youngmd:
Wati man do man .if it was to be a lady shay u help her.tell him ur conditions if he can accept it fine

youngmd:
Wati man do man .if it was to be a lady shay u help her.tell him ur conditions if he can accept it fine

Amb1045:
Give him time frame when to pack out if you accommodate him now

Jmarjr:
Give him ur T&C

Jmarjr:
Give him ur T&C

youngmd:
Wati man do man .if it was to be a lady shay u help her.tell him ur conditions if he can accept it fine

Amb1045:
Give him time frame when to pack out if you accommodate him now

youngmd:
Wati man do man .if it was to be a lady shay u help her.tell him ur conditions if he can accept it fine

Chris2863:
shut up

youngmd:
ur fada

Faber:
Hello my people. I have an issue at hand. There's this guy I barely know, we met in my new hood, and we became friends. He is from a place I spent almost my childhood years in, that's what made me to fancy him, based on childhood memories of that great town, and they are generally good people. But I don't know his parents, brothers, family members etc.
So we see each other almost everyday. We go out and watch football matches and catch fun together, he is a nice guy, though with some flaws(everyone get their own flaws) , but his own is that he is a chronic gambler. Card gambling, virtual soccer etc. He gambles almost everyday.

Now he was issued quit notice from his house and he wants to move into my space temporarily, until he gets money to rent a new apartment. He's been to my house and slept over several times. I live in a two bedroom and parlour apartment, all alone, one of the rooms is even empty, I just use it as washroom.

So after discussing with him yesterday, I told him I will get back to him, he needs to move out of his old house latest this weekend.

So guys, I need your advice, I never lived together with another person before all through my life. Should I go ahead or should I just close my doors on him. My mind is telling me to look him straight face in the eye and tell him"am sorry guy, I wish I could help you out" But another thought is telling me to help a brother

Chris2863:
ewure

AKWATGOLD1:
Negative for me couple with his gambling addict. Is the guy working
As you said, you don't know any of his relations remembered human being are unpredictable.

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

Don't make that mistake cuz even your terms and conditions won't matter in a long run.

Shit can go south real quick than you expected

Use your head and fix the rest of the puzzle I don't want to talk too much.

Come up with a better excuse to let him know he can't stay at your place ASAP...forget what you know cuz you barely know the nigga man.

But if your God feeling say make you help I'm not against that in anyway

My opinion

Faber:
Hello my people. I have an issue at hand. There's this guy I barely know, we met in my new hood, and we became friends. He is from a place I spent almost my childhood years in, that's what made me to fancy him, based on childhood memories of that great town, and they are generally good people. But I don't know his parents, brothers, family members etc.
So we see each other almost everyday. We go out and watch football matches and catch fun together, he is a nice guy, though with some flaws(everyone get their own flaws) , but his own is that he is a chronic gambler. Card gambling, virtual soccer etc. He gambles almost everyday.

Now he was issued quit notice from his house and he wants to move into my space temporarily, until he gets money to rent a new apartment. He's been to my house and slept over several times. I live in a two bedroom and parlour apartment, all alone, one of the rooms is even empty, I just use it as washroom.

So after discussing with him yesterday, I told him I will get back to him, he needs to move out of his old house latest this weekend.

So guys, I need your advice, I never lived together with another person before all through my life. Should I go ahead or should I just close my doors on him. My mind is telling me to look him straight face in the eye and tell him"am sorry guy, I wish I could help you out" But another thought is telling me to help a brother

Faber:
Hello my people. I have an issue at hand. There's this guy I barely know, we met in my new hood, and we became friends. He is from a place I spent almost my childhood years in, that's what made me to fancy him, based on childhood memories of that great town, and they are generally good people. But I don't know his parents, brothers, family members etc.
So we see each other almost everyday. We go out and watch football matches and catch fun together, he is a nice guy, though with some flaws(everyone get their own flaws) , but his own is that he is a chronic gambler. Card gambling, virtual soccer etc. He gambles almost everyday.

Now he was issued quit notice from his house and he wants to move into my space temporarily, until he gets money to rent a new apartment. He's been to my house and slept over several times. I live in a two bedroom and parlour apartment, all alone, one of the rooms is even empty, I just use it as washroom.

So after discussing with him yesterday, I told him I will get back to him, he needs to move out of his old house latest this weekend.

So guys, I need your advice, I never lived together with another person before all through my life. Should I go ahead or should I just close my doors on him. My mind is telling me to look him straight face in the eye and tell him"am sorry guy, I wish I could help you out" But another thought is telling me to help a brother

LalastiklaIa:
Don't do it!

If you are the kind that usually stays at home. The dude will see you finish and start misbehaving in your house. I have first hand experience. Even for a week don't allow him! I repeat don't! .

It is better the relationship turns sour now than after he he has come and showed you pepper.

As someone that was previously nice and accommodating. I am giving you first hand experience.

Some idiotic guys claim never to do house chores. Mr Alpha males that don't wash their plates, don't sweep. He may want to eat your food but eat his alone. He may drink garri with your plates and leave it to dry up and dump for you to wash. May never help you out with something but want you to help. May want to start bringing girls and too many friends home. You might not be comfortable with all these I just said I should tell you. The thing is if table turns and you need a place too he won't even let you spend the night. A word is enough for the wise. As you see me so as guy man so I can't let anybody sleep over in my house o. You can visit me and play with me from morning till night but when evening reach abeg dey go your house and your visits must never be frequent. It is like you never had roommate in uni abi? The choice is yours

Sweetplum:

I believe you are a woman. Sister, you can't accommodate him for more than 48 hours. Within that period, he should be able to reach his family and friends. If it's total helplessness, go and get a police report that nothing must touch you before you allow him stay.
He may be a good man but time ll prove it.
Last Bullet
Men are evil. If he has been targeting your body before, you are in hot soup!