plantainbender:
I was going to say why is he having a gf & getting an erection at 22 but scratch that.

1. Change your moniker to something better, he should feel better

2. Jeez! He's 22 for crying out loud, what's the hurry?

3. An internet fraudster aka Yahoo boy will tell you anything & mock you just to make you feel bad about your life and make him feel better about his miserable life.

3. He's young, his smartphone shouldn't be for watching porn and whatnots, he should engage himself and learn new things online in his spare time.

4. Las las, it's a phase and he'll be alright.

Kologirl:
They flaunt their wealth in his face all the time. They have gone as far as nicknaming him their house boy, I honestly Wonder why he still keep them as friends.
I try to be supportive, sometime I give him money and advise but it's never enough.
He works hard and he earns about 40k a month.
But because of inflation it's as good as 5k
I try my best to advice him that things will be better. He's even saving money to start a farming business.
But he's not happy Mind you he's 22 I don't know what else to do, If I tell him to cut off his friends, it will look like I'm trying to control him.
He really wants to go to school, he said he is going to write jamb next year but anytime he's around his friends, he feel sad.

I just feel hard work pays, and I try my best to work hard and support myself but he doesn't feel that way
Please men in the house .... please advise me

Kologirl:
So have been dating this guy for the past year now. At first I didn't really take the relationship seriously but with time I found him to be a sweet and caring guy
The problem is his financial situation, I don't really mind it but he does.
All his friends are into Yahoo and other fraudulent activities.
They flaunt their wealth in his face all the time. They have gone as far as nicknaming him their house boy, I honestly Wonder why he still keep them as friends.
I try to be supportive, sometime I give him money and advise but it's never enough.
He works hard and he earns about 40k a month.
But because of inflation it's as good as 5k
I try my best to advice him that things will be better. He's even saving money to start a farming business.
But he's not happy
Mind you he's 22
I don't know what else to do, If I tell him to cut off his friends, it will look like I'm trying to control him.
He really wants to go to school, he said he is going to write jamb next year but anytime he's around his friends, he feel sad.

I just feel hard work pays, and I try my best to work hard and support myself but he doesn't feel that way
Please men in the house .... please advise me

Kologirl:
So have been dating this guy for the past year now. At first I didn't really take the relationship seriously but with time I found him to be a sweet and caring guy
The problem is his financial situation, I don't really mind it but he does.
All his friends are into Yahoo and other fraudulent activities.
They flaunt their wealth in his face all the time. They have gone as far as nicknaming him their house boy, I honestly Wonder why he still keep them as friends.
I try to be supportive, sometime I give him money and advise but it's never enough.
He works hard and he earns about 40k a month.
But because of inflation it's as good as 5k
I try my best to advice him that things will be better. He's even saving money to start a farming business.
But he's not happy
Mind you he's 22
I don't know what else to do, If I tell him to cut off his friends, it will look like I'm trying to control him.
He really wants to go to school, he said he is going to write jamb next year but anytime he's around his friends, he feel sad.

I just feel hard work pays, and I try my best to work hard and support myself but he doesn't feel that way
Please men in the house .... please advise me

Kologirl:
Thank you everyone.
Honestly I don't know what's up with him, I was the one that brought up the idea of starting a farming business and he said he loved it, I'm still Saving towards it so when he said he wants to open his own farm, I was like great. I love farming and I think it's a profitable business. All of a sudden he is saying he doesn't want to do it again because of what his friends might say, I don't believe in going into criminal activities to survive, If I did I would be dating a Yahoo boy.
I'm tired honestly he doesn't understand that the country is hard, a 22 year old in the UK is struggling to make end meet and u are in Nigeria complaining on why you don't have a car, iPhone and so much more.

I think I will keep on advising him but if he doesn't take my advise before this year runs out...I'm going to dump him.
I want to live my life slowly and without regrets.
Not waking up to meet EFCC at my door.
I see life as an adventure and im still saving up for my farming business. If he doesn't want to do it then okay.
But I'm not going to make him a partner in my business, because that's what he's saying that we should do it together.
He's my boyfriend not husband, I won't even do business with my husband.
I don't mix business with pleasure

Sweetvie:
I like you. You're smart not all those girls looking for luxurious, hoping their bf will be into Yahoo so that he can buy them iPhone. How old are you if you mind? And your guy is still young... He should calm down. All those luxury is friends have through fraud won't last rather he should that learning something online... Nigeria is not helping anyone. What did he want those that are 30 yr and still no job to say? After schooling and everything. He should be calming down

anslemarinze52:
Lol.....
Me self way de 22 jus de try my best. Y'day I was really feeling so bad, depressed.
But it's something that's on and off, at times I question my reason of existence, at times I'm grateful to be Alive.
Wo since I clocked years ��, I don't even understand myself anymore, me that I used to be very outspoken, is now a very quiet person.

aronski:


Truly! Let God order our steps. A lot of people have graduated from the universities and also done with NYSC but no work, and therw are some who immediately after all this got a job/made it with their life..

Life is in stages, Focus on making urself a better person (with God by ur side believing all will be fine)...


All winners were once losers,
All strong men were once weak men..


Focus!

godfrey02:
Its time to quit this website. At 22 you are getting frustrated already. And did I hear someone mentioning he has a gf. Focus and arrange yourself.and at this time you don'need a gf. You are even lucky you see one way dey give you 5k

ukaface:
this one is reading the back of the story

Blessgreat23:
it not easy holding on to what you believe

Kologirl:
Thank you everyone. Honestly I don't know what's up with him, I was the one that brought up the idea of starting a farming business and he said he loved it, I'm still Saving towards it so when he said he wants to open his own farm, I was like great. I love farming and I think it's a profitable business. All of a sudden he is saying he doesn't want to do it again because of what his friends might say, I don't believe in going into criminal activities to survive, If I did I would be dating a Yahoo boy. I'm tired honestly he doesn't understand that the country is hard, a 22 year old in the UK is struggling to make end meet and u are in Nigeria complaining on why you don't have a car, iPhone and so much more.

2. I think I will keep on advising him but if he doesn't take my advise before this year runs out...I'm going to dump him. I want to live my life slowly and without regrets. Not waking up to meet EFCC at my door. I see life as an adventure and im still saving up for my farming business. If he doesn't want to do it then okay. But I'm not going to make him a partner in my business, because that's what he's saying that we should do it together. He's my boyfriend not husband, I won't even do business with my husband. I don't mix business with pleasure