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Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 12:57pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
TheMadame: Have you finished praying Ok! Now STFU . . . |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by TheMadame(f): 1:01pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
@ujujoan,the coward, So you sneaked back in like the filthy coward you are with your ventriloquist right behind you. Listen,you are a puppet and I am not going to respond to your st.upid posts because I klnow there is someone behind you pushing you on. I like to know who I am fighting, not some puppet on someopnre f00ls arm. |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 1:01pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
agiboma: hmmmm and the battle rages on @ madame i am often the outsider here, i once was new and was beaten up on to say the least when i put my business out there for ADVICE well i certainly got a mouthful and saw the colors of the regular posters. Now they pretty much ignore me as much as i ignore them. In short Madame you remind me of me a few months ago, its like deja vu. Dont worry ooo if you become a regular you will have many battles to fight until they see you wont back down and they will eventually give up on you like they have done on me. Battles? Seriously . . . . As in, battles! You are hilarious. People come on here, post their problems, other people advice them but not quite the way they want to be advised and they start crying foul! Agiboma, please don't get into this ok? If you don't know what to do, join 'that-crazy-madame' in praying. You seem to have gotten a hang of it! |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 1:01pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
jennykadry: Happy Sunday erryoneeee. May we all be multi taskers and may we have fun on this thread whilst changing our kpekusin positions. Today na today breeze has blown and the gstring clad c0ck nyash don open. Hear ye people hear yeJenny, Hmmm, Na today I know say you wicked, gan, no ounce of consideration for us wey dey kpepus sabatical. TheMadame:Madam TheMadame |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 1:03pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
TheMadame: @ujujoan,the coward, Yes someone is pressing my button and pulling my strings . . . at least I'm bold enough to post with my ID. CrazyMAdame, why don't you post with your old ID instead of hiding behind a new name. Newly registered by behind! |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 1:05pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
agiboma: hmmmm and the battle rages on @ madame i am often the outsider here, i once was new and was beaten up on to say the least when i put my business out there for ADVICE well i certainly got a mouthful and saw the colors of the regular posters. Now they pretty much ignore me as much as i ignore them. In short Madame you remind me of me a few months ago, its like deja vu. Dont worry ooo if you become a regular you will have many battles to fight until they see you wont back down and they will eventually give up on you like they have done on me.Agi Baby, How is the baby kicking? You still dey abi you don reach Home? Abeg great ya people. |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 1:06pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Lmao @battles. If you see battles you go for stand? Go and see Boko haram battle before comparing yours done on the Internet by some invisible persons. People refuse to tell you what you want to hear and you call it battles? Lmao. How seriously someone who has a "life" take nairaland. Lmao 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 1:08pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
jennykadry: Lmao @battles. If you see battles you go for stand? Go and see Boko haram battle before comparing yours done on the Internet by some invisible persons. LMAO . . The thing tire me my sista. See declaration of 'battle' for NL. If e see battle fear go let am stay Battle ki battle ni! |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 1:19pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
WTF is going on here - I just pop out to buy new curtains and this is going on. so much for the sisterhood. the madamme - I don't personally know debrief but she is one person I admire here and so I don't know where u get off with ur childish insults - stop it, we as women should be encouraging each other and respecting each others to decisions to stay or not stay with a cheater not all this. so what if she has had her share of marital woes - is it not the same man that caused her so much pain in the past that came on the same nairaland to confess and repent and say how bad he treated her. honestly I pity the next generation |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by ifyalways(f): 2:01pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
I finally saw where to get kilishi. Spicy and nice. . . Like that. One supermarket beside friends colony gate. Don't eat kilishi if you plan on going down low low. Chai, kpekus!!! |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 2:14pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
See all the kpekus specialists. . . . Chei! oya debrief cover your ears! |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by TheMadame(f): 2:29pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
@cotton101, i really pity you if you think the Man J thread was written by debriefsd ex husband. Are people so gullible? That thread was written,scripted and acted out from debriefs immagination. You see she has never gotten over that divorce but comes on NL to seek internet sympathy. She loves to recieve sympathy and that is why she lashes out at anyone against divorce. I really think she needs counselling becauser the wound from that divorce ios so raw in her mind that ity m,ade her concoct the fase thrad abouty her ex husband being sorry. Sher is very siock and I think she needs seriopusd help. |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 2:42pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
TheMadame: @cotton101, thanks for the pity........... ummm i can only shake my head at what u have said - silence is really the best answer to this |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by agiboma(f): 3:08pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
debrief08: Agi enters the thread " Im a vessel of positive energy" nothing can get me down i got life in me and it shall not, will not be tainted with NEGATIVE ENERGY, no comment to all the above only @ DB we are doing great mommy, loving everyday of this experience. |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by TheMadame(f): 3:15pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
cotton101: okay,but time will tell who is right and who is wrong |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 8:47am On Sep 17, 2012 |
TheMadame: @cotton101, Madame I too know . . . What the heck is yor biz eh? Have you finished praying for your husband that you now concern yourself with who needs therapy and who doesn't Sheeesh! TheMadame: LOL . . . . A typical loser response! 'time will tell' my behind . . . 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by free2ryhme: 8:53am On Sep 17, 2012 |
Gayi: Pls i need advise from men and women of goodwill! Crying and releasing your emotions is an important part of healing, but it doesn’t help to get into a place where you’re so negative about your future that you can’t imagine it ever being better. You can’t change what’s happened, so there’s no point dwelling on it–the important thing is to look at the options you do have. I feel very strongly that even if there are some things that are limiting your options, you do have options. |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 9:26am On Sep 17, 2012 |
Ujujoan:Uju, Na over kpepus do you so tay you get energy to dey answer multiple personality Themadame/johndoe? Allow people the freedom to express their talents jare. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by TheMadame(f): 11:47am On Sep 17, 2012 |
Talking about multiple personalities? Debrief=Man J=Debrief=Man J. Pot calling kettle a cooking utensil. |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 11:50am On Sep 17, 2012 |
TheMadame: Talking about multiple personalities? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 9:39pm On Sep 17, 2012 |
looking after one's mental health is very important |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Ishilove: 10:47pm On Sep 17, 2012 |
jennykadry:So you are a honourable member of the NL G-force?? Yeah,dats waaazap... |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Busybody2(f): 1:02am On Sep 18, 2012 |
Na wa oh, they refuse to let me join the Cabal, now they have formed another club here without offering me an invitation to join And they have given themselves exotic posh names such as Desperados, Peacemaker, Ndi ara, puppet, puppet master, spitfire, etc. See as una dey commot me from setting all the time, una nor do well oh |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by maclatunji: 10:05am On Sep 18, 2012 |
Ivynwa: Ivynwa enters the thread, smiles at Agiboma----shakes her head and leaves the thread. LMFSO! |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Johndoe100(m): 1:05pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
TheMadame: @cotton101, Hear, hear. Very well said. |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Johndoe100(m): 1:09pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
cotton101: looking after one's mental health is very important And you joined the cabal? |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by james1(m): 1:13pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
Hello. Men and women who cheat hardly ever change;may God help you. Becareful to conceal it from your kids,its not good for their future. Now to you;is there anything you may not be doing right?has the steam gone out of your love making?have you gone cold without knowing it?are you no longer romantic? Why not infuse some fresh romance into your marriage,try out the following should you not be doing them now;make lovemaking something he look's foward to,be more creative in bed. Remember his favorite dish and make a big fuse of it. Call him up at work,find out what topic he enjoys and engage him more at it. Go out as a family on a weekend trip to some resort or a beach.(This make's him think more of his family) Go out with your husband,try bring back some of the things you guys were doing when you were courting. Then finally with a cool demeanor,ask him why he cheats on you,if there is any kick he finds with those other women that you don't give.his answer is very important. If he denies,don't insist.smile and offer him his favourite anything. Note:some men womanise for the fun of it,some men do because their partners no longer fit the bill.some men do because their partners sex is boring to death! Best of luck!!! |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Afamdman(m): 7:13pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
These women no go kill person with laugh for here. Hahahahahhahahah. @ what's her name again ujujoan. Hmmmmm more please make it more interesing oya throw some more abuse my way. Hahahhahahaha. Long live the cabal. women will always be their own downfall. |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by agiboma(f): 8:01pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
^^^^^^ hmmmmm |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by horny4u(f): 6:28pm On Sep 20, 2012 |
debrief08: Its all very clear now.... |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by infoocean: 5:35pm On Sep 23, 2012 |
it takes the grace of God to be free from such cruel grip. Very many men are like that and you never can tell what sort of man you got married to until he began to unfold some of his natures. And i can say you are not different. All i have to tell you is to be patient with him and keep praying for him. |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by navygrl: 6:34am On Sep 24, 2012 |
Op it is quite clear your husband does not love you by his actions and the longer you stay the less respect he will have for you. Also children learn a bout relationships from their parents. Do you want you sons thinking this is the proper way to treat their wives? Or for your daughters to grow up and accept this type of treatment from a man. Move on and find someone who actually cares for you and your children |
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