Good day to you all.

There is this girl that is head over heel for me and I don't really like her much. I just take her as a normal friend but she is showing me too many green lights (even to an extent a blind man would sight it even from afar).

She started chasing me since 2020, initially I didn't take it serious. I didn't even know her then, we met on Facebook. She told me she knew me right from our days in high school(secondary school), so she told me that she was my immediate junior brother's classmate. That she always get to see me whenever I visit my brother's class. I was like alright but I don't know you physically, can I get to know you and see you?

Knowing her and seeing took like months but I was only seeing her pictures on Facebook but I could not make out who she really was.

One day, I finally go to meet her. She is amazing and a good person and also kind of naive!


She is not beautiful, she is just average but she is good!

But I am not really into her like she is into me.
This girl calls me almost everyday!!! It is as if I had her kidney..
Sometimes I ignore her calls and I don't even call her at all but she keeps doing her calling like it is her job.

I was hoping she would read the message I was passing to her but she was not..

What made me think so is the fact that recently, she told me that she turned down someone because she likes me..

I was shocked! Guys, I don't want to waste her time, how do I tell her I don't really like her without hurting her feeling.

Kinda girls i love
Girls that chase me(soft life)

But you guys are use to suffering (chasing girls)


Your answer
Stop picking her calls
She will get the memo

Women have Options

Go and play with sand

Do you get the message??

wahala this is the second time am reading this

4teenblaq:
Good day to you all.

There is this girl that is head over heel for me and I don't really like her much. I just take her as a normal friend but she is showing me too many green lights (even to an extent a blind man would sight it even from afar).

She started chasing me since 2020, initially I didn't take it serious. I didn't even know her then, we met on Facebook. She told me she knew me right from our days in high school(secondary school), so she told me that she was my immediate junior brother's classmate. That she always get to see me whenever I visit my brother's class. I was like alright but I don't know you physically, can I get to know you and see you?

Knowing her and seeing took like months but I was only seeing her pictures on Facebook but I could not make out who she really was.

One day, I finally go to meet her. She is amazing and a good person and also kind of naive!


She is not beautiful, she is just average but she is good!

But I am not really into her like she is into me.
This girl calls me almost everyday!!! It is as if I had her kidney..
Sometimes I ignore her calls and I don't even call her at all but she keeps doing her calling like it is her job.

I was hoping she would read the message I was passing to her but she was not..

What made me think so is the fact that recently, she told me that she turned down someone because she likes me..

I was shocked! Guys, I don't want to waste her time, how do I tell her I don't really like her without hurting her feeling.

Just send her a plain and polite text message. She’ll be glad you told her and may respect you more for that.

Not telling her will do more harm than good.

You’re a grown adult I suppose and have freedom of association.

2dice01:
Kinda girls i love
Girls that chase me(soft life)

But you guys are use to suffering (chasing girls)


Your answer
Stop picking her calls
She will get the memo

Women have Options

I have done this before, she went to my brother and started asking him my whereabouts and what happened to my phone.. My brother told me and I have to start answering her call again.

4teenblaq:


I have done this before, she went to my brother and started asking him my whereabouts and what happened to my phone.. My brother told me and I have to start answering her call again

That means you can be easily manipulated
You need to grow a strong heart
Block her number
If she calls with another number
Block it too

Sim is very cost now
Trust me you are not that special bro
She can't call you with 10different sim before she gives up

You see someone who is falling head heel for you, and you're rejecting her.
Later now you come and start shouting that 'Nigerian ladies cannot love a man, they only love your money'.
Tell her hoo-haa to look for another guy that will reciprocate her love cuz you can't do it.

2dice01:
That means you can be easily manipulated
You need to grow a strong heart
Block her number
If she calls with another number
Block it too

Sim is very cost now
Trust me you are not that special bro
She can't call you with 10different sim before she gives up

No problem!

4teenblaq:
Good day to you all.

There is this girl that is head over heel for me and I don't really like her much. I just take her as a normal friend but she is showing me too many green lights (even to an extent a blind man would sight it even from afar).

She started chasing me since 2020, initially I didn't take it serious. I didn't even know her then, we met on Facebook. She told me she knew me right from our days in high school(secondary school), so she told me that she was my immediate junior brother's classmate. That she always get to see me whenever I visit my brother's class. I was like alright but I don't know you physically, can I get to know you and see you?

Knowing her and seeing took like months but I was only seeing her pictures on Facebook but I could not make out who she really was.

One day, I finally go to meet her. She is amazing and a good person and also kind of naive!


She is not beautiful, she is just average but she is good!

But I am not really into her like she is into me.
This girl calls me almost everyday!!! It is as if I had her kidney..
Sometimes I ignore her calls and I don't even call her at all but she keeps doing her calling like it is her job.

I was hoping she would read the message I was passing to her but she was not..

What made me think so is the fact that recently, she told me that she turned down someone because she likes me..

I was shocked! Guys, I don't want to waste her time, how do I tell her I don't really like her without hurting her feeling.

By the time she meets a guy who will value her and love her genuinely, you will seek for her with tears and it will be too late. Most relationships and marriage initiated by women are usually the best, ask Ruth and Esther in the Bible. If you give her a shot I'm sure you will fall in love soon and wont be able to imagine losing her. As the saying goes, marry the person that loves you, not the person you love. Know this and know peace.
NB: I dont know you and I dont know the girl, I am only advising you as a living witness and out of my vast experience. Mods pls move to FP for more opinions.

kernniejay:

By the time she meets a guy who will value her and love her genuinely, you will seek for her with tears and it will be too late. Most relationships and marriage initiated by women are usually the best, ask Ruth and Esther in the Bible. If you give her a shot I'm sure you will fall in love soon and wont be able to imagine losing her. As the saying goes, marry the person that loves you, not the person you love. Know this and know peace.
NB: I dont know you and I dont know the girl, I am only advising you as a living witness and out of my vast experience. Mods pls move to FP for more opinions.

Thanks for your advice

kernniejay:

By the time she meets a guy who will value her and love her genuinely, you will seek for her with tears and it will be too late. Most relationships and marriage initiated by women are usually the best, ask Ruth and Esther in the Bible. If you give her a shot I'm sure you will fall in love soon and wont be able to imagine losing her. As the saying goes, marry the person that loves you, not the person you love. Know this and know peace.
NB: I dont know you and I dont know the girl, I am only advising you as a living witness and out of my vast experience. Mods pls move to FP for more opinions.

By far the best advice and certainly the same advice and words I would use.

It's normal for guys to be into women but if the tables turned and she is into you..... you are onto something nice.

Guys are moved by things they see and typical I don't blame them. But if a guy could see beyond this facial and physical attributes, you wouldn't have to worry about if she loves you or not.

I doubly make sure the lady I am onto really really likes me before I drop my guard.

Good luck.

Ignore her, she will find person.

She is not beautiful, she is just average but she is good!

Of course she's NOT beautiful. Beautiful girls for don get a lot of other options na.

But I am not really into her like she is into me.

She's not beautiful so... no surprises.

This girl calls me almost everyday!!! It is as if I had her kidney..
Sometimes I ignore her calls and I don't even call her at all but she keeps doing her calling like it is her job.

I was hoping she would read the message I was passing to her but she was not..

What made me think so is the fact that recently, she told me that she turned down someone because she likes me..

Don't worry, she go get tired. They always do.

Give her a try, if e no work out e no work out ( then everybody go rest).
I have a gal like dat too, I like her not cus she beautiful or something else, she’s the only one I talk to, since nobody dy blood or dawg me again (na only she dy use her card call me, talk for hours join too), but I no dy too take her serious cus she dy very far ( benue state).but u see this present generation gals eh, it takes the grace of God for dem to remember u exist talk more of calling you wit dia own card.

Call her on the phone and let her know you like her too but as only a friend. Tell her you have someone that you love and care about for and you cannot cheat on her.

If she doesn’t understand this, then you have to go on your knees in prayer.

Medianna:
You see someone who is falling head heel for you, and you're rejecting her.
Later now you come and start shouting that 'Nigerian ladies cannot love a man, they only love your money'.
Tell her hoo-haa to look for another guy that will reciprocate her love cuz you can't do it.

Hahaha, the money that the OP don't even have.

OP, this your thread brought back memories of Felicia that will do everything to have me to herself. She calls, she send airtime, she visits, she cook, she was there as a lover, friend, sister and everything. I have been wondering since I graduated from school the reason why I hurt that girl, but I don't know.

Sometimes, we meet people that we become their priority and we just messed everything up and start prioritizing other people that aren't worth it in our lives.

Dear Felicia, I am deeply sorry and I regretted my actions towards you. I know you won't love me again but I pray you meet someone that will treat you great and respect you. You are the only girl I regretted losing.

OP, if you don't love the girl, ignore her and move on. Don't force yourself to love her, if it doesn't happen naturally then ignore her. You will meet ladies that will catch your fancy at long run.

May we not meet the love of our lives when we are married, and may we not meet the love of our lives when we are not ready. Amen.

She is chasing you everywhere now and calls you every minutes and you dey inyanga. When she stops now, na you go still come here begin lament how she has changed and no longer wants you. All these small boys won't let person read good threads here anymore.

You might have to visit her, or invite her for a date at a restaurant or nice place. Explain to her politely why you believe both of you will never work out, with the promise that you’ll continue being her friend. No matter how ugly a woman is, especially in her teen or early twenties, she would probably have options. She’s just being clingy to you because she found you more attractive. It’s normal for women to show their feelings to men they love, just like it’s for men. We don’t have to make them look stupid for coming out clean. The irony of life is; WE DON’T NORMALLY LOVE THOSE THAT LOVE US. AND THOSE THAT WE LOVE DON’T NORMALLY LOVE US!

WHAT WE FACED AS "LITTLE BOYS"

I was molested by a lady in my bloodline who was brought from the village by my parents and appointed to be our house help
That lady really dealt with me
Most funny part of it is that they will beat you when they noticed any form of resistance from you
I remembered clearly one sex style she used on me(COW GIRL)
She will be pouncing on my small penis with her huge ass and she does it relatively very hard I remembered it always caused pains in my femoral region.
Sometimes I try to manoeuvre my dick out of her pussy but she always puts it back whenever it flipped off.
She will rub her breasts and ass on my face like using your hands to mould an unbaked bread...(don't really recall if she also rubbed her pussy though or sucked my dick whenever she gives me a rolling kiss from my face down to my private areas)
Anytime I try to recall how old I was when it happened,my presumption always fall on 4,5 or 6years but I know vividly she's 11 years older than me.
This could only happen whenever my mum goes to the market(which always made me run as far as I can from her reach but she always sent a girl called "hope",which i was just a year older than to go in search for me and whenever she finds me,I never recalled me disobeying her orders because of "fear"
Hope and no one else ever knew what was going on till date because they will always gather in our veranda playing and be totally ignorant of what was going on behind closed doors
I still don't know why she preferred me over the grown up guys that do come after her or the one I remembered she did watched pornography with(and using me to practice) whenever mother wasn't at home.

She was my cousin from my mother's side and she's married now with 2 children.

I wish she tried it now that I'm a grown man and see why a rat doesn't play near the vicinity of a python.