when i first met my boyfriend i was already in a relationship. but he was determined to win me over. he couldn't do without seeing me. he'd call a dozen times a day.  my ex finally ended the relationship and i started going out with the present one. he was so sweet until he travelled out of the country. he wouldn't call me for weeks. when i call him he'd look for an excuse to get off the phone. he came back to Nigeria without telling me. when i found out i threatened to end it but he pleaded and i forgave him. but he has changed especially now that we r in different states. please your advice would really help.

dump the fool. and move on

u broke with someone to be with another cos he was persuative? dam! u so stupid ,

Plz, follow your heart, it has been screaming "leave the fool" ever since. There are a lot of guys that would appreciate you out there, even here on nairaland. Hey, u can start with me.

this place resemble romance section abi
nonsense
cheat back on him

Isnt dis d music thread!!!
Lol

listen dearie,

a failed relatnship is betta than a failed marraige!!!

If ur man is playin away games nd u dnt trust him, wat future ar u waiting 4?


Puhlease, stop investin ur time nd emotions in a non-feasible relatnship!!!


Dis is 2009, abeg,NO DULLING!!

Cheat on him!!!
Male cheats are cald playas

female cheats ar cald sluts!!!


Tosin, u shd stick to d musik thingy!!

whats so special about ur boyfriend dumping u , are u the first person to be dumbed . by now u should know that yankee boys dont marry naija girls like that , except u are very karambous ! instead of u to allow those other naija boys to chop ur banana u dey keep am for yankee boy wey don chop oyinbo kitten wella. mumu naija gurl. wait there o until ur tootoo rot finish. lmfao

Well am sorry for your heartaches. If the relationship is worth fighting for than talk to him. Call him and have a good chat with him about everything that you are thinking and that you are not pleased with his behavior. He might not know that he is hurting you so tell him what you are thinking and feeling. If he loves you and wants to be continue dating you than he would change his behaviors but if not than go ahead and drop him. Good luck!

]leave him alone

kanz:

when i first met my boyfriend i was already in a relationship. but he was determined to win me over. he couldn't do without seeing me. he'd call a dozen times a day. my ex finally ended the relationship and i started going out with the present one. he was so sweet until he travelled out of the country. he wouldn't call me for weeks. when i call him he'd look for an excuse to get off the phone. he came back to Nigeria without telling me. when i found out i threatened to end it but he pleaded and i forgave him. but he has changed especially now that we r in different states. please your advice would really help.

There is nothing from your post to indicate that he is cheating, like the topic inferred

cheat on him too, abi you no get pussie?

abi o,dem say cheat on him bt not wit me cos im already hooked 2 rubbieeee

Turn the tables on him. Act like you dont care anymore or u cant be bothered about the relationship.
He's not worth the hassle?

Abeg i dey tire 4 all dese relationship cheaters joo.

[color=#000099][/color] Baby am going to advise you to act as if u dont give a hoot wat he does,try and make urself happy, stop calling him let him be the one calling, if he really love you he will come back to you.

there is this saying that wat u love allow it to go if it comes back u know it is yours.cheer up girl.

dump him n move on with ur lyf, i dnt advice u 2 bcome a slut tryin 2 get back at him. few things u can do 2 help u move on, change ur hair do, add 2 ur wardrobe, buy some new accesories 4 ur self , change ur cell, if u can put ur mind on making these changes it will help counter tots of him. gd luck girl

What goes around comes around.
Were U surprised ? After dumpin ur real men for a murd******cker

IGWE_USA:



What goes around comes around.
Were U surprised ? After dumpin ur real men for a murd******cker

igwe special. na you talk am o

u see,some of u girls can be so loose to men and ur emotions,i dont blame men for dumping y'all smtimes

u had a good relationship going on well for u,but no,u refused to go on with dat,but rather followed d gold dat glitters in a deceitful way,all dat glitters r not gold

karma is at work.and blive me,i want it to have a good time in ur life

go to d bedroom wit your towel den tie it tite arnd ur nek.
stand on a stool.
tie d oda end of d towel on ur fan
then kick d stool down.
ur problems r finished.

I hope you have not been screwed by him . Probably you are not too sweet or good that's why the guy is cheating on you.

I feel 4 u dear but if u don't mind i can give u a lift just email me blazeak41@yahoo.Com

make sure you take you secure your money if you two have joint account dont be too quick to tell him that you know he is cheating if u both hae credit cards make sure u make more than the minimum payments on yours and pay the minimum on his about a month before u leave dont pay any bills including reant take all the money and go

maybe hes just the type of guy that enjoy chasing the girl n he just wanted a chaallenge and now he's got you just forget about this guy

Kanz,

I'm afraid you brought this on to yourself. It's called bad dating karma. You left your man to be with another, bad move. Unfortunately for you, you're current boyfriend wanted to be with you only because he couldn't have you. And once he had you in his arms, you dropped in appeal. Here is what to do if you want it to work, don't make yourself available to him at all times. You were appealing to him because you were UNAVAILABLE, so keep it at that.

If your boyfriend is cheating on you, cheat on him too. Abi you don forget the DO ME, I DO YOU logic?

What you need to do is to is wrap his ass in toilet paper and flush him deep down the bottomless soakaway. This will enable him to commingle with his kind, shit.

This is one of the most expensive threads i've seen so far so let me chip in a lil'something.
You left your ex for the current, 1st mistake
Had no real love for yo ex, 2nd mistake
You lusted after the current, 3rd mistake
You showed the current more affection and care, 4th mistake


Well think bout your life, nor bi swear oh

Cheat on him too

What goes around comes around.
             Were U surprised ? After dumpin ur real men for a murd******cker Shocked

i am feeling you ,BIG TYM
@POSTER, HMMN this ur thread is not pure at all,thee is more to this ur story, i believe u did OJUKOKORO cos of wot u cld get,,

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