Meet this girl recently, my mum told me I should not ask anything about her educational qualification, but she is a hairdresser. Got to know after our introduction that she just finished from J.S.S 3 she did not even go to S.S.S 1 in short she doesn't even have a WAEC certificate. And our wedding is coming soon, what can I do guys?

Since it is tour mother that dictates to you then you have to go on with the wedding. You have bo set goal for marriage or standards for a life partner and that is why you did introduction with someone that you know barely bothering about .
The outcome would be the outcome because your decisions are not in your hands any way

oloyeagbaakin:
Meet this girl recently, my mum told me I should not ask anything about her educational qualification, but she is a hairdresser. Got to know after our introduction that she just finished from J.S.S 3 she did not even go to S.S.S 1 in short she doesn't even have a WAEC certificate. And our wedding is coming soon, what can I do guys?

Was it not a red flag to you when your mother said so? So what did you talk about when you met her?

oloyeagbaakin:
Meet this girl recently, my mum told me I should not ask anything about her educational qualification, but she is a hairdresser. Got to know after our introduction that she just finished from J.S.S 3 she did not even go to S.S.S 1 in short she doesn't even have a WAEC certificate. And our wedding is coming soon, what can I do guys?

This is quite funny, are you a robot/kid that your mum commanded not to ask the girl you want to marry anything about your future?

Anyway, Education is not a pre- requisite of good wife, but if you don't want her, you still have time to leave the relationship now.

oloyeagbaakin:
Meet this girl recently, my mum told me I should not ask anything about her educational qualification, but she is a hairdresser. Got to know after our introduction that she just finished from J.S.S 3 she did not even go to S.S.S 1 in short she doesn't even have a WAEC certificate. And our wedding is coming soon, what can I do guys?

How old are you?

Kobojunkie:
How old are you?

I will be 29years old this year

oloyeagbaakin:
I will be 29years old this year

And how old is the lady abeg?,

Kobojunkie:
And how old is the lady abeg?,

She is just 20years old

oloyeagbaakin:
She is just 20years old

So you dated and got engaged to this 20-year-old dame, but now that marriage is around the corner for you both, you suddenly remember to check her resume?

Is she some sort of genius that you couldn't figure out before now that her educational background was lacking?

If educational background was of importance to you, why couldn't you figure out she was lacking in that area even after just your first couple of meetings/dates with her?,

I don't mean to sound rude but you also sound like you didn't also finish secondary school. Because if you did, it will be hard to believe someone educated can actually go into marriage with a partner they barely know.
These kind of marriages mostly end as a disaster except both of you are really close to God.

Marriage is meant for two people who have grown to know each other properly, trust each other, defend each other and then love each other for whoever they are whether graduate or no graduate.

This process takes a while which is why courting is necessary before marriage for both people to properly understand themselves and figure out if they believe they can both stay together forever and become a family.

I can only wish you all the best in your marriage and pray God be with both of you.
Less I forget to mention, not having a waec or being a hairdresser doest mean she cannot become big tomorrow.

Your mother found a wife for you and your introduction is coming up, yet you know nothing about her.

This is the kind of thing I heard they used to do in the 60's and 70's. Wonders shall never end. Let's believe you're joking.

From you write up you dont know her that much, what were you guys talking about all this time? It is talking that you find out other things abi you were exploring the down below? You can walk away or you can send her to school the choice is yours

You should be asking your mother these same questions, because she was the one that made you marry her.

Your mum has Buharied u by taking u back to the stone age era where parents choose wife for their son.

U know u are not comfortable yet u followed her to do introduction and now u are disturbing yourself because u know u have messed up.

The disparity is too much...and she told u not to ask questions and u agreed and followed her like malu.

Your kids don enter am with 2 dull parents.

Because you're not intelligent to have been easily scammed.

Dull + Dull = MegaDull.

oloyeagbaakin:
Meet this girl recently, my mum told me I should not ask anything about her educational qualification, but she is a hairdresser. Got to know after our introduction that she just finished from J.S.S 3 she did not even go to S.S.S 1 in short she doesn't even have a WAEC certificate. And our wedding is coming soon, what can I do guys?

Guy for me oh it is a steal, if u are financially buoyant, she is still young, quickly marry her give her belle, Errol her in adult school, let her take the Gce exams. She can go on to do part time in any University

oloyeagbaakin:
Meet this girl recently, my mum told me I should not ask anything about her educational qualification, but she is a hairdresser. Got to know after our introduction that she just finished from J.S.S 3 she did not even go to S.S.S 1 in short she doesn't even have a WAEC certificate. And our wedding is coming soon, what can I do guys?

If ur sermon is real, I think the girl should be worry about u, marrying mummy's pet is a red flag. I pity the lady because of imminent third part involvement in her marriage, she needs prayers and strong endurance for her to be able to leave in peace with ur type who is remote controlling from outside.

Do u like her personality? Is she good and respectful? Do you find her lovable
Most important is will you be happy and have internal peace in your space with her? If the answer to me questions is positive......be exceedingly glad ......
Money like formal education is often overated.......both can come at any point in life

Happy marriage life in advance

GeneralOjukwu:
Your kids don enter am with 2 dull parents.

Because you're not intelligent to have been easily scammed.

Dull + Dull = MegaDull.

op is even more dull than d supposed illiterate lady

I don't know why you want to create a problem where none exists. That you were able to communicate with this person without noticing any deficiencies as a result of limited education, show how exposed and cultured she is. If she don't have first leaving certificate, so what? She enroll for WAEC GCE and get the certificate for you, if you are able to convince her.

oloyeagbaakin:
Meet this girl recently, my mum told me I should not ask anything about her educational qualification, but she is a hairdresser. Got to know after our introduction that she just finished from J.S.S 3 she did not even go to S.S.S 1 in short she doesn't even have a WAEC certificate. And our wedding is coming soon, what can I do guys?

I think you found a wife. God bless your home

UrPapa:
op is even more dull than d supposed illiterate lady

I dey tell u. The babe sharp pass am.

The most important thing to discover here is of she's intelligent and have zeal to learn...

This would enable her to further her education even as a married lady....

But you see this nonsense, parents are not interfering I to this anymore.....

oloyeagbaakin:
Meet this girl recently, my mum told me I should not ask anything about her educational qualification, but she is a hairdresser. Got to know after our introduction that she just finished from J.S.S 3 she did not even go to S.S.S 1 in short she doesn't even have a WAEC certificate. And our wedding is coming soon, what can I do guys?

OP what you have there is an already established young lady with a promising future and an entrepreneurial career. Kindly go on with the planned wedding, have a talk with her on how to expand her business if you have funds to. After a year or two of good stability the National Open University is there for her to enrol in after of course writing and passing an O’level WAEC or NECO GCE. Need I remind you that most graduates after 4yrs in the Uni go back to take up skills such as the one your prospective wife has now.

Life and marriage is all about planning. Plan well and you will live happily. Above all, it is just you and your partner when you will be old and grey. None of the comments of today will have any say in your life by then so move with pure logic and a sound mind while taking this decision.

oloyeagbaakin:
Meet this girl recently, my mum told me I should not ask anything about her educational qualification, but she is a hairdresser. Got to know after our introduction that she just finished from J.S.S 3 she did not even go to S.S.S 1 in short she doesn't even have a WAEC certificate. And our wedding is coming soon, what can I do guys?

Do you like the girl? Does she bring you peace? Is she respectful? Is she willing to learn?

Learn to think for your self.

Are we back in 1970s or what?

oloyeagbaakin:
Meet this girl recently, my mum told me I should not ask anything about her educational qualification, but she is a hairdresser. Got to know after our introduction that she just finished from J.S.S 3 she did not even go to S.S.S 1 in short she doesn't even have a WAEC certificate. And our wedding is coming soon, what can I do guys?

The lady and you should be more concerned of how a mumu mummy wrapper boy you are

Your mum ask you not to ask her about things and you dumbly shut up

I'm sure mummy will draw up a timetable for when you will sleep with your wife, how much you should be giving as soup money and you will keep your remaining money with your mommy

To make matter worse you give yourself a macho name: Oloye Agba Akin, you are none of the 3 names, you are simply a coward mummy wrapper boy

Op, go ahead and marry her if her educational qualification is the only thing shes lagging in. That doesn't make a woman less of herself.

She's even skilled, which makes her better than some graduate ladies that are into hookup.

Please, don't let her educational background discourage you because truth is, most of the graduate ladies you see are rotten. ( Not all though) If I tell you what most of them in their 20s are doing in school now, you won't want to go near any graduate. Trust me.

Just look out for other qualities in her. like... is she industrious?
Is she neat?
Does she play around with men?
Is she reserved? If she ticks most of the boxes, then go for her.

At least, na only you go enjoy your wife unlike the ones I see these days that all the yahoo boys and different men have useless their lives as they troop out from their hostels every night to club with them.

MARRY HER!

oloyeagbaakin:
Meet this girl recently, my mum told me I should not ask anything about her educational qualification, but she is a hairdresser. Got to know after our introduction that she just finished from J.S.S 3 she did not even go to S.S.S 1 in short she doesn't even have a WAEC certificate. And our wedding is coming soon, what can I do guys?

...see them, mommy’s boys association. How about you run back to mommy so she tells you what next to do.

NickNoble:
I don't mean to sound rude but you also sound like you didn't also finish secondary school. Because if you did, it will be hard to believe someone educated can actually go into marriage with a partner they barely know.
These kind of marriages mostly end as a disaster except both of you are really close to God.

Marriage is meant for two people who have grown to know each other properly, trust each other, defend each other and then love each other for whoever they are whether graduate or no graduate.

This process takes a while which is why courting is necessary before marriage for both people to properly understand themselves and figure out if they believe they can both stay together forever and become a family.

I can only wish you all the best in your marriage and pray God be with both of you.
Less I forget to mention, not having a waec or being a hairdresser doest mean she cannot become big tomorrow.

What will make it end in disaster? Because she didn't complete her secondary education? Very lame.

For your info, its the highly educated ones that can't keep their marriages these days cos they are either forming too woke to submit to a man or have become too wild to be satisfied by one man. So you using her educational background as a yardstick for a bad and non-lasting marriage is warped and very wrong.

They will make a perfect home.