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Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by Mindlog: 8:34pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Wittyglam: That is the link to the episode, it provides so much legal education on obligations towards the children when a marriage ends. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GZ7m6_EjQUM |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by Wittyglam(f): 8:36pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Mindlog: Thank you |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by ibechris(m): 8:38pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
African men that think more children bring wealth should remember that the world has changed dramatically. I think if this story is true,the man is crazy and would remain crazy. |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by Karleb(m): 8:40pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
tensazangetsu20: Leave them now. Let them be running after big dick there. I don’t pity these women anymore because even men that have little at stake reason better than a lot of them. |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by Klass99(f): 8:52pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by hahn(m): 9:03pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
tensazangetsu20: Those are the kind of men women are usually attracted to. She would have ignored many good guys and decided to settle down with someone more dangerous. |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by Ayinke93(f): 9:09pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
All this marriage matter tire person. Which kind wahala 1 Like |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by Blesser28(m): 10:07pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Wittyglam:ISSA one way traffic thing. If she is the bread winner,she should stand firm ,if he demand for divorce then so be it . Coz If she gives in to his demand then and subscribe to more babies then that suffering raised to power 5 |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by Wittyglam(f): 10:13pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Blesser28:okay. Thank you |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by Wittyglam(f): 10:13pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Ayinke93:different issue everyday. |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by Wittyglam(f): 10:15pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
ibechris:this story is not fiction but reality. |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by Helpout12345: 10:29pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Wittyglam:3 more kids. That man is unreasonable. If it's just one more child, I will have said the wife should give in. |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by MufasaLion: 11:05pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
I could never have had such as my sister because I got none. Also, if I had got any sister, she would never be with such a lowlife. |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by MufasaLion: 11:09pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
ibechris: Even in the olden days, children don't bring wealth. That statement that "children brings wealth" is what poor people use to console themselves. 1 Like |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by laluski(m): 11:13pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Wittyglam: This story somehow doesn't add up.if she's the one foothills, why is she afraid of leave the fool and starting her new life in her own. |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by MufasaLion: 11:16pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
faithfull18: Nothing is wrong with him. He's just lazy and believe children are investment. The woman should leave this lazy ass! 1 Like |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by GboyegaD(m): 12:08am On Sep 30, 2022 |
The man doesn't want to be reasonable and will leave whenever he is ready thus, she shouldn't give in. 1 Like |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by optm(m): 3:52am On Sep 30, 2022 |
That divorce she's so scared of, las las she'll still get it because she is married to an unreasonable and selfish man. Her reasons for not wanting more kids is very valid. If i were her, i ll be resolute in my decision. rather than bringing kids that you cannot carter for and they becoming a nuisance for lack of proper care, it's better not to birth them cos they would cause you life long pain |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by Gerrard59(m): 4:24am On Sep 30, 2022 |
OP should come out clean and tell us she is the one in question and not this tumbo-tumbo she is doing. Where she dey, to access Nairaland hard? I have been on NL for so long to be easily deceived. The best I can tell you is to undergo a hysterectomy and save yourself the stress. But seriously, where did you meet such a man? If you were my sister, I would have offered you money to initiate divorce proceedings before he did. On the other hand, I will blame you for marrying him as the man is an irresponsible person, and I really loathe irresponsible people. |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by faithfull18(f): 7:53am On Sep 30, 2022 |
MufasaLion:Didn't you read they are seriously struggling, the man isn't making any effort to improve their living situation, yet he wants more children, who will be responsible for the children |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by faithfull18(f): 7:55am On Sep 30, 2022 |
hahn:Dangerous how Who in their right minds will open their eyes and marry nonsense |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by MufasaLion: 8:00am On Sep 30, 2022 |
faithfull18: If she had separated from that lazy man since, she would have saved more money because there would be less mouth to feed, cloth or give money to. Women are very dedicated and hard-working in this part of the planet and they will survive against all odds. Would you have suggested she stay back and the man keeps pounding her like a pörnstar while breeding kids like rodents? |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by MufasaLion: 8:01am On Sep 30, 2022 |
faithfull18: Many people marry trash as wife/husband. Most times, it's self-caused, not circumstance. Everyone has a choice irrespective of their social status. |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by MufasaLion: 8:03am On Sep 30, 2022 |
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Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by nostradamoss: 8:19am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Wittyglam: Their problem |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by faithfull18(f): 8:19am On Sep 30, 2022 |
MufasaLion:I would go with separation but the man must be made to provide everything the children needs. We don't want to start hearing, 'he is still your father' in future. And 'children will always find their fathers', the slang irresponsible men use every time. |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by faithfull18(f): 9:31am On Sep 30, 2022 |
MufasaLion:Na so, with the unnecessary pressure you world people put on the females. |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by Mindlog: 9:52am On Sep 30, 2022 |
faithfull18: No matter the pressure "world people" put on females, they owe themselves not to jump into the wrong end because "world people" no send you at the end of the day. 1 Like |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by CaveAdullam: 10:26am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Her reason is sound. But the mistake she made was arguing it with her husband. The moment she sensed that her husband was insistent on reproducing under a rough socioeconomic condition even after having 3 beautiful kids, she would have started using spermicidal creams or using contraceptives clandestine. There is Depo Povera and Noristerat to help her do the jobs. Divorce is not a good option right now because she may end up taking care of the kids alone or allow them to suffer in the hands of their father and future stepmother. Let her use her contraceptives wisely with legs wide spread. She must not succumb to her husband's wish because she bears the cost of pregnancy alone and most times do the nurturing. Her husband needs a medical check-up on his left and right brain hemisphere. Common sense. 1 Like |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by faithfull18(f): 11:00am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Mindlog:My stance any day any time, as you would be the one to suffer the consequences of your choices if any alone. |
Re: True Life Story, I Need Your Honest Opinion. by ednut1(m): 11:48am On Sep 30, 2022 |
She will never achieve anything with such a man. Better to leave |
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