Hello guys this is incredulous, I have been masturbating for the past 22 years, got addicted since 2001,till date still struggling, and men I have not achieved anything tangible in life, I am 36 years now, no wife, no job, no home(mine to be exact),living in my mum's home helping her run her school situated in her home.

I once worked in a car wash, but was driven away due to incessant complaints by customers, got admitted to Obafemi Awolowo University twice, dropped out twice, like men I have suffered, i rely on God and his Word, while I keep myself busy on the internet mostly on Nairaland, I searched for masturbation on the nairaland search bar and was shocked to find out that I wasn't alone in this struggle.

There are actually some cases similar to mine on this platform ,I have no friends, people just hate me for no reason, in fact during my stay at the campus. I needed funds, so I liased with a guy who was good at sports betting. I mean this guy was good he usually cashed out at least thrice a week.

You wouldn't believe this, this guy gave me his games to stake on to earn some money for myself. For that week, neither I nor him won a single betslip. He had to confront me and told me to my face that I had bad luck, and that he wouldn't be giving me games any further.

I had to go to a site within the campus to do some labourer job ,men it got so bad that even the contractors, bricklayers and co-labourers knew something was wrong with me. I had to leave in shame.

My roomates at school were speaking indirectly and wouldn't tell me to my face, but related the matter as if speaking about a third party, inwardly I knew who they were talking about. Men I really suffered.

So please guys masturbation destroys someones progressivity, I am not totally free, buti know by the grace of God, I will overcome this besseting sin. This is for those who find theirselves emeshed in this same scenario. May the Lord Almighty give us the grace to overcome this monster. Amen

Masturbation is not your problem brother. Your problem is far beyond masturbation, please figure it out.

Maybe you need deliverance.

Op you need total deliverance, make sure you fast and pray, and avoid staying alone.

Men this is a very serious issue, man you seriously need help.

The Lord is your strength, anyways thanks for sharing.

Masturbation actually kills people's destiny, a lot of people don't know this. A lot of lives have been destroyed by that devilish act. It slows down your progress in life, you experience late marriage, financial barreness it can even lead to madness, op you better get closer to God.

Hamaschi0000:
Masturbation actually kills people's destiny, a lot of people don't know this. A lot of lives have been destroyed by that devilish act. It slows down your progress in life, you experience late marriage, financial barreness it can even lead to madness, op you better get closer to God.

Cap!!
Masturbating does not have anything to do with destiny. Una go just dey run mouth anyhow.

I feel sorry for you.

Africans are the most religious people yet the most backward people ever, you are blaming masturbations for your misfortunes,
If you have a steady job, good recreational facilities, peace of mind, family, responsive government, you will mastubate with joy, because you don't have worries,
It's because after masturbation, you go and sip garri, you blame innocent maturation
The whites are chronic masturbators,yet are light years ahead of us, morally, ethically and in all ramifications

It is clear that masturbation is not the cause of your problem even though masturbation drains virtues. There is a curse that is upon you that iss working against your life.
Give your life to Jesus Christ and start fasting and praying and you will see how many of your problems will be gone.
A lot will say they have given their lives to Jesus Christ and yet still engaging in sinful life.
Surrender all to Jesus Christ now and be delivered. Don't suffer this curse for another day.

Masturbation is a channel through which your blessings are sucked, siphoned and diverted to others.

It's a slow and silent killer of destiny.

chigoziri2403:
Africans are the most religious people yet the most backward people ever, you are blaming masturbations for your misfortunes,
If you have a steady job, good recreational facilities, peace of mind, family, responsive government, you will mastubate with joy, because you don't have worries,
It's because after masturbation, you go and sip garri, you blame innocent maturation
The whites are chronic masturbators,yet are light years ahead of us, morally, ethically and in all ramifications

Be warned, masturbation is a silent killer of destiny! It kills very slowly!

judedwriter:


Be warned, masturbation is a silent killer of destiny! It kills very slowly!

It should have killed all the Europeans

judedwriter:


Be warned, masturbation is a silent killer of destiny! It kills very slowly!

The only thing that kills your destiny is your leaders who makes you to blame everything except for themselves, Go to a country that works, you will have a changed mindset

@op, masturbation is one of the ladder if not the major door way in which spirit wife gain entrance into someone's life. And their agenda is to snap someone's virtue and render them useless.
You are most definitely battling with spiritual spouse...you have bonded with a spirit through the doorway of masturbation and trust me this spirit can really frustrate the life of their victim. Talking from experience.

The only way out
1. Give your life to Christ.
2. Stop giving them access into your life through masturbation, fornication, fantasy thinking or any sexual sin.
3. Live an holy life.
4. Live a life of praying and fasting.
5. Utilise the midnight hour for prayers
6. Delete all pornography on your phone or device and fill that vacuum with gospel song and message.
7. Stop gambling.
8. Locate a Bible believing church for deliverance
May God help you in Jesus name.

ojaysam25:
@op, masturbation is one of the ladder if not the major door way in which spirit wife gain entrance into someone's life. And their agenda is to snap someone's virtue and render them useless.
You are most definitely battling with spiritual spouse...you have bonded with a spirit through the doorway of masturbation and trust me this spirit can really frustrate the life of their victim. Talking from experience..

All of the above na lies, and a part of me tells me you all are aware of this but are too stuck on this bullsheet to let go of it.

Jesus clearly informed you lot from over 2000 years ago that He has come to make an offer of rest for those who are tired of this world and the heavy load of it.

28 “Come to me all of you who are tired from the heavy burden you have been forced to carry. I will give you rest.
29 Accept my teaching. Learn from me. I am gentle and humble in spirit. And you will be able to get some rest.
30 Yes, the teaching that I ask you to accept is easy. The load I give you to carry is light.” - Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30

Someone who is obviously still fascinated by sex and the sexual desires of the body is obviously not tired of the world and it's desires, so why do you keep prescribing Jesus Christ for that which is of a lack of self-discipline?

judedwriter:
Masturbation is a channel through which your blessings are sucked, siphoned and diverted to others.

It's a slow and silent killer of destiny.

Rubbish!

Kobojunkie:
All of the above na lies, and a part of me tells me you all are aware of this but are too stuck on this bullsheet to let go of it.

Jesus clearly informed you lot from over 2000 years ago that He has come to make an offer of rest for those who are tired of this world and the heavy load of it.
Someone who is obviously still fascinated by sex and the sexual desires of the body is obviously not tired of the world and it's desires, so why do you keep prescribing Jesus Christ for that which is of a lack of self-discipline?

What are the odds, i quoted the exact Bible verse to someone else today!!!!! lol!!! although mine was for comical relief.

Kobojunkie:
Rubbish!

Repent before it's too late. It's never too late to give your life to Jesus and live the CHRISTIAN LIFE.

judedwriter:
Repent before it's too late. It's never too late to give your life to Jesus and live the CHRISTIAN LIFE.

Stop using the name of Jesus Christ to sell what is your brand of lies at least.

Kobojunkie:
Stop using the name of Jesus Christ to sell what is your brand of lies at least.

But you are using the name of iesus chrestus to spread your brand of sadness and bitterness, Chrestian.

Let me tell you the truth and nothing but the whole truth. Whether you believe me or not is not relevant because it won't make it to stop being the truth and reality.

Masturbation is a potent way throughwhich demons steal your virtues. Your creator and father God, gave you virtues which will see you through life. When you masturbate, you surrender these virtues to demons and become empty after the act. These virtues are then traded by demons in satanic alters, shrines etc to others.

When you watch porn, demons are summoned automatically. You dont see them doesn't mean they are not there. Once you masturbate and ejaculate, your seed is not wasted. It is collected by these demons and taken away, leaving you empty.

In the next 20 yrs, you will be 56. If you don't embrace Jesus, take up your cross and fight this demon of masturbation now, you will most probably still be in your current position in 20 yrs time (God forbid).

I was once like you but had a total turn around when I started fighting this demon. This is my 6th year free of masturbation by the special Grace of God.

Masturbation is a demon and you can only fight it using prayer (spiritual warfare) and constant studying the word of God.

I ADVISE YOU TO GET MARRIED ASAP. It won't free you from masturbation but it will help you in the fight.

If you pray to God for any thing now and he sends it to you. The truth is that demons can highjack this blessing through masturbation. This hijacked blessing won't be wasted either. It will be given to people who patronizes them through native docs and occultic kingdoms at a very high price (their soul and peace).

The devil doesn't doesn't manufacture anything he just steals from man to pay another at a higher price.

I helped you locate some prayer points to defeat this demon and can be find here.
https://www.hotprayerzone.com/2016/04/defeating-demon-of-masturbation.html?m=1

Let me give you an important expo. This demons of lusts, pornography and masturbation attacks in the Middle of the night when you are deep asleep and sow this evil seed of lust in your life. On waking up the next day, within any time (can come in the morning, afternoon or night) there will be this uncontrollable urge to masturbate. This is just the seed sown during the night's sleep manifesting.

Some people notice this seed of lust being sown in their lives in the form of sexual dreams, seeing naked women in the dream etc.

So the best time to pray the above prayers is in the middle of the night and also immediately after any sexual dream.

May God help and be with us all.

Amen.


Also remember "A righteous man falleth 7 times but riseth 8times".

Also not that most of the battle will be fought in your mind. Always rebuke any spirit and thought of lust, pornography and masturbation in the name of Jesus.

Never entertain any sexual thought. Rebuke them in the name of Jesus immediately. Continue rebuking them until the dissipate.

The devil will wage war in your thoughts to keep you bound in masturbation. Use the prayer "I rebuke every thought of lust, pornography and masturbation in the name of Jesus.

Zhirinovsky:
Also remember "A righteous man falleth 7 times but riseth 8times".
Also not that most of the battle will be fought in your mind. Always rebuke any spirit and thought of lust, pornography and masturbation in the name of Jesus.
Never entertain any sexual thought. Rebuke them in the name of Jesus immediately. Continue rebuking them until the dissipate.
The devil will wage war in your thoughts to keep you bound in masturbation. Use the prayer "I rebuke every thought of lust, pornography and masturbation in the name of Jesus.

Please stop using the name of Jesus Christ to spread what are nothing but ridiculous lies.

Your masturbation problems stem from a lack of self-discipline of the sexual kind, a problem that may be raised to the nth degree if you have an addictive tendency. Please stop fooling people with what are lies when what they need is possible mental health treatment, serious re-education and maybe coaching of sorts in order to get them back in control of their body and their own behavior.

judedwriter:


Be warned, masturbation is a silent killer of destiny! It kills very slowly!

This is very true brother