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Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Chris2863(m): 9:54am On Sep 06, 2022 |
I like you and you are thinking otherwise. What kind of a student are you ![]() Some days ago, I was discussing with one niggar in my street and along the line, he said “I like you guy”. Do I have to start thinking otherwise? Niggar just said that he likes me based on how I do comport myself and nothing else. So, op- you need to stop deceiving yourself. You are actually craving for a relationship but living in what we call self denial. |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Oturatetuala(m): 9:57am On Sep 06, 2022 |
Chris2863: Sure! He doesn't know. |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 11:03am On Sep 06, 2022 |
Allison012:i dey tell you bro , what if she asks me what I feel for her? |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 11:05am On Sep 06, 2022 |
Lonestar124:i don already start to thank you sef, I told you I don't want a relationship, it would distract me |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 11:09am On Sep 06, 2022 |
Gerardo88:you know these things but the thing is I don't want any commitments right now, ever since she told me yesterday for example, that's what I've been thinking about all through out the night, see say distraction has already started 1 Like |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Karleb(m): 11:57am On Sep 06, 2022 |
Man, the girl is offering love on a platter and I think you should take since you are already crushing. A lot of guys have wives and girlfriends who don't love them. If you must reject her, do it politely. Also, don't think the girl will still be your friend. She'd hate you like shit afterwards. How would you feel if you see her with another guy a week after rejecting her? 1 Like |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by BlackMan6969(m): 12:40pm On Sep 06, 2022 |
I had this experiece when i was on campus. I simply told her, i like u too, but i do not want a relationship until i graduate. I made sure our friendship was professional, no romans, no sex. She's married now & with kids & were still friends. Except u want 2 marry a woman, the best friendship u can maintain is a non sexual one. There'll be no heart breaks nor any form hatred in d end. 1 Like |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tegabadguy(m): 12:44pm On Sep 06, 2022 |
Tekahashi:you be akamu |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Gerardo88: 2:48pm On Sep 06, 2022 |
Tekahashi:⁰ I have told u boss, just engage urself now that's easy cus u may find it hard in the later days to love |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Sep 06, 2022 |
Just tell her you would have loved to but that you're not ready for any commitments now and wouldn't want to lead anyone on for nothing. It's better you tell her off once so she can get her mind of you and channel her feelings elsewhere. Why don't you want a relationship though? |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 5:01pm On Sep 06, 2022 |
Nonywendy:i never claimed to be any of em |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 5:09pm On Sep 06, 2022 |
imagrg:yeah,, I'll try something like this,i mean the starting slowly part, but it would have been more easier if I didn't like her a Lil bit in the first place |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 5:13pm On Sep 06, 2022 |
goodamerican:thanks man,, I'll probably still be greeting her but I'm not sure she'd return the favor once I tell her I'm not ready for a relationship, this girl's ego is top notch, I'm even surprised she got guts to confess |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 8:31pm On Sep 06, 2022 |
benqo01:thanks, I hope it goes well with her |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Getsaved(m): 9:18pm On Sep 06, 2022 |
Tekahashi: Bro. if this story of yours is true. I will give a sincere advice, take the good in my advice and if there are words i will say you don't like then throw those away. People usually tag me as introvert, but i do not see myself as that. Look, dear friend. It is not easy for a lady to express their feelings like she did. I am like you sort of, while i was in school, I haven't dated before not even while in school because I can't stand the challenges that come with ladies especially when you do not have enough money to satisfy them. It will hurt my emotions and affect my academics. listen, you seem to like her already, please do not hurt that girl by telling her NO. Tell her yes, but let her know your kind of person and ask if she can tolerate that. Try and study her - you already said she seem decent when compared to other girls. Please say yes and study her. You never know what life would brings, if she is a wonderful personality you can love and tolerate, you guys may end well. Bro. You love this girl, its just that you feel not ready , she has said she loves you, that should make it easy for you. Do not run away, you may not meet a lady who would be bold to tell you their feelings again. Please tell her YES, and see as it goes, be a responsible man by not putting sex first. Be friends first and understand yourselves. That is my candid advice. 1 Like |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:30pm On Sep 06, 2022 |
Othority:Isn't it the same way guys get rejected? 1 Like |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 12:32am On Sep 07, 2022 |
Hacks4dummies:I'm looking for a way to say it politely |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 12:34am On Sep 07, 2022 |
MrBachelor:thank you, this is a subtle approach |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Hacks4dummies: 6:16am On Sep 07, 2022 |
Tekahashi:Politely? Do as the previous user instructed |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 8:49am On Sep 07, 2022 |
Oturatetuala:I mentioned in the post" to cut the story short" she emphasized how she wanted us to be close and when I told her we were already, that's when she mentioned she needs a relationship kind |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 1:32pm On Sep 07, 2022 |
Chris2863:she said it herself |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by GingerbreadMen(m): 9:42pm On Sep 07, 2022 |
Tekahashi:Rejecting her outright probably won't get the job done because she won't give up, unless you both reject her and stop talking to her. Talking from experience. |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by GingerbreadMen(m): 9:44pm On Sep 07, 2022 |
MrBachelor:I've tried this before,it didn't work. She'll try harder, women can't process rejection |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by ggoldmine(f): 10:56am On Sep 08, 2022 |
Why? Allison012: |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 4:53pm On Sep 14, 2022 |
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Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 4:56pm On Sep 14, 2022 |
Chris2863:i said I just wanted to skip the details, it wasn't just like, she directly asked for a relationship plus I'm not craving for a relationship, if I was, I would had jumped on this opportunity especially since I confessed I kinda liked the girl too |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by TheMaharajah: 5:46pm On Sep 14, 2022 |
Where are Nairaland's adult of old? Make I find them go ![]() |
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