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Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by OBTOREPA(m): 7:17am On Sep 22, 2022
Samantha123:
English please.
The most important thing here is that you understands what I'm saying.
But please be kind a bit.
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Jidkidz(m): 7:27am On Sep 22, 2022
Ginaz:


with the attitude she gave me just now. I dont want her to be closed to me. i don't need insults from a girl my younger sister is older than.
weytin una dy do together story never clear
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Nobody: 7:28am On Sep 22, 2022
I'm sorry if I offended you, but I don't understand that language you guys call pidgin.
OBTOREPA:

The most important thing here is that you understands what I'm saying.
But please be kind a bit.
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Kollins11: 7:31am On Sep 22, 2022
HRHQueenPhil:


U did nothing wrong, someone needs to tell her the truth...I use to smell like a rotten fish too till d day I was insulted inside bus.. pls if u are still using Eva soap, stop it immediately..buy her gifts of good soap, perfume and anti persperant
This one is blaming her rotten fishy odour on innocent Eva soap.

Nigerian girls never cease to amaze me.

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Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Nobody: 7:55am On Sep 22, 2022
Does she not have parents? Why aren't they complaining?
You gave her deodorant? Hmm I am suspecting you, you never talk wetin you dey find for that girl body.
Brother do good. Pedophiles will be disgraced.
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by rollywise(m): 8:00am On Sep 22, 2022
HRHQueenPhil:


U did nothing wrong, someone needs to tell her the truth...I use to smell like a rotten fish too till d day I was insulted inside bus.. pls if u are still using Eva soap, stop it immediately..buy her gifts of good soap, perfume and anti persperant



Buy who wetin? Person wey waka pass me no greet me abi? Make she no worry. Until she lose job opportunities because of oozing odour her eyes go clear
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by maxzzo1(m): 8:02am On Sep 22, 2022
U try but d best way was to buy d roll on and give to her to always use it that it will make u happy.....Bad guy na ur chop na grin grin
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by mysticwarrior(m): 8:02am On Sep 22, 2022
HRHQueenPhil:


U did nothing wrong, someone needs to tell her the truth...I use to smell like a rotten fish too till[b] d day I was insulted inside bus.[/b]. pls if u are still using Eva soap, stop it immediately..buy her gifts of good soap, perfume and anti persperant
this must have really been a terrible experience for you, its a good thing you put it behind you.
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by giftmurphy(f): 8:32am On Sep 22, 2022
laluski:
You did nothing wrong, that's humans for you...you'll offend me if ever greet that cow again

Lol
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by realhovaps(m): 8:36am On Sep 22, 2022
This is a very very sensitive stuff because there's very little probability any person will not feel bad, even if been told in a gentle way.

I want to believe you should have expected this. In case of next time.

Not to worry
She will get over it.
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by DonMekino(m): 8:37am On Sep 22, 2022
With time, she will come around, she needs to process all the embarrassment first.
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Figger(m): 8:47am On Sep 22, 2022
robinso01:
Truth no dey bitter, na person wey dem tell dey feel bitter.
truth is better.

Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Babastrong(m): 8:51am On Sep 22, 2022
What you did is good and what she's doing is normal.
WHY?
Because truth rarely comes from friends but from enemies.
If you have an urgely appearance, a friend may not tell you out of fear of offending you. But your enemy will get a pleasure in mocking the appearance.

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Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by alibiz: 9:34am On Sep 22, 2022
i told her point blank she doesn't smell nice, her face changed
This the problem.
You should have been more smart about it
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Odebayo4010(m): 9:47am On Sep 22, 2022
Ginaz:
NemoDatQuod. it was just us and my mom that were in the house. she's friend to my mom and she visit most cos of her.

i raised the topic in a tender way , she's in secondary school and i didnt want to make her feel uncomfortable. the antiperspirant i gave her was mine, i taught her how to use it.

i didn't leave her empty handed after my advice , i made sure i gave her solution and she took the antiperspirant home.

i tried and i hope she uses it. well, I won't be close to her anymore. i don't want insults


Wow Bro you do well to her, first thing I wanted you to understand is that,her level,Age, she can't understand you well but when she grow up she will realize you really fight a battle for her
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by sofiscatedmoron: 9:54am On Sep 22, 2022
Youruba girls
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Odebayo4010(m): 9:59am On Sep 22, 2022
culf:


yes and No.

you did no wrong in telling her about her body odour but waking by you, giving you attitude, you should have held her hand, draw her close and let her know what you did is out of love and care you have for her and since it annoy her, you will never involve yourself in anything that concern her again.
She Ought to be grateful to you.

You talk well,i like you points
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Odebayo4010(m): 10:11am On Sep 22, 2022
OKOATA:
Reminded me of the day I told my ex her pussy stunk, that marked the end of the relationship. I have no regrets.


What did you mean by stunk?
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by slodot2000: 10:23am On Sep 22, 2022
i commend your courage, you simply did the right thing. I once helped a girl that has a serious foul smell coming out from her private part just by standing close to her having a conversation, then you can imagine what will happen if she remove her panties. we were friends and she like coming to me for gist and so. At a point i couldnt take it anymore, it was similar to the story above. she doesnt shave nor use anti perspirant, plus she sweats alot too. I first got her shaving sticks, roll on and anti perspirant spray then i talked to her about it, to my surprise she told me she doesnt shave her private areas because her doctor says its normal not to shave there. i advice her to and after that she felt better, clean and smell pleasant. kept thanking me later

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Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by OKOATA(m): 10:25am On Sep 22, 2022
Odebayo4010:



What did you mean by stunk?
Lol, past tense of Stink is Stunk.
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by lieutenantprime(m): 11:27am On Sep 22, 2022
You did Right.
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Deldrax29: 11:34am On Sep 22, 2022
Kobojunkiee:
WOW... even I would feel insulted by the statement there. undecided

I swear you are foolish! angry
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by JoshB92: 11:41am On Sep 22, 2022
Truth is not meant to be pleasant to the ears, just sya it, with time the person will trace it back to your sincerity and it will be worthwhile.
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Hillsautos: 12:23pm On Sep 22, 2022
HRHQueenPhil:


U did nothing wrong, someone needs to tell her the truth...I use to smell like a rotten fish too till d day I was insulted inside bus.. pls if u are still using Eva soap, stop it immediately..buy her gifts of good soap, perfume and anti persperant


What's the issue with Eva soap oo biko...Please enlighten me, respectfully asking
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Wuppdex: 1:05pm On Sep 22, 2022
Wow...must be very strong fishy odor if it could be perceived externally inside a bus, thank goodness you cured it.

HRHQueenPhil:


U did nothing wrong, someone needs to tell her the truth...I use to smell like a rotten fish too till d day I was insulted inside bus.. pls if u are still using Eva soap, stop it immediately..buy her gifts of good soap, perfume and anti persperant
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Blue86(m): 1:05pm On Sep 22, 2022
With time, you get it.
There is a mix English and not full English in there
Samantha123:
I'm sorry if I offended you, but I don't understand that language you guys call pidgin.
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Ishilove: 1:18pm On Sep 22, 2022
Romanoff:
You done do the work wey God send you.

If she likes, she should do better with her hygiene, if not, na she sabi.
QED
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by OBTOREPA(m): 1:20pm On Sep 22, 2022
Samantha123:
I'm sorry if I offended you, but I don't understand that language you guys call pidgin.
No problem, is just a code mixing. Just trying to express how beautiful you are,but guess you knocked me off. Moreover,speaking pidgins doesn't mean the person is illiterate but just that a times you just want to be flexible in your communications with people. Gratia

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Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Odebayo4010(m): 2:00pm On Sep 22, 2022
OKOATA:
Lol, past tense of Stink is Stunk.

I known before, but I just want to ask how does that stunk related to her pussy?
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Tunagee(m): 2:28pm On Sep 22, 2022
Na yoruba girl she go be
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Sep 22, 2022
I didn't knock you off, I only asked that you use English because I didn't understand the language you expressed yourself in.

And thank you.
OBTOREPA:

No problem, is just a code mixing. Just trying to express how beautiful you are,but guess you knocked me off. Moreover,speaking pidgins doesn't mean the person is illiterate but just that a times you just want to be flexible in your communications with people. Gratia
Re: Should I Have Minded My Business? Did I Do Wrong? by Nobody: 2:39pm On Sep 22, 2022
Okay.
Blue86:
With time, you get it.
There is a mix English and not full English in there

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