Freshgrace4life:
Wether you have money or not , it won't stop some people from being irresponsible.

HedwigesMaduro:


Michelle kinda sounds feminine, though. That's the feminine version of Michel (the French for Michael).

xtivin2:

See your mentality, we grow from somewhere, these girls are opportunist waiting to rip where they don't sow with stupid sense of entitlement. FYI, there are still responsible once but like I say I pity this generation many of them have become cum dump for yahoo boiz. Sex with them is now strictly monetized they no longer have policy infact they prefer married men more for comfort.

Icumsa45:


Most of them I talked to rejected suitors because of standards they set. Abeg they are the cause of their wahala. Me I no wan desperate news paper, I am almost 40 and I am not bothered about marriage.

Michelle70:
my moniker was inspired by a song.

But the "m" gender was beside my moniker na

Goldmaxx:
make money first then see for yourself.

Freshgrace4life:
If you show me road e no go bad , no be to dey shout go hustle , go hustle .

BigBashiru:


The 30 and above evening newspapers can be married but:

1. She can't control which other girls I talk to and can't prevent me from dating other girls....

2. I will give her a roof over her head and food....anything else financial she has to fend for herself financially....

Abyounghammed:


Naso my ex lie say she is 22 while she b 26 and baba dey celebrate birthday for her every year with false birthday age

Baronthecelebri:
Lies, I met a fine girl, I approach her and ask her for friendship she says no, I met her again she said that she'll think about it, I travel for a job that Last 7 month, when I came back she's pregnant for one stupid Iceland guy that is in prison for murder. She call me for urgent 2k, I gave her condition
1-when she come we'll have sex before she eat.
2- we'll have 2 rounds of sex before she go.
So guys she agreed, anytime she need 2k, I invite her we have 3 rounds of sex with the pregnancy. Did I do anything wrong.

CaptainFM1:
Many that were approached by serious guys were vetting the men that came forward.
I've heard many ladies say "I can't marry a guy that doesn't have a car", "I can't marry a guy that's living in a face-me-I-blow-you, or a room and parlour", So when the clock now ticked to 30'o clock they turn all the excuse to men.

Eventually, na one Agbero or small yahoo boy go come dey service them dey give them small change at 30! Abeg, make them go sit down.

Goldmaxx:
In other words, you'll love to marry a rich man?

Lucrativress:

See we all have preferences
One I go with is money and sense
Money is useless if the owner doesn't have sense.
You'll suffer, either physically or emotionally.
And sense without money.
You have to filter the sense
Ask
What kind of sense does he have
If he also have financial sense,forget it, don't check his Bank balance,it doesn't matter if it is presently low.
Go with him

mirinder:
you what type of sense do you have?

mirinder:
Why cheat. The older the wine, the sweeter in bed

Lucrativress:

No try me o
We update on a steady
Social, financial, emotional and moral sense
That's good a enough for me
So I have every right to ask for it while I work on my own
Mirinder wassup
E don tey wey I drink you o
Are you still sweet *blushes*

johnfem321:
What I notice this days is a lot of women lie about their age.. you will see 32years old claiming 25years.. I don’t understand the reason behind this lie

mirinder:
Yeah. I'm still sweet when I hit your G spot

casualobserver:


The PRIMARY job of a woman is to raise and nurture the next generation that is your PRIMARY purpose, God did not create women for career. The primary purpose of a man is to provide for and protect his family....dont get it twisted!!!! How do you see a man who cannot provide for his family? Exactly!!! It’s the same way a man sees a woman we are all programmed by God that way don’t be fooled by western propaganda!!! Many African women have found themselves in a mess because they’ve bought into western ideology and forgotten their roles in society. So the older a woman gets, no matter how fine the or successful you are in your career, the less you are able to fulfill your fundamental purpose on earth and the less value you have in the eyes of a man!!! There is nothing wrong with a career in fact I encourage it but if you prioritize career over family and fail to find a husband. Then that is a result of your choices!!

On the issue of men running away, no man runs away from a good woman…..trust me, we are not fools. More likely to happen is that a good woman may leave a man but a man NEVER leaves a good woman. So if a man left you, it means he didn’t see you as the type of wife or mother he wants. Women need a paradigm shift that a man left you because he was a bad man. If you are truly a good woman a man will always hold on to you even if he has other women. A man only lets go of a woman that is dispensable….I.e she is not a keeper!!!!

A man holds on to a woman for 2 main reasons 1)you are a potential life partner 2) good sex. It is for a woman to determine which of the reasons you fall into and exit if you are not aligned. A man let’s go of a woman for 1 main reason…….your value to stress ratio is too low. Ie you represent more stress than benefit…..Men are very simple creatures!!!

Finally your post makes it seem as if all responsibility in a relationship falls on the man. It is also the responsibility of a woman not to enter into relationships with the wrong men and take responsibility for your mistakes when you do and more importantly to learn and not repeat your mistakes. Remmember the choice to date a man was YOUR choice in the 1st place.

Lucrativress:

You no know G-string
I go pair you up with James Brown

mirinder:
are you a guy? I don't do guys. I fúck girls

Lucrativress:
Oniranu

mirinder:
What's up? I'm a DM away

bestdudes:


I tried to work something out with 3 ladies... I am a guy that loves giving and showing through actions that I am serious...

do you know what my action earned me? "desperate", "mugu that can be taken advantage of"... I laughed, learned from it, and stopped doing that to ladies.

I don't believe what that OP said it totally true, especially for average pretty ladies... they have had good men come their way. But how did they treat him? read my experience with girls like this and tell me whether any man will keep trying or move on.

One during COVID 19, despite the lockdown, I managed to do the best I could as i had just done some supplies and was left with nothing but 50k after I sent her some money for her mum's medical needs. In the same year she requested I help her with money to buy oven for baking and I did... do u know what this girl did? do you know the insult she meted at me after all these?

Well after all done to save the relationship, I left. It has been 2 years since then and now she is feigning remorse that it was because of the situation she was undergoing at that time... tomorrow, someone like her will come and write this nonsense like the OP did, pretending like NO GOOD man has ever crossed their path. Bloody rubbish!

I simply told her a few things that she didn't know, how i was left with 50k and how i have managed to bounce back from just that 50k, and recoup whatever I gave her.

Don't mind this write-up written by the OP. it is all lies. women don't appreciate good things.

Sagamite:


"It is not always their fault" is as useless a statement as "It is not always all men that are heterosexual".

When discussing these sought of issues about a large group of people, it is the generality that matters, not your focus on exceptions and/or minority. And there are few large groups that are as large as "Female Group".

Your listing of exceptions is basically meaningless.

The realities are:

1. Everyone is responsible for their respective destiny.
2. Women have the powers in their youth and are the selectors.
3. The finer a woman is, the less excuse she has that it is not her fault being single at an advanced age.
4. A large proportion of women who are single at advanced age failed in the 3 points aforementioned.

Trying to find few exceptions to excuse and protect the majority is quite disingenious.

Majority wasted their beauty in their youth because:

a. They were power drunk and thought their power, queue of suitors and ability to dictate in their youth will last forever.

b. They over-valued themselves and engaged in delusions (the damage feminism has done; I have been saying this for over 10 years on NL before the Red Pill movement; Search my name and L'Oreal on NL).

c. They chose bad boys for excitement when they had options.

d. They have poor relationship skills.

e. They were unrealistic and thought because one or more HVM effed them, then that is their class of men/level to marry.

f. Nigerian economy is so bad, many Nigerian men are hesitant to marry until they make something (which is not in the late 30s)


Except a woman is very ugly right from time, there really is very few reasons beyond her fault if she can't find a man to couple with. They had all the chance in their youth; and their youth is very important and fundamental to their ability to pick the best market.


This is a post I made in 2010:

https://www.nairaland.com/406708/fiancee-hates-home-made-food/1#5629365

In it, you will be able to see that I have been talking about "What do you bring to the table" and women over-valuing themselves long before Red Pill movement emerged and started saying it. Na we define am, I didn't learn it.

You will also see that back then, I felt Nigerian girls in Nigeria were better; but they have copied nonsense movement (copy-copy) and are paying for it too now.

bestdudes:


I tried to work something out with 3 ladies... I am a guy that loves giving and showing through actions that I am serious...

do you know what my action earned me? "desperate", "mugu that can be taken advantage of"... I laughed, learned from it, and stopped doing that to ladies.

I don't believe what that OP said it totally true, especially for average pretty ladies... they have had good men come their way. But how did they treat him? read my experience with girls like this and tell me whether any man will keep trying or move on.

One during COVID 19, despite the lockdown, I managed to do the best I could as i had just done some supplies and was left with nothing but 50k after I sent her some money for her mum's medical needs. In the same year she requested I help her with money to buy oven for baking and I did... do u know what this girl did? do you know the insult she meted at me after all these?

Well after all done to save the relationship, I left. It has been 2 years since then and now she is feigning remorse that it was because of the situation she was undergoing at that time... tomorrow, someone like her will come and write this nonsense like the OP did, pretending like NO GOOD man has ever crossed their path. Bloody rubbish!

I simply told her a few things that she didn't know, how i was left with 50k and how i have managed to bounce back from just that 50k, and recoup whatever I gave her.

Don't mind this write-up written by the OP. it is all lies. women don't appreciate good things.