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Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Paulianfa(m): 3:38pm On Oct 06, 2022
This is not the case
Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Lucrativress(f): 3:45pm On Oct 06, 2022
Guderian:



Chai how many men have you done this to grin grin
I dinnuh even use to do it sef
I just want to start
Na good Girl I don dey do since grin
But they don do am to me
Don't worry I dinnuh have shame grin
The thing messed with my head ehn,even when I told myself this was a tactic
Now if you do all those things to me, I still stay really cool.
Come back 10 years and text,me I'll answer you o
Life no hard
If somebody is sha doing this to you
There is a way to do counter attack grin
But you'll both be cool,no single hatred,just pure mind games
So you can turn the Tables but you'll have to also be very useful to yourself.
Cause you'll be calm and composed and nobody can do shakara to you

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Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by akwesenana: 3:52pm On Oct 06, 2022
Lucrativress:

Go monosyllabic
grin
Thank me later
If she calls
Pick
And use one one word responses and keep your tone cool
Oh wow
Cool
I'm good
Oh fine
Don't ask about her, don't seem interested in knowing what's going on with her
Don't care

When next she asks for a favour
Say oh no
You're a bit busy at the moment but you'll hit her up first thing when you're done
Don't hit anything
Continue like that like
She'll either leave or you start being on her mind cause she becomes confused grin
He is here but not really here
Then if she doesn't talk to you for weeks
Out of the blues one day,chat her up with Hi
When she responds
Count 8-10 hours before responding
Then still go on with the monosyllables


I wanted to like this 2 times. grin
Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by September19: 3:57pm On Oct 06, 2022
Op so you dey chase woman for 2 yrs?!
Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Lucrativress(f): 4:08pm On Oct 06, 2022
akwesenana:



I wanted to like this 2 times. grin
Oya coman pay offering money
I just gave you redpill 1010 grin
The best redpill is the one coming from a female,cause it's sweet not bitter.

You people should tell me o
If you want me to start coaching you
My own is sweeter than Ubunja
Everybody will be happy grin

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Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by akwesenana: 4:10pm On Oct 06, 2022
Lucrativress:

Oya coman pay offering money
I just gave you redpill 1010 grin
The best redpill is the one coming from a female,cause it's sweet not bitter.

You people should tell me o
If you want me to start coaching you
My own is sweeter than Ubunja
Everybody will be happy grin
I actually thought you were ilegenndd but I remember that his doctrine on mystery was did not emphasize excess snubbing. gringringrin
Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Lucrativress(f): 4:19pm On Oct 06, 2022
akwesenana:

I actually thought you were ilegenndd but I remember that his doctrine on mystery was did not emphasize excess snubbing. gringringrin
This is not excess snubbing
You want to connect to her mind and have it in her hands ni while being present and absent at the same time.
If she chats you up, you'll respond
Sometimes respond immediately,other times,count that 8-10hours
You wanna be irresistible Sugar ,go for the mind kiss

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Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by ibiyemi28(m): 4:26pm On Oct 06, 2022
Hack her

Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by detectivejones: 6:49pm On Oct 06, 2022
Its obvious the girl in question loves attention, starve her of it by ignoring. When she ask for help turn her down and claim busy, ignore her calls and messages. Just find somemthing to distract from having her time.
Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by odinson1(m): 7:56pm On Oct 06, 2022
Lucrativress:

I think I have titties so what am I? tongue

Hard to imagine a woman giving this kind of advice
Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by minasu190: 7:58pm On Oct 06, 2022
She likes you too, she just wants you to try more harder!
Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman: 8:55pm On Oct 06, 2022
minasu190:
She likes you too, she just wants you to try more harder!
I laugh when I read this.lolz
So I should focus all my life on her before she knows I am trying abi
Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Nobody: 9:17pm On Oct 06, 2022
Iamzealousman:
For more than 2 years now. There is this lady that have been manipulating me emotionally.

She knows I love her. But she has rejected my approach.

She Wants to be communicative only when she makes the move for a conversation. And this conversation will only end in can you help me with this or that. I have no problem with helping(so long as it's not financially) of which she never ask for financial assistance tho.

So...early this year I approached her again she said she can't date me because I never said I love her. I was like so I have been play since? Etc.

I ensured that I didn't communicate with her and I let her be. But she now still calls again.

Most times when she call I don't pick etc.

I have not found another person yet but I know she doesn't love.

I want to move on from her so I can focus of myself

Relationship is give n take
Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman: 7:29am On Oct 07, 2022
Sweetplum:

Relationship is give n take

As in
Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman: 9:48am On Oct 07, 2022
detectivejones:
Its obvious the girl in question loves attention, starve her of it by ignoring. When she ask for help turn her down and claim busy, ignore her calls and messages. Just find somemthing to distract from having her time.

Screenshot this already

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Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman: 7:22am On Oct 08, 2022
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Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by SyrusdeHansome(m): 8:18am On Oct 08, 2022
Romanoff:
Did the both of you define what you want from the relationship or are you two just wasting your time?
There's no relationship between them. It's just a matter of girl frnd zoning a guy nd later playing on his emotion to conquer him
Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman: 10:58am On Oct 09, 2022
SyrusdeHansome:
There's no relationship between them. It's just a matter of girl frnd zoning a guy nd later playing on his emotion to conquer him
Yea
Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Aklee4994(m): 11:31am On Oct 09, 2022
Babara1994:

You wicked o
na better woman she be wetin be you wicked I like her thoughts and she is not being sentimental but sensitive..you never jam those bitter one for here not to mention name to avoid some vawulence in this thread

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