Because na wetin Dem want.

Mufakirnaqdiun:
Because na wetin Dem want.

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Big brah howdy na.

PROBLEMSOLVER27:
Why have guys now adopted the pattern of making sure the lady is pregnant before paying her things?

na only mumu girl go accept such silly condition or a girl from a dysfunctional home

Lack of home training.

A man from a good home with moral upbringing would never do that.

Any girl who agrees to such also lacks moral upbringing.

Shun premarital sex. It's the root cause of so many broken relationships and marriages.

I assume that this issue came up because most women has done series of abortion and can't conceive again or the men are testing their sperm strength if they can impregnate a woman... "Human perception"

Fellos marriage is spiritual, I have seen a woman in a relationship getting pregnant every year but kept aborting them, immediately she got married to that same guy, to conceive becomes a problem. Why others might have not done anything bad, they kept themselves clean before marriage still to conceive becomes a problem.

With this idea of her getting pregnant before paying anything for her head is wrong. What if she gets pregnant and you proceed and marry her, maybe along the line she loss the baby and could not conceive again, what becomes of the marriage. That means going by your initial perception the marriage is useless.

Marriage is for companionship, children are additional. If you want to enjoy marriage follow God's plan and standard of it, anything outside his marriage standard is fallacy.

ADDITIONAL.

Their are couple's that has to wait 1yr
or more before they conceive. This is not evil hand or village people or medical issue, it's called "time of life God's time" Seeking God's face is needed during those times because the children will surely come.
Peace!

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1. To confirm the fertility status of both parties.
2. To leverage for less expensive wedding.
3. To ascertain the lady's interest in the relationship.
4. To mount pressure on the in-laws for consent on the union.
5. And so on.

The reason isn't far-fetched; it is so because the bird has learned to fly without perching, so the hunter has also learned to shoot without a target - this isn't an endorsement, though.

Blessedmercy8:
Lack of home training.

A man from a good home with moral upbringing would never do that.

Any girl who agrees to such also lacks moral upbringing.

Shun premarital sex. It's the root cause of so many broken relationships and marriages.

DIS AUNTY, U NO DEY TIRE NI? U ALWAYS COMMENT RUBBISH. ABI UR OLD AGE DUN DEY AFFECT U TOO. WE STILL DEY DEAL WITH MENOPAUSE, HERE OLD AGE DUN CUM ADD EN OWN

emmanuelbrown26:

DIS AUNTY, U NO DEY TIRE NI? U ALWAYS COMMENT RUBBISH. ABI UR OLD AGE DUN DEY AFFECT U TOO. WE STILL DEY DEAL WITH MENOPAUSE, HERE OLD AGE DUN CUM ADD EN OWN

And what is wrong with a woman going through menopause, is it not part of the circle of life, just as a man goes through andropause?

PROBLEMSOLVER27:
Why have guys now adopted the pattern of making sure the lady is pregnant before paying her things?

Why have ladies refused to close their legs till they marry?

Is simple, most ladies have done a lot of abortion and cannot give birth

When I was serving, my girlfriend then, said she has done 2 abortions for her previous boyfriend before she met me.

Even my mum consent to testing before marriage, but I don't fancy it

No one wants that but for the fact there's szx before marriage it's bond to happen

Thats because it's cheaper to wed them after impregnating them na ...

If she isn't pregnant before you wed her, she will be asking for a flashy and expensive wedding, not paying attention to how you get the money ...

But once she's pregnant, you'll hear things like "baby let's just do a small wedding for now, anyhow anyhow, we'll make it work" ...

So there you have it OP ...

PROBLEMSOLVER27:
Why have guys now adopted the pattern of making sure the lady is pregnant before paying her things?

I dont think its matter of making sure but girls are just giving out sex and girls think it is the responsibility of the guy to make sure that she wont fall pregnant

If you do a study you will
find that most college and uni girls who are sexual active dont use female contraceptives but give the responsiblity to the guy to
wear a condom. Therefore the full
responsibility is now on the guy if it burst there is a high chance of her getting pregnant

Then finally most guys are forced by tradition and culture to do the right thing aka marry her, this would be now a rush rush
becoz she is pregnant

Although wrong as the bible clearly states
Marriage is bed undefiled

Howbeit, you have no idea the number of "flushing" these ladies have done


So i say it's to confirm fertility

So that she will not easily be taken before marriage

One thing one must know, including all those "if you truly love me, you will sleep with me" , "if you want me to marry you, sleep with me and get pregnant" accomplices, is that the moment, you make your desire to get married and your supposed love for a man rank higher than what God almighty has set as law in the Holy Book, you have automatically signed to a new government called idolatry and God will hand off from your life and to cut the long story short, you will reap corruption. AKA, you go suffer well well.