Dear Single Lady,
For you to have built a relationship with a man for up to four years and there is no headway, it might just be time to move on.
I am not a fan of a LONG RELATIONSHIP. I don't particularly believe in it.
Length or duration has nothing to do with certainty. I don't know how people stay in a relationship for so long. What are they even doing there? ��‍♂️
I don't think you need that long to be able to know your place in a person's life or secure your spot in their future.
This is the generation where you can meet a person today and by tomorrow, the fvcking has started. �
You don't need to spend a hundred years with a person to feel a sense of connectedness with them.
Long Relationships are stressful. After a while, both parties get bored and tired, especially if Marriage is not in view.
Una dey do boyfriend and girlfriend for four long years. Abeg, wetin happen? ��‍♂️
Within the first 3-6 months, you should know what you're doing with this person.
I expect that there should be a lot of Communication going back and forth daily between you and this person.
You should know what you're doing.
So, first of all dear, the Relationship has already taken too long.
A lot of women can really stay in a relationship for very long but a lot of men can't.
Most men get bored and tired and they start acting up.
Avoid long relationships. They don't end well.
If after six months there is no sense of direction, or a solid certainty about marriage, break up with him or time wasting will set in. �
I tell you the truth and I kid you not!
A man knows when he sees a future with you. For most men, this becomes clear between two weeks to a month.
SERIOUS MEN DON'T SPEND TOO LONG IN A RELATIONSHIP BEFORE STEPPING UP! ⭐
He knows the Relationship is not leading anywhere but he won't let you go, so he starts acting up and taking you for granted.
He has been with you for too long so he knows the hot buttons to press to annoy you or play with your emotions.
He knows that he can do anything and you won't easily walk away because he also knows you're afraid of starting afraid with another person.
So, you keep tolerating his shit and the cycle continues. �
You have invested so much in a relationship that isn't working but you can't walk away, so you feel unhappy and stuck.
I really hate long Relationships.
Concerning this matter, the best thing to do is end it and walk away.
And try not to stay too long in a relationship.
If within three to six months, there is no sense of it leading to Marriage, end it immediately! ❤️

Too long, bad paragraphing.


Youve not met girls.
Its not all those borehole pussy girls that you'll meet and probably start bleeping immediately.

Na relationship advice con long like this, I will keep her on probation for longer years till I see what she's bringing to the Table

And if na my gbola day sweet her no wahala me self ready