Romanoff:


What is my business with how my brother chooses to be with his wife?

If I'm happy in my own house, why I go dey pokenose for matter wey them no call me?

madridguy:
I am really touched about his situation. Do you know the exact reason why he resigned from the job? To be looking after the children? Cooking and washing at home? I am just trying to guess his exact reason.
How will he be able to go outside and flex as a man ? Things are really happening.

Fearyourcreator:

Una don smoke gum

fxexperts:
Can you imagine so a husband assisting his wife is domestic violence, so a husband sending his wife on errand is not domestic violence right. This Nairaland kids are something else.

Emily22:


Lmaooooo

Juoflife1:
Your opinion.

Holluwhakemmy:
as your father is receiving the same treatment from your mother.

Konjiboii:


If you don't mind me asking, why are you doing just state and not presidential?

Romanoff:


What goes on in my son's house will be non of my business as long as he is happy.

Reminds me of the lady who said her MIL walked in on her husband giving her head and went and called village meeting that she has spoiled her son and that's not how she raised him.

People should learn to mind their business.

trutht828:


That's what peeps like you say. Let's wait until your son gets married to a controlling wifd. Then we'll see where you truly stand

StilmaVsBorn2w:
This is so embarrassing to say, I would never advise a man to be so sluggish in life. It pains my heart having to experience this several times but since he is an elderly bro that senior me very far I can't put my mouth in his family affair because of this.

I went to visit my brother yesterday, was surprised while we were seated in the parlour... the wife told her husband to go check if the woman selling provision is back.

This wasn't the first time, my brother stood up and went.. I was looking at her the whole time, she was looking at me. The anger was so deep but there is nothing I can do.

They are different instances I can give but no need for that...All I just want to say it's not good to be that calm type of guy.

This is not about being the bread winner of the house, my elder brother is doing very well for himself so is his wife.

As a man, it's just not good to be quite always or be quiet all the time.. gentlemanly. I just don't know how to say it.

Guys what do you think?

RightToReject:
Most of you've got a poor/absurd concept of respect. Even if your brother is the sole breadwinner in their union, I don't see how a wife sending her husband on a just errand (a wife expecting/reminding her husband to be diligent) amounts to disrespect to him.

Like in this scenario here, telling him to go and check whether the woman that sells provisions is back showed that there was a pre-existing arrangement between the husband and the provisions seller. So, I wonder how she erred by reminding her husband to strive to bring the arrangement to fruition. And don't tell me that you had expected her not to send such a request to her husband because of your presence, citing that you're a brother-in-law and obviously wasn't having some kind of formal deliberation with him.

Eschew needless pride.
I agree with you, there might be an early agreement between the store owner and the husband, which she only reminded him of, but you not knowing the genesis of the whole thing are jumping into conclusions, if their home is peaceful please let them be, don't stare up what is not.

StilmaVsBorn2w:
This is so embarrassing to say, I would never advise a man to be so sluggish in life. It pains my heart having to experience this several times but since he is an elderly bro that senior me very far I can't put my mouth in his family affair because of this.

I went to visit my brother yesterday, was surprised while we were seated in the parlour... the wife told her husband to go check if the woman selling provision is back.

This wasn't the first time, my brother stood up and went.. I was looking at her the whole time, she was looking at me. The anger was so deep but there is nothing I can do.

They are different instances I can give but no need for that...All I just want to say it's not good to be that calm type of guy.

This is not about being the bread winner of the house, my elder brother is doing very well for himself so is his wife.

As a man, it's just not good to be quite always or be quiet all the time.. gentlemanly. I just don't know how to say it.

Guys what do you think?

Fearyourcreator:

I don't believe any of those candidate can do anything

Konjiboii:


I fvck up having an argument with you.

Fearyourcreator:

I pity person wey go marry or marry your hype.... Una type sabi fight mother inlaw

Romanoff:


Stay out of their business. If your brother ever complains to you that his wife treats him badly and he's not happy, then you can give him advice.

If not, stay out of married people's business.

As long as she's not disrespectful to the man, stay out of their business.


Them go soon settle their issue turn am for your head.

StilmaVsBorn2w:
This is so embarrassing to say, I would never advise a man to be so sluggish in life. It pains my heart having to experience this several times but since he is an elderly bro that senior me very far I can't put my mouth in his family affair because of this.

I went to visit my brother yesterday, was surprised while we were seated in the parlour... the wife told her husband to go check if the woman selling provision is back.

This wasn't the first time, my brother stood up and went.. I was looking at her the whole time, she was looking at me. The anger was so deep but there is nothing I can do.

They are different instances I can give but no need for that...All I just want to say it's not good to be that calm type of guy.

This is not about being the bread winner of the house, my elder brother is doing very well for himself so is his wife.

As a man, it's just not good to be quite always or be quiet all the time.. gentlemanly. I just don't know how to say it.

Guys what do you think?

rumenase:
evil lady

Romanoff:


Monster of a man.

rumenase:
I sorry for the simp wey go end up with you.

Holluwhakemmy:
I'm a gentle girl to to core I don't fit your description above. Have a nice day

Romanoff:


Yes. If you go through my replies, you'd understand why I stand by my words to stay out of married people's business.

Before my brother got married and we were all loving together, there was nothing that could make him do chores cause according to him, he has sisters to do it.

Guess what, my sisters found him washing toilet in his house after he got married. They were shocked to see it.

They came home and gisted us.

Was I spos to tie wrapper and carry guns and bazooka to his house to tell his wife not to ever try it?

Is it not what works for his household?

Why I go leave my own house, dey poke nose for another person marriage.

As long as she wasn't disrespectful in her tone, a wife can send her husband.

Call am on him way from work tell am make e buy bread or plantain as e dey come back.

Harddiskng:


Don’t get me wrong she can send him anywhere anytime they are alone that’s their business.

But wisdom is profitable to direct, I can’t image being in a meeting with my elder brother in his living room then his wife enters, asking him to get up, go and check if the woman selling beans on the street is around

My first thought would be regarding his well being, is this juju or what.

I can’t even do that to my wife if she is with a friend.

fxexperts:


I can't imagine how some of these people think. i believe they are just little boys. they are not mature yet for marriage that is why they spill these trash. Like you rightly said there might be absolutely nothing wrong in what the wife did. It totally depends on the scenario that prompted the wife to send her husband on the said errand. It could even be that the man wanted to buy some things from the provision women, I for one normal do the grocery shopping in my own mostly with my ATM card. So if my younger sibling come to visit am i am suppose to buy maybe some provisions and maybe the last time I passed by the provision woman was not around and my wife reminded me later to check if she is around now means she is sending me as an errand boy, some family members can be damn stupid at times. I pity any man or woman who will allow some brother or sister to come ruin there happy marriage. If my wife is cooking she needs to buy

Romanoff:


Nope. Any body can send anybody when you're married. Abeg, help me go market, abeg buy bread when you dey come, abeg help me bring my phone from parlor.

There's no big deal in it. If you both of have pretend cause there are visitors, then your marriage ain't healthy.

Anyone who can't take or stand the way you run your home should go and baff and hug transformer.

Jollos:
[bt]I might have been doing something worse than that for her in our private.[/b] But In the presence of family members be it her own or mine, my wife will not even try it. The kind eyes she will recive.

Sometime self I deliberately reject some request to test my sanity, Who knows?

haslaw:



Little girls and their empty brains.

If only you were married you would have known the difference between assistance and humiliation.

Why do most small girls always appear shocked when you mention that a man can also be a victim of domestic violence.

You really do have a lot of growing up to do. I will however not reply your messages again as there is no point in replying all these small small girls online.

mirinder:
can you wash your wife's pants?

mirinder:
can you send your husband to do your laundries?

mirinder:
can you send your husband to do our laundries?