princezzz:
I understand you are trying to sound woke and knowledgeable,but try not to be condescending.
You can also try to keep an open mind. I can agree that I might have been careless the first 3 days,so we can say you win.i didn't leave the house on Sunday and neither did that bag. So I also know what I am talking about.
So I find your talk on financial responsibility annoying, you don't know me,so if you want to judge, judge based on the fact I placed out here.Learn to keep an open mind.
I am not stupid or careless,I know what I kept.

Somebody is taking your money, that is the fact immediately you come back from work give the money to the mother to help you keep it.