Na mab you be. You did the right thing and I thank God for your life . He really guide you. Bro! Bro! How many times did I call you, pls don't enter the woman, if daughter want to pack out so be it

Abeg, let's call a spade a spade... What was he suppose to do? His wife reaction to it was irrational, she lacks understanding. We are talking about her husband here, would her husband be lying against her mother?

Socratiz:
It was wrong of you to report your mother in law to your wife, especially on such a sensitive issue. Who did you consult first? Did you expect your wife to pick a fight with her mum? You should have known that she would turn the case against you.

Couples should learn to consult non-family members on sensitive issues before making direct confrontation. In fact, a professional counsellor is advised.

You have to live with the consequences of this indiscretion. Pray that your wife forgives you and remains in your marriage.

*Don't be sorry for doing what is right.
*Allow her to go with her mother if that is what she want.
*Don't engage them in any form of emotional manipulation.
*When she eventually returns your son, train him to be responsible like you.
*Wish you God's grace to overcome this hurdle!

To the op

am a lady and i commend you for telling your wife because if you didnt she will still say you are into her mom.
the best thing for you to do now is to continue living your life without worries. be too lazy to listen or pay attention to their rubbish to avoid being blackmailed BUT CONCENTRATE ON THE WELL BEING OF YOUR UNBORN BABY THAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN ALL OF THESE. infact only listen to anything that relates to your baby any other thing shouldnt be accomodated. If anything should happen to it which i pray it doesnt then you can do whatever you deem right to both your wife and her mother.

You be man, you be man na him make many young healthy men dey get bp anyhow or die off like fowl.
see oga take care of yourself first oooo

Stop simping Man,. If she want to leave let her leave, she'll still come back.

Dalnadoni:
Bro now that she said she is leaving ynu because of dat...what i think you should just do is fvck the woman and ask her to talk to her dauther to stay. But note if you Bleep her once you will have to do it again. Your choice

If the mother in law is still of reproductive age then it’ll be a big wahala…

Imagine this man following your advice and the woman takes in How are we going to explain this one?

Modified…
Mother in law will deliver the daughter’s brother or sister.
His mother in law’s unborn child will be an uncle, an aunt, a brother or sister to the wife’s child.

I’m as confused as the op….Op you should’ve sorted this matter with your mother in law without involving your missus.

Trustedapparel:
how

because certain things are not meant to be disclose to anyone till you die as a man. You should have dealt with the matter discreetly and with wisdom. You think you can turn your wife against are mother. Think of it yourself

KosiGee:


If the mother in law is still of reproductive age then it’ll be a big wahala…

Imagine this man following your advice and the woman takes in How are we going to explain this one?

Mother in law will deliver the son in law’s brother or sister.
His wife’s unborn child will an uncle, an aunt, a brother or sister in the mother in laws child.

I’m as confused as the op….Op you should’ve sorted this matter with your mother in law without involving your missus.

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MrBrownJay1:


you did what was RIGHT, and cant blame yourself for doing what was right. your wife is taking it the wrong way because she cant accept that her mother is a low life loose woman. your wife is NOT ready to be married as she is quick to dismiss your claim and believe whatever nonsense your MIL is telling her...

just show your wife the photos her mother sent you and be done with the misery! if she seriously wants to stand by her yeye mother and go then let her go na!

gbammm.case closed!