baralatie:

See the exple that I gave you
How you wan solve am
That is just one o
There is still another that happen in Chevron
Okay let me add that one here
The dude a big boy came complaining that his wife gave a standing order no sex for the marriage until she is ready in two after her programme.dude was soonsex starved that he literally was paying money to a girl to just get laid.
Long story short lady is pregnant and wants marriage.
The dude was crying

zrocky:
when I get married I get cheated on and lied to over and over I should ignore abi. So when them put rat poison for me shey you go follow me die.

No body is worth my happiness, wife, mother or children, life is too short

zrocky:
as a Christian the Bible said don't refuse each other your body. If my wife has no reason to refuse me sex I'll lay her off. Is there no condom, are they no contraceptive. If she can't give you sex, she dey collect outside. Instead of falling into sin sendher packing.

Now if the lady out side is pregnant dude already has a wife she can't force him to marry her. She can end up as baby mama as she knew what will happen if she date a married man

luluosas:
Marry first, then ask us how we've been doing it for the past 17 years in marriage

Johnnyjohnnyman:


My children will be fine if she want to carry all 4 that's fine I will continue to provide for them from afar and if she has decide to leave them behind they will also be fine my mum and niece will take care of them

UjuJoan2:


You are clearly and irresponsible husband and father and I pity your kids and the woman that is stuck with you.

UjuJoan2:


You are clearly and irresponsible husband and father and I pity your kids and the woman that is stuck with you.

wirinet:

The house is already broken. The baby belongs to another family. Abi, you expect the mans family to accept another man's child into their clan?

Johnnyjohnnyman:



No problem thanks. I will involve both families for a meeting and the separation will be done quietly no third parties will be allowed.

culf:



cool and both you and herself should have access to the kids. You need to do more than before so that the separation won't affect the children much.

Goodluck

baralatie:
That is the crux of the matter

culf:



I'm telling you bro. I pray for him to succeed

baralatie:

I am praying for him to succeed because serious work dey ground.we are talking about three kids and the personnel that will be supporting!
And he has to heal quickly so as not to be making decisions from a clogged mindset.
God will help all of them involved

Sweetplum:

So bad. While we v bad women, we also v the good ones.
May God heal you sir.
Meanwhile, have you ran DNA test on the other kids? If they are yours then I suggest you tell her to return the child to the owner.
I can't take such thing if I m a man.
Try and see if the relationship can work after she returned the child. If it can't work, separate. A broken heart can heal. A damaged home can't heal. Consider your children's upbringing/welfare before making a final decision. You v 3 legitimate kids and 1 illegitimate kid.
If you buy four shoes and one of them isn't your size, will you return the 4 shoes or only the one that's not your size?
Seek marriage counselors if you can't bear it alone or spiritual father/mother and the relation of you and your wife if necessary cos this matter no suppose reach public at all. You ll get more crazy advice like you are getting on Nairaland.
It's well with you.
Link to the previous thread of the op
https://www.nairaland.com/7252543/unsure-father-fourth-child

Pells:
If you the rest of your kids are yours then your 4th child was exchanged at the hospital by the nurses
Your wife is innocent
Don't be a stupid

Johnnyjohnnyman:


We have been free with each other phone after the reconciliation it has nothing to do with hiding things from each other because I have never cheated on her for the 10 years we have been she marriec it just that we both believed that when there's trust and there's no need to be checking each other phones.

She was annoyed because my sister duped me and I was broke she had to carry all the responsibility all alone.

I learned about the cheating from neighbours and my cousin brother who lives few doors away from our old house and she had admit to have cheated because the responsible was too much for her and the guy were taking care of her and the kids when I was broke. I asked her how long they have been dating she said it started in 2019 few weeks after i got duped and i asked her if she was sure she said yes they were not together before I got duped.

According to her the last time they spoke was July 2020 after the break up and I asked her what caused the break up. She said the guy was taking advantage of her he didn't fulfil all the promises he had made to her and she had to quit and cut her coats according to her size. She moved to a smaller house and change the children school after she came begging me to return back home.

I asked her if she was using protection with the guy she said yes but on few occasions the condoms has broken up and I have told her I didn't cheat on her but before we reconcile we should both go and do all the stds test, I didnt have to because i was clean but i have done because we wanted to start wverything afresh which we did the test it came back clear and we got back together.

I hope I have answered all your questions.

zrocky:


sir if your wife cheated on you and you galdy had to find out yourself how are you sure she didn't cheat on you later. Don't you paternity court, Don't you watch the news our time is not your time sir. If women where going crazy 17 years ago, now 2022 Women have gone mad patapata. Life is more difficult than 17 years ago. I refuse to die for any woman and even my own children.

baralatie:

The matter na real hmmmmmm

Justbehave:
Please just shut up.Go and be taking care of other people's children your wife brought to you.
Imagine what a supposedly grandfather is saying. Tufia.

Judybash93:


So, she resorted into prostitution in order to take care of her family.. i get it!

Jman06:
You're the f00l here sir!

MNDY:


A certain guy Dickson exposed so much on Twitter on this year's edition of his Infidelity Series this week. From cases of married to engaged to mere relationship to even fuc.king a new bride on her wedding night. Very very crazy things I read there.

Details of the anonymous DMs from that dude will make you not just fear women but dread them. They are the gatekeepers of sex and hold the power to make what will happen to happen in these things.

What struck me was only one girl who narrated hers. She knew the guy had a babe and tagged along for the persuasion gifts and good di.ck too. She said she had to later cut him off because he was too obsessed with sex.

OP try and discharge dat woman ASAP. A woman is very dangerous.

Ikpeazukerosene:


He's from the East, you worthless akpu pig.
If I show you pictures of Ojukwu's young children and post them beside FFK's pictures, you will cry.

Justbehave:
Same here.

Maynman:


Same goes for you, a dullard thinks he is making sense not knowing he’s embarrassing himself.
A dullard doesn’t know what “wisdom” means, talkless of having a monopoly of it.
According to your dull logic, women should sleep around with various men to sustain herself and her biological kids, you are wise.

HRMK:
yes,its so easy where people like you come from and type of upbringing you had!one simply must ignore your type!a lot of dffc btw common sense and real sense that is never for every tom,dick.harry!!

HRMK:
i dont know why these should be a burden to you!it only means you too could abandon your family and expect manna to fall from heaven to take care of them!what a pack of irresponsible youths!you get married when ready to take care your wife and children!no two-way about it at all!

maasoap:




But in this case, Op broke his own home. Separating with your wife and kids for seven months, more like an excuse to run away from your responsibilities to your wife and kids. I wouldn't put 100% blame on the wife alone, never!

Maynman:

What a useless old man, these are the things you teach your female children to be dependent on men and when they don’t see a man to be dependent on, they should start prostitution to “sustain” herself and her children.

Justbehave:
Lol. I think a woman is behind that moniker but she is disguising as a man. From the comments you will know but if he is truly a man,then he is a disgrace to anything man. Na one ashawo be that.