Cutehector:
u had no money and she was aware and couldnt help you out?

I wonder what you all marry these days.

Anonymoususher:


I had no money doesn't mean I was dead broke. I had no money because I was embarking on project, not that we couldn't eat or starving. We were OK.

I intentionally do not seek her assistance now, she has her own role to play and moreover I am not incapacitated.

She needs to have her own money too

babavik:
Very interesting topic.

As a single its advisable you open up to the girl you're dating. Just six months into the relationship or when you feel you want to settle down. Watch her closely, monitor her actions and choices she makes.

Did she become materialistic?

Did her taste in standard of living skyrocket?

If she was spending little on you did she later stop?

You can give her a 5-10% of your salary to keep. Can she return the money to you without stories? (Ask her for the money without giving her notice)

These stuffs will help you make a better choice.

Be vigilante. Marriage is very scary when you marry wrong.

shantti:


What if the man uses his own money to take care of his self, parents, siblings and kids while u take care of your self, I hope it's okay

Prinnce1:
oh my sweet mother God will always bless you for me, if you were to be like this lady am very sure I wouldn't have reached the level I am today. We need to scrutinize the "thing" we want to marry into our homes.

Kantebets:
think before u post
No dey post rubbish here

Islandlady:
Think before you comment

No dey comment for rubbish post too

alarm4:
Ever since my spouse know about income and my house building....five years ago till now I still never financially balance and the house abandoned...all what the gender see present not future...pay rent ,pay sch fees for kid and buy foodstuffs and etc ....so wht I did last is to start saving all my increments that come in every year...my spouse never know the salary increments..that how surviveing it...come to knw of it she works also but she complained how her money use finished fast....omo fear woman...

lawrenzooo:
Here is what my married friend told me "don't ever allow your wife know how much you are earning because if she knows she would keep demanding until she is sure you salary is finished".
That was his on personal experience. According to him he didn't tell his wife about subsequent promotions.

lawrenzooo:


No the wife knew how much he was earning when they got married; he just realised she keeps making demands until the money is finished so he didn't tell her about subsequent promotions and the pay rise that comes with it.

TenQ:

It doesn't change anything. All women are like that. They will request for the maximum Available funds

Tapout:


it depends on the kind of woman.

lawrenzooo:

Well since she doesn't know the actual funds available she would work with the false value she knows...

Tapout:


it depends on the kind of woman.

biggy00000:
What if the guy has a loan he is paying with the 50,000.
So he tells you 200,000 so all the plans you have should be on that amount

brosom:
exactly bro.!!

Just like my gf, her her brother bought and changed some few house apparatus, I asked her how much her brother bought those things, she said she doesn't know. After few months, her brother again got a new car and I asked her again but she said she doesn't want to ask her brother such question, mind u she's very close to her brother and I'm asking her all that to be inclined generally in the market world just in case I needed to get some for myself.

Just last month I changed my phone, a very classy one for that matter that isn't up to 200k, boom my girl beging dey heep me questions, where did I buy it? I told her, when? I told her, for how much? I told her. But the one wey make me change am for her was she asked me how did I get the money?? Omo I mad oo. Since then she just dey on low the play emotional victim but me no dey even see am..

Very baised set of people..

advanceDNA:


Thats not even the first time or only time she did something related to that..... .. she came to my place on a weekend....she has key so she arrived before me on a friday....she ddnt want to stay without light ..so she bought fuel enjoying DSTV ...i was shocked when she demanded for the 2k for the fuel....she did it another time that my debit ddnt work when we go hang out for bar...but i just lock up give am the money...but she no say all those behaviors just destroy her rating for my side..

lordally:


Broski! God just saved your life from such a huge mistake of a girl!!! If you had married her , guy!!! Your name for be Sorry... And I guess the main reason you went for her in the first place na cos say she fine

lordally:


Broski! God just saved your life from such a huge mistake of a girl!!! If you had married her , guy!!! Your name for be Sorry... And I guess the main reason you went for her in the first place na cos say she fine

Onyinyechiugly1:
Wow, so you are already planning to build your future home on deceit? Wow.

Crysallis:


If only the reason you lot ask the question is to help plan the usage of the money, while adding your earnings to it.

Simple illustration: man earns 250k, wife earns 120k.

They both contribute 150k and 50k monthly for home expenses.

There will be no complains n marriage will be sweet but NO.

Odebayo4010:
That's a Big Mistake a Man should ever Do please, don't let your lady know your actual Salary you're earning,that gender can never make a good thing for you,there Mind full of Evil