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Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by Bliss4Lyfe(f): 6:25pm On Aug 08, 2011 |
I have noticed, that today people seem to be in a rush for marriage and not really interested in romance and courtship aspect or prefer that kept to a minimum. Are we returning to the good old days of our parents, were people see each other for the first time and marriage. What's ur opinion on this matter? |
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by Goldieluks: 6:27pm On Aug 08, 2011 |
Tpiah@brb |
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by r231(m): 6:28pm On Aug 08, 2011 |
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Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by deniyor: 6:30pm On Aug 08, 2011 |
Errmmm I haven't thought about that yet. |
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by Bliss4Lyfe(f): 6:57pm On Aug 08, 2011 |
Lets get some answers. I don't know if it is a rush or just desperation over time wasted, not sure wat it is. lollz |
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by Nobody: 7:00pm On Aug 08, 2011 |
No, not everybody. Me i careless with my fleets of over 10 gfs |
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by claremont(m): 7:23pm On Aug 08, 2011 |
Bliss4Lyfe:The fact of the matter is that marriages lasted longer in those "good old days", as compared to the present day were 95% of people living are suffering from the "romantic love delusion". We can narrow down the reason for the upsurge in marriage break-ups today to the irrational belief in the concept of "love". Take it or leave it, but marriage is like playing a lottery, sometimes it works out, other times it doesn't, but the fun therein resides in the act of playing itself. A marriage that is destined to failure will always fail irrespective of the enormous amount of "romantic love" and courtship people do! |
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by obowunmi(m): 7:27pm On Aug 08, 2011 |
Every gets married and many get divorced --- I can't compare it to the olden times because women back then didn't get divorced. Today, divorce is on everyone's mind. Rush in --- Rush out! |
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by cantell(m): 7:34pm On Aug 08, 2011 |
obowunmi:In bold - not our women(igbo women) They still value their marriages and they understand that there's no hope for a divorcee in Igboland. Besides, Igbo men take good care of their wives. |
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by lindabon: 7:35pm On Aug 08, 2011 |
obowunmi: because now, most people actually love themselves to be married and it stays that way; they only get divorced wen d love goes sour! but in the good old days, people hardly married for love. so wat exactly will dey be divorcing from if u ask me, i had rather have one day of a loving marriage to a loving husband, than spend the rest of my life in a boring loveless marriage. no wonder the high blood pressure rate is high with them. |
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by Bliss4Lyfe(f): 9:44pm On Aug 08, 2011 |
So, is it desperation to get married or just a rush to make up for lost time becos dis marriage thing seems to be in vogue and the women are wanting it even younger. |
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by kpolli(m): 11:04am On Aug 09, 2011 |
I tot ppl were complaining of others not being ready to marry. . Poster, where did u get ur assumptions from? |
Re: Everybody Wants To Get Married And No More Lovers. Why? by Bliss4Lyfe(f): 6:44pm On Aug 09, 2011 |
Exactly does people dat are ready complain of people not being ready. The question is why are dey in such a rush or is it just desperation.? |
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