Women are wicked, I can't invest in a future pussy

A lady was introduced to me for marriage a few years back, after some day talking on the phone she told me plain that she prefers sex before marriage and she gave me a reason which I also adopted.

She said courtship is meant for us to know ourselves and also find out if we are compatible. She said what if we say no sex before marriage and after marriage, we are not compactable by then it's too late. Although, sexually we were compatible but in other areas we were not. Today we still relate as good friends.

Another lady told me No sex until after marriage, while we were dating she became pregnant with someone who stays abroad and promised her marriage and visa. She later found out that the guy is married abroad to a Nigerian with children.

I know of a lady that encourage her husband to have sex outside their marriage because she don't like sex. When the husband is travel, she packs condom in his bag to use

For me, sex after marriage doesn't make you a Saint unless you are a pure virgin.

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BirtherOfKings:
solution dey for everything as far as the manhood is not the size of a boiled groundnut

virginprincess:
Why should he go outside because i said no,can't he control his sexual urge till marriage,if he truely loves me he will wait till i'm married to him.

Any relationship with such agreement will fail. Its just like accepting someone you know nothing about to marry. Its a 50/50 chance

virginprincess:
Why should he go outside because i said no,can't he control his sexual urge till marriage,if he truely loves me he will wait till i'm married to him.

Hope you won't bill him as well through out courtship? Because that would untoward of you.

Fahvvy:
Why not?!!!!!
Se.x before marriage is irresponsible! Just as expecting a guy you're dating to pay your bills is criminal ...

sharp man

Rozross:
Be very alert because some desperate man will tell you he’s a virgin just so he can trap you. A certain nairalander almost deceived me with that line till I figured him out as a liar and a deceit. Virgin men are very hard to come by.

Hnmm... How u take know . men would never want to say they are virgins at the bolded

I hope the same answer applies to "Will you date a man that would not SPEND on you before marriage?"

[quote author=Fahvvy post=116414376]Why not?!!!!!
Se.x before marriage is irresponsible! Just as expecting a guy you're dating to pay your bills is criminal ...[/quote]

I owe you lunch.

Blessedmercy8:
Please o, where is. Such guy?
That's what I've been praying for, biko.

Such guy is right here mehn.
But are u such lady, that's the question.

Rozross:
That’s an ideal and responsible man, Ofcourse YES

lol............I laugh in Japan you wey be say u no go fit wait

Lol... Yesss

Rozross:
Be very alert because some desperate man will tell you he’s a virgin just so he can trap you. A certain nairalander almost deceived me with that line till I figured him out as a liar and a deceit. Virgin men are very hard to come by.

virgin ladies are hard to spot too. Men they even better self

Bullshit.

Don't try it with your new girlfriend.

You will lose her.

She expects sex, even if she won't ask for it.

Remember what the Bible said in Hebrews 13:4 [KJV] - Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
So no sex until after marriage is the Godly perfect marriage. I did it, and it has been working wonders for me. If after marriage, you are honoured with favour, wealth, abundant blessings etc, that means the bed was de do defiled before or during marriage.

Frankly speaking, it is very hard to wait till after marriage. Any woman that refuses that, is not ready to marry. She is just playing game with the man and also digging his grave without knowing, if truely he agrees on her decision

Yes

Say no to premarital sex, say no to premarital billing

vetrovialMan:


I like being honest, it's hard for a guy who has been sexually active to refrain. He wi try but you have to accept that he may fail.

Well Spoken

Tboymessiah:



U didn't meet her as a virgin

The hole wide like swimming pool.

Guys don't fall for this cheap blackmail, my guy was once a victim of no sex before marriage. His wife during the time of courtship insisted on no sex before marriage my guy complied till after their marriage only for him to enter and discovered swimming pool which means while she enticed my guy into marriage with no sex before marriage she was busy giving out to other guys. be guided

Rozross:
That’s an ideal and responsible man, Ofcourse YES

but u go go dey collect another gbola

Nonexisting1:
Na set up. Majority of men who go this route have erectile dysfunction or other forms of dick problems and some may even be coded gays. Fall for them at your own risk. Nothing beats testing something before buying it. This goes to men too.

lies, I have been with my woman for over 7 years but no sex involved, I'm very active and I'm 37 years old. My woman knows that I'm very active and also medically proven. However: I'm a virgin and I have vowed to keep it until I marry her next year by God's grace.

virginprincess:
Yes na,that is the kind of man i want sef.

come to zaddy

virginprincess:
Yes na,that is the kind of man i want sef.

Then no billing too

Fahvvy:
Why not?!!!!!
Se.x before marriage is irresponsible! Just as expecting a guy you're dating to pay your bills is criminal ...

Then no billing too

Duchessree:
Yes
Say no to premarital sex
Run away from every form of sexual immorality

After you don scatter your womb with abortion... You come dey find one mümû wey no go touch you...
You lie

I am always very careful of such kinds of persons if they aren't virgin. They make be nurturing and treating deadly diseases . Just let them be

A non-virgin person clamouring no sex till marriage na mumu. Truth is 9 out 10 times, e no dey work.

I smile whenever I see topics like this.
The only thing everyone is forgetting is the "individual differences" factor.

The most important is to understand your partner and come to a compromise but It will be difficult cos as your guy I can't determine if your sexual active or not It just your words I'm taking for it and if I suggest virginity test it will boil down to trust issues.

Both guys and ladies have a manipulative factor in them.

Diffusing it to come to a compromise between both parties is just the issue now

Only ladies who have already lost their virginities won't accept.
They are even the ones that will demand for sex from the guy.
But if they are virgins, they will be happy with the decision.
Speaking from experience.