purpose driven woman or man who promote equal rights and opportunities for both male and female.

Our hungry girls that can't subscribe their phone can never make a healthy feminist.

You can say that again! Don't know what brand of feminism, they are practicing sha.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by yemi1504: 10:25am On Aug 30, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


Most times, age doesn't equal maturity. She's still in her "bloom of youth". Unfortunately, some people are late bloomers. Maybe, when she gets to 40, she will wake up, who knows?

It's up to you to decide if you can deal with her shenanigans till whenever she wakes up or take your L in peace and nurse your wounds. I wish you the best.

At 32, still displaying signs of immaturity? I have heard it all! Sigh SMH.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by alphabbey1(m): 10:32am On Aug 30, 2022
JoeRizzla:
Peace Of Mind Is Priority,


Hook Up Girls Everywhere,
You Don't Even Know Who You Are Bringing Into Your Life And Home after too s*x with different niggaz.
She go still compare you with those niggaz she did one night stand with
This is underrrated wink
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 10:42am On Aug 30, 2022
BrotherCork:


Olosho Please calm down therrrris no need for violent & therrris no need acting like ilitarate....anyways gimme yor nomba please? (no oofencsse) embarassed
I mean it. You are referring to the females in your entire genealogy
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Positiveme2020: 1:46pm On Aug 30, 2022
Geesaintagape:
Settle down as how?
I have settled down without wife.

I tire oh.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Positiveme2020: 4:11pm On Aug 30, 2022
seanwilliam:


Lol. My brotherly advice to you is that if a woman gives you slightest reason to doubt her, pls don’t go ahead.

Dem no Dey manage woman for marriage. U can keep her for gf and if by mistake she gets pregnant for you , DONT BY ANY CHANCE CONSIDER MARRYING cos of that if she’s not convinced you enough .. ,

When I’m ready to find wife and settle, I know where to go grin
I will like to know the place ?

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Karlifate: 10:21pm On Sep 01, 2022
Moniya4Real:
Because more often than not, it brings heartache. My wife of 12 years, which produced two kids left me cos she thinks I am not making enough money only for me to find out she has been cheating on me with one married Yoruba actor���…… the sad thing is, I trusted her wholeheartedly. I am depressed right now.

Damn! cry
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by tnerro1(m): 10:30pm On Sep 01, 2022
The ones that have money are settling down, full stop.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by efficiencie(m): 2:36am On Sep 02, 2022
Stephen2324:
Why are men loosing interest in settling down?

...because the ratio of olosho to virgin is 100,000:1...the devil is working really hard!
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by efficiencie(m): 2:37am On Sep 02, 2022
tnerro1:
The ones that have money are settling down, full stop.

...are they remaining in their marriages? Before den use 6 months den don divorce...

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by ednut1(m): 2:52am On Sep 02, 2022
hardship and hookup
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Bigfish121(m): 3:50am On Sep 02, 2022
Them nor dey look for wife for Abuja ooo.Na Abuja I dry.

vickydevoka:

Government should do something about Abuja ashawo. 90 percent of Abuja babes are into hook up
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Bigfish121(m): 3:52am On Sep 02, 2022
Abeg where you go go make I know. very important.


seanwilliam:


Lol. My brotherly advice to you is that if a woman gives you slightest reason to doubt her, pls don’t go ahead.

Dem no Dey manage woman for marriage. U can keep her for gf and if by mistake she gets pregnant for you , DONT BY ANY CHANCE CONSIDER MARRYING cos of that if she’s not convinced you enough .. ,

When I’m ready to find wife and settle, I know where to go grin
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by emmaodet: 5:23pm On Sep 06, 2022
LollySeaSide:

It depends on what you mean by "settling down".
Men are not losing interest in settling down.
Men are wary of setting themselves up for untimely death.
If by settling down you mean marriage, then know that a man can settle down and live his life to the fullest without getting married to a woman.
Marriage is unfortunately overrated and entitled ladies are making it even worse.
I've lived two parts of my life; the first 33 years and the last 5 years.
I can tell you for free that the last five years have been nothing short of awesome, peaceful, organised and worr-free.
You know why?
You guessed right!
There isn't a woman in life except my mother who has always been in my life.
I may get married again but that will be much much later in my life.

I sent this question to a friend of mine and that's the reply he sent me.

I hope I can still summon the courage to marry.

Hmmmmmmmm
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Ilekokonit: 9:43pm On Sep 06, 2022
blinking001:
Because men are growing wiser and are realising that there's nothing in it for them

Sharp guy.

Marriage is like a zero sum game for men and whichever way they play it they lose and so they avoid going into a lose lose situation that will drain them financially, mentally and spiritually.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by lilcarterpkrane(m): 9:54pm On Sep 06, 2022
life no balance again for where the other gender the again
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by alphaNomega: 4:04am On Sep 07, 2022
Kaymicheal852:
Just have a nice house ,iPhone and if possible a nice car 80% of girls you meet will want to move into your house immediately,they have no shame ,no modesty ,no character,no loyalty ,they don’t have a dime ,no chastiness ,no accountability whatsoever and the worst thing is that they will still want to boss you like they are some kind of a Demi-God or some princess while all they posses is a smelly ,over used pussy ,I don fine one that them no born her papa well make she cross my boundaries and leave Naija girls alone for you stronghead guys ,I no want wahala


If cheating come I go cheat if e no come I go keep my dick inside my sokoto jejely and if you’re not my wife and you see 5 kobo for my hand na juju you use
I like this guy

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Amarisco(f): 7:03pm On Sep 10, 2022
HITsquad:
Wife no dey again nah.... extinction things! When I listen to married people talking about what they go through everyday in their marriage, I get more scared of getting married lol...

Marriage na trap... Our forefathers were so lucky to have found good wives... Now we are just marrying bunch of hoes and hook up girls as wives. under your roof as your wife and patiently waiting for their hoeing nature to be triggered and activated.


If you manage to have babies without getting married like I did, then you are blessed beyond measures...

Oh please
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by HITsquad: 10:25am On Sep 11, 2022
Amarisco:


Oh please
I saw your quote and a billion things rushed through my mind to say to you. But I'm just gonna say hey girl...

Cos unlike you, I don't conclude on people until they tell their story... And if they choose not to, I will simply leave it at that. Cos not all stories are meant to be told... Something you never really understand.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Jman06(m): 11:46pm On Oct 03, 2022
The more illuminated men become, the more they realize how useless marriage is to them.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Tradepunter2: 5:16am On Oct 04, 2022
Sweetplum:

You are referring to your mum, sisters, unborn female kids and all females in your entire genealogy

Says a useless evening newspaper
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Paulianfa(m): 5:23am On Oct 04, 2022
Settling down is a scale, wahala too much from other gender...
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Tradepunter2: 5:39am On Oct 04, 2022
Amarisco:


Oh please

It is the fking Truth.... Because those of you that claim not to be hoes are on your high horse and can't understand a man...

Men finally the self destruct button have been activated.
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 6:03am On Oct 04, 2022
Tradepunter2:


Says my useless evening newspaper mum
Ok. I didn't know you came out of the gutter.
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by toujurs: 6:13am On Oct 04, 2022
Difficulty in getting a decent lady
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Wizywiz(m): 9:08am On Oct 04, 2022
Demigod22:


Immediately I arrived at Port Harcourt, the first orientation I got was that there's no girlfriend here, strictly hookup, cash in your hands and girl on your bed.

Most people serious girlfriend is doing hookup for another guy. It's that terrible.
that's the honest truth bro

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