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Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Slynation(m): 11:58am On Oct 04, 2022 |
cayorday89:Yea...I somehow understood why some men may end up with a bad deal, sometimes friends can also contribute to why there pal may end up with a bad wife... I once had this gf with massive standing boobs and massive behind, she's figure S, and can twerk very well like Janemina... Now the issue was that I was tired of her due to the fact everyday it was one wahala to another, but my guys will always hail me because she's endowed, they be like Gee, do not looseguard this ass no matter what, so the problem was that I was enduring her issues and willingly not to let go because of her assets... after coming out of that ship, big ass and boobs cease to move me any longer... 1 Like |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by cayorday89(m): 12:07pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Slynation:LOL, my experience early in life made all those things not to be of utmost interest to me... Had a relative and few neighbours who came to my dad to settle their marital differences and I learnt a lot from them as many had stupid reasons for marrying the partner they ended up with and ignoring the red flag or not noticing at all in the case of some people. It's not a battle we can win as long as one is willing to marry. As friends, many seem perfect but the moment it enters romantic relationship, na there gbege dey. |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Slynation(m): 12:13pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
cayorday89:I swear... 1 Like |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Mryacks: 12:20pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Rtk5: Sorry to hear this....my cousin is exactly in the same situation as you |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Regex: 12:37pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
dbestuncle: Brother, if one is angry one should even in that midst of anger consider and apply brain. For any woman to say her husband has not got her anything even after the husband has given her the world, that woman, is an ingrate and does not deserve whatever she's got. Let's call a spade a spade. Anyone who is not loving is not loving no mater their state of emotions. |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Alabo7978(m): 12:40pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Not true..many people marry a woman out of good heart because they didn't know how to break up after probably dating for a very long time. They saw the attitude and prayed they changed, and when they see the change isn't coming then they feel tired and dissapointed 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Ayed44: 12:42pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Rtk5:That is her personality and u can never change it. She has been like that before u willingly decided to marry her. Just accept her like that and focus instead on her positives. God bless you. |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Omalicious1: 1:17pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
A woman's gratitude is always short-lived. Know this and know peace 2 Likes |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Banhammy717: 1:46pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
You're not only her husband, you're also her tutor and guidance. You'll continue to educate her on the reasons to be appreciative. Don't be tired of her, she will change for better one day. 1 Like |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Advancedman(m): 1:52pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Rtk5: Did you force married her that you didn't see this trait in her? |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Toriagirl(f): 2:00pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Hmm attitude of gratitude matters alot |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Ebubu: 2:07pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Msmither:you be muslim? doesn’t christianity forbid two wives ? 1 Like |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by zolajpower: 2:20pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Great0ne1:Just follow your heart ...... For me I'm following something that has brought me peace ever since I found her . Have you seen a Nigerian lady that will visit u from another state and won't ask you for transport fare before coming to visit you ? 1 Like |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Misterdhee1(m): 3:02pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
zolajpower:So na African American woman better pass Nigerian woman? Lmao. He still Dey shack you. I wish good luck notwithstanding |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by wiseone28: 3:05pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Burgerlomo:
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Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Kobojunkie: 3:13pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
SmartyPants:It isn't selfish to desire change but one has to approach it cautiously and not from a "you are wrong and I am right" point of view which is what OP seems to be doing here. He married his wife as-is and admits to spending the last 5 years with her bearing it all. For him to suddenly come on here to make it seem she-is-wrong-and-he-is-right means he is the one who is disconnected in this. He can always tell her that he is feeling vulnerable and not able to tolerate as he used to and they both work it out among themselves. 2 Likes |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Kobojunkie: 3:23pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Alabo7978:What you describe is in no way unique to men in any way or form. 1 Like |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by mariahAngel(f): 3:33pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Munzy14: Most men are like that. Hehehe Ka Chineke gbawa op ume. |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by zolajpower: 3:54pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Misterdhee1: My brother if it's hasn't worked well for you getting an African American woman that doesn't mean it won't work for me . Theres nothing like shack or shark , after all I won't come to you to rescue me , leave am na my choice oo 1 Like |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Karlifate: 4:13pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
moneyissweet: Apt! 1 Like |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Tegabadguy(m): 4:15pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Rtk5:is she an igbo lady |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Burgerlomo: 4:43pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
[quote author=wiseone28 post=117265913][/quote] STFU
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Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Munzy14(m): 5:02pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
mariahAngel:If not Anyi n'ile o.. Unless one becomes wiser from lessons learnt.. I pity him, another case that can result into such, is a man marrying a lady who is not into him like that...You will get burnt out in the long run.. It is heartbreaking pleasing who doesnt care.. The best thing that can happen to a man, is settling down with a lady ji obi ya hu ya n'anya..I mean you will want to break the boundaries to make her happy always. Not udi nwunye OP..This one can make a man question God 1 Like |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by wiseone28: 5:06pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Burgerlomo:
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Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by mariahAngel(f): 5:14pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Munzy14: Hahahahahahahahahaha |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Munzy14(m): 5:33pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
mariahAngel:I chiga ochi.. |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Souqwaqif: 5:39pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Osibajo2023: You too sabi book. Thumbs up for you. That lady called kòbojunkie is all over the place supporting errors. 1 Like |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Atolu01: 5:45pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Do what things? Just financial? Complain about what? Ambiguous manipulative entity. |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Kowolab: 6:08pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Marriage has its challenges and it's peculiar to all who are married....the most important thing is, understanding the root cause of ingratitude to almost everything you do for her. It can be more complicated than it appears. |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Burgerlomo: 6:08pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
[quote author=wiseone28 post=117269201][/quote] STFU
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Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by mariahAngel(f): 6:10pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Munzy14: I sikwanu'm mee gini? Seriously speaking, couples encounter different challenges in marriages o. Even this one that op is complaining about is nothing compared to what some others are going through. There are truly only few good marriages. |
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by wiseone28: 6:13pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Burgerlomo:
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