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Help!! My Baby Face And Small Stature Are Getting Me Insulted / He insulted me / I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me (2) (3) (4)
Re: My Mum Insulted Me So Bad by Reggaemich(m): 4:38pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee:your number 2 answer shows u are not a Nigerian or if u are a nigerian, then you are presently not in these country, because u used the word violently. In Nigeria here, we use Cain, slap, etal to correct a child, Even your neighbors will help u train (use Cain, slap) your child if they misbehave Question What is the solution to removing bad fruit or leaves from a big tree 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Insulted Me So Bad by gameova(m): 4:47pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
NemoDatQuod:That is London, here is Nigeria. Different society. Spare the rod and spoil the child. Too much civilization sometimes is not good. We have our own culture. Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: My Mum Insulted Me So Bad by Kobojunkiee: 4:49pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Reggaemich:1. You may have grown up in a household where domestic violence of this sort was praised but in no way means you grew up right as you seem to believe still that violence is the way to go. 2. In the very same Nigeria, there are many who are raised to understand that violence is never the answer, even when it involves dealing with one's own siblings. 3. Again OP is a sibling, not a Parent. And this situation he should have reported to his parents whose responsibility it is to train their kids in the best possible way. As for removing bad fruits or leaves from a big tree... violently shaking the tree is obviously the wrong approach. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Insulted Me So Bad by Kobojunkiee: 5:01pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
gameova:I was raised in that very same Nigeria to understand that domestic violence is wrong. There is nothing African about domestic violence. It is instead born of a barbaric mentality that assumes control/domination is the only way to go about getting results. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mum Insulted Me So Bad by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:17pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
daboy18: what a family...i guess your mother think in such a strange way. what else can you do than accept the type of family you got. |
Re: My Mum Insulted Me So Bad by Reggaemich(m): 5:23pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee:this comment is very funny, U did not even say, u will pluck the bad fruit away "Correction is the cure for bad character" (Correction) in this case, means beating, using cane If u like if u see little children around u or from your extended family, exhibiting bad character, don't correct them Õ, That same thing, you fail to correct today will come tomorrow to deal with u 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Insulted Me So Bad by Kobojunkiee: 5:25pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Reggaemich:Violence isn't an effective method of correction. You can correct a person or an issue (the tree) without needing to resort to violence... 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Insulted Me So Bad by DontBullshitMe: 10:30pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
To be fair you have no right to seize her phone nor hit her. She's your sibling not a punching bag. Don't ridicule yourself. This life is chaotic enough. What concerns you with your sister's life choices? |
Re: My Mum Insulted Me So Bad by Preciousppearl(f): 11:24pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
duro4chang:just this morning I heard my manager telling someone on phone how he sent his 12yrs old son for yahoo spiritual cleansing, the reason he was calling the person was to confirm how to collect money the client promise to send. A boy of12 o. It's so sad what a lot of parents are turning their kids into because of money. I have decided to change the guy tho make e no b say he dae use something work with me. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Insulted Me So Bad by duro4chang(m): 11:27pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Preciousppearl:That is the situation we find ourselves. |
Re: My Mum Insulted Me So Bad by frozen70(f): 1:34pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
daboy18: You did right to seize the phone but you shouldn't have slapped her Your mum is taking sides with her and your dad has been in a helpless situation because of your mum What you should do is to double your efforts and move on and stop watching your sister so that you wont receive curse from mum One day the true picture will appear |
Re: My Mum Insulted Me So Bad by boxer022(m): 3:16pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
My brother oh don't be discouraged by her insults. A day is coming when water will pass garri and she and your whole family will read the hand writing on the wall. Just continue correcting her. Sorry to say but your mum is a bad mum who supports evil. |
Re: My Mum Insulted Me So Bad by NoToPile: 5:09pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
16 years old lemme nor tok before they say I am old school. ibechris: Chai lots of parents have failed, which work is she doing? Me I don't see anything wrong in flogging 16 yrs old oo if she needs brain resetting, but her problem has started from way back, it can't be corrected now. 1 Like |
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