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Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by Bliss4Lyfe(f): 6:25pm On Aug 08, 2011
I have noticed, that today people seem to be in a rush for marriage and not really interested in romance and courtship aspect or prefer that kept to a minimum. Are we returning to the good old days of our parents, were people see each other for the first time and marriage. What's ur opinion on this matter?
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by Goldieluks: 6:27pm On Aug 08, 2011
Tpiah@brb grin grin
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by r231(m): 6:28pm On Aug 08, 2011
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Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by deniyor: 6:30pm On Aug 08, 2011
Errmmm I haven't thought about that yet.
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by Bliss4Lyfe(f): 6:57pm On Aug 08, 2011
Lets get some answers. I don't know if it is a rush or just desperation over time wasted, not sure wat it is. lollz
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by Nobody: 7:00pm On Aug 08, 2011
No, not everybody. Me i careless with my fleets of over 10 gfs
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by claremont(m): 7:23pm On Aug 08, 2011
Bliss4Lyfe:

I have noticed, that today people seem to be in a rush for marriage and not really interested in romance and courtship aspect or prefer that kept to a minimum. Are we returning to the good old days of our parents, were people see each other for  the first time and marriage. What's your opinion on this matter?
The fact of the matter is that marriages lasted longer in those "good old days", as compared to the present day were 95% of people living are suffering from the "romantic love delusion". We can narrow down the reason for the upsurge in marriage break-ups today to the irrational belief in the concept of "love". Take it or leave it, but marriage is like playing a lottery, sometimes it works out, other times it doesn't, but the fun therein resides in the act of playing itself. A marriage that is destined to failure will always fail irrespective of the enormous amount of "romantic love" and courtship people do!

Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by obowunmi(m): 7:27pm On Aug 08, 2011
Every gets married and many get divorced --- I can't compare it to the olden times because women back then didn't get divorced. Today, divorce is on everyone's mind.


Rush in --- Rush out! wink
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by cantell(m): 7:34pm On Aug 08, 2011
obowunmi:

Every gets married and many get divorced --- I can't compare it to the olden times because women back then didn't get divorced. Today, divorce is on everyone's mind.


Rush in --- Rush out!  wink
In bold - not our women(igbo women)
They still value their marriages and they understand that there's no hope for a divorcee in Igboland.
Besides, Igbo men take good care of their wives.
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by lindabon: 7:35pm On Aug 08, 2011
obowunmi:

I can't compare it to the olden times because women back then didn't get divorced. Today, divorce is on everyone's mind.


because now, most people actually love themselves to be married and it stays that way; they only get divorced wen d love goes sour!
but in the good old days, people hardly married for love. so wat exactly will dey be divorcing from  undecided undecided undecided undecided

if u ask me, i had rather have one day of a loving marriage to a loving husband, than spend the rest of my life in a boring loveless marriage. no wonder the high blood pressure rate is high with them.
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by Bliss4Lyfe(f): 9:44pm On Aug 08, 2011
So, is it desperation to get married or just a rush to make up for lost time becos dis marriage thing seems to be in vogue and the women are wanting it even younger.
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by kpolli(m): 11:04am On Aug 09, 2011
I tot ppl were complaining of others not being ready to marry. .

Poster, where did u get ur assumptions from?
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by Bliss4Lyfe(f): 6:44pm On Aug 09, 2011
Exactly does people dat are ready complain of people not being ready. The question is why are dey in such a rush or is it just desperation.? grin

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