Good evenin nlanders.pls i need advice on how to move on with my life.i met dis guy and we started datin.we dated 4 10 months before we broke up.he was d one who deflowered me.i also had an abortion for him because he was not stable financially and i wanted to further my education.i was neva d demanding type of girl because i believe in bin independent as a woman.unless he buys something for me i dont demand 4 anything from him.i loved him more than d way i love myself.we had our ups and downs in a relationshid but we were stil 2geda.al of a sudden he started behaving strange .it got to a time i was sick and did test and i was told i was pregnant again.i told him and he said i should abort it again.i told him i cant do it and dats was where our issue began.he ditched me and lied about his company transfering him.he has refused to cal me or talk to me till date.and it turned out d result were mixed and i was neva pregnant.pls advice me on how to move on with my life because i sacrifed alot .

Child of God having unprotected premarital sex and abortions, and still coming online boldly to seek for advice concerning the repercussion of her attrocities

God didn't create you to be like this. Give your life a meaning. Stop premarital sex. Your body is the temple of God.

When you were having unprotected marathon sex, what were you expecting? Plasma television?

Get a cucumber and Thk me later

Sacrifice what??
He's just using you....swallow the redpill and stop being stupid sticking with a someone thats just using you to pass time...its clear he's just using you

Just move on...dont think of him as someone who matters.

Alaye,speak like d elite dat u are and stop talking rubbish .i asked for advice and not for condemnation from u

Zonefree:
Child of God having unprotected premarital sex and abortions, and still coming online boldly to seek for advice concerning the repercussion of her attrocities

God didn't create you to be like this. Give your life a meaning. Stop premarital sex. Your body is the temple of God.

When you were having unprotected marathon sex, what were you expecting? Plasma television?

Alaye,speak like d elite dat u are and stop talking rubbish .i asked for advice and not for condemnation from u

The way this ladies boldly comes out to announce to the world they had series abortions is quite alarming...

Close leg, Mbanu!! they won't...!!
Oya close mouth, Rara!! they won't...!!!

Anyways, you can't move on until moving on is the only option you have...!!

Emilia154:
we had our ups and downs in a relationshid but we were stil 2geda.al of a sudden he started behaving strange .it got to a time i was sick and did test and i was told i was pregnant again.

So inside the ups and downs you both were still kn*cking?

Emilia154:
.it got to a time i was sick and did test and i was told i was pregnant again.i told him and he said i should abort it again.i told him i cant do it and dats was where our issue began.he ditched me and lied about his company transfering him.he has refused to cal me or talk to me till date. and it turned out d result were mixed and i was neva pregnant. pls advice me on how to move on with my life because i sacrifed alot .

Seek mental health counseling to help you realize how fortunate you are that you are no longer wasting any more of your life on this person who walked out on you after all you say you sacrificed. With good counseling, you should also be able to get back your self-esteem and self-confidence as an individual so you can maybe invest your efforts in growing and bettering yourself as a person so you do not end up in a similar situation in your next relationship.

. [s]All these guys that will create account today[/s] Your education matters, make it and not him your priority.

Kobojunkie:
Seek mental health counseling to help you realize how fortunate you are that you are no longer wasting any more of your life on this person who walked out on you after all you say you sacrificed. With good counseling, you should also be able to get back your self-esteem and self-confidence as an individual so you can maybe invest your efforts in growing and bettering yourself as a person so you do not end up in a similar situation in your next relationship.

Thanks dear i realy appreciate

Stephenmoka4:
[s] All these guys that will create account today[/s]

Your education matters, make it and not him your priority.

Thanks

advanceDNA:
Sacrifice what??
He's just using you....swallow the redpill and stop being stupid sticking with a someone thats just using you to pass time...its clear he's just using you

the sad and unfortunate thing is some guy is out there who's more responsible, cares about and wants to be very involved in her life but you know women, she'd rather be with someone she's interested even if this person isn't interested in her.

burp18:
the sad and unfortunate thing is some guy is out there who's more responsible, cares about and wants to be very involved in her life but you know women, she'd rather be with someone she's interested even if this person isn't interested in her.

U don c d mata na

Emilia154:
U don c d mata na

last last we all deserve what we get abi how u c am

burp18:
the sad and unfortunate thing is some guy is out there who's more responsible, cares about and wants to be very involved in her life but you know women, she'd rather be with someone she's interested even if this person isn't interested in her.

Abeg go sit down!

How do you know this particular lady here does not want to be with a responsible individual? Stop with the sweeping generalizations abeg! Makes the lot of you sound like toads each passing day.

burp18:
last last we all deserve what we get abi how u c am

There are lots of individuals.... males and females who seek peace of mind in a relationship and are willing to invest their efforts in getting exactly that. Only there are equally lots of imbe_ciles out there and it is hard to tell them from the so-called decent folks(men and women) in the field.

If you don't love yourself , nobody will love you. Build yourself, further your education as you said. Start a business or get a better job. If you already have one, focus more on how to magnify or scale your business. Fast and pray for a better life not for a broken relationship to be mended. It works like magic, if you better yourself you will never miss someone that doesn't love you and within a short period of time, love will find you again.

The rule of thumb that relationship with people taught me is:

LOVE ONE WHO LOVES YOU AND STOP BEGGING TO BE LOVED BY ONE WHO CARES LESS ABOUT YOU!

But unfortunately, ladies love those who treat them with nonchalance most! Men who truly love them they either refer to as, SIMPS or SCAPEGOATS.
Later in life, after realising their costly mistakes, they go about looking for such persons to fall back to wen time don pass them.

Kobojunkie:
Abeg go sit down!

How do you know this particular lady here does not want to be with a responsible individual? Stop with the sweeping generalizations abeg! Makes the lot of you sound like toads each passing day.

Someone who's responsible would not get her pregnant, not once, but twice and ask her to carry out abortion knowing fully well he's not ready to be involved in her life.

Kobojunkie:
There are lots of individuals.... males and females who seek peace of mind in a relationship and are willing to invest their efforts in getting exactly that. Only there are equally lots of imbe_ciles out there and it is hard to tell them from the so-called decent folks(men and women) in the field.

Wrong. There are so many people who don't even know why they're in a relationship.

burp18:
Someone who's responsible would not get her pregnant, not once, but twice and ask her to carry out abortion knowing fully well he's not ready to be involved in her life.

You say that like there is some sort of set template to these things.

Granted OP seemed to have lost herself in the relationship but we all know that when it comes to relationships , it is not by formulae but many a times by luck.

burp18:
Wrong. There are so many people who don't even know why they're in a relationship.

So? Even if you knew well why you are in a relationship, you have no real way of guaranteeing you are in it with the right person, especially if a Nigerian. There is no barcode to scan for these things.

Kobojunkie:
You say that like there is some sort of set template to these things.

Granted OP seemed to have lost herself in the relationship but we all know that when it comes to relationships , it is not by formulae but many a times by luck.

formulae indeed. So she should keep getting pregnant and carrying out abortions fr the guy in question because it's all a game of luck? Once is a mistake. Twice is stupid. What if she'd lost her life in the process?

Kobojunkie:
So? Even if you knew well why you are in a relationship, you have no real way of guaranteeing you are in it with the right person, especially if a Nigerian. There is no barcode to scan for these things.

There is no way to really see if someone's right for you but when you meet them. You'll know. Because the signs will be there

Slynation:
The way this ladies boldly comes out to announce to the world they had series abortions is quite alarming...

Close leg, Mbanu!! they won't...!!
Oya close mouth, Rara!! they won't...!!!

Anyways, you can't move on until moving on is the only option you have...!!

Guy she was confused and nervous when it happened and regretted ever opting for abortion as an option.but its wel

Kobojunkie:
There are lots of individuals.... males and females who seek peace of mind in a relationship and are willing to invest their efforts in getting exactly that. Only there are equally lots of imbe_ciles out there and it is hard to tell them from the so-called decent folks(men and women) in the field.

Fact

imagrg:
The rule of thumb that relationship with people taught me is:

LOVE ONE WHO LOVES YOU AND STOP BEGGING TO BE LOVED BY ONE WHO CARES LESS ABOUT YOU!

But unfortunately, ladies love those who treat them with nonchalance most! Men who truly love them they either refer to as, SIMPS or SCAPEGOATS.
Later in life, after realising their costly mistakes, they go about looking for such persons to fall back to wen time don pass them.

Wel not all ladie7 are like dat

Move on with me

Emilia154:
Good evenin nlanders.pls i need advice on how to move on with my life.i met dis guy and we started datin.we dated 4 10 months before we broke up.he was d one who deflowered me.i also had an abortion for him because he was not stable financially and i wanted to further my education.i was neva d demanding type of girl because i believe in bin independent as a woman.unless he buys something for me i dont demand 4 anything from him.i loved him more than d way i love myself.we had our ups and downs in a relationshid but we were stil 2geda.al of a sudden he started behaving strange .it got to a time i was sick and did test and i was told i was pregnant again.i told him and he said i should abort it again.i told him i cant do it and dats was where our issue began.he ditched me and lied about his company transfering him.he has refused to cal me or talk to me till date.and it turned out d result were mixed and i was neva pregnant.pls advice me on how to move on with my life because i sacrifed alot .

jogsman01:
Move on with me

Oh realy

Emilia154:
Oh realy

Affirmative YES! DM?

Emilia154:
Good evenin nlanders.pls i need advice on how to move on with my life.i met dis guy and we started datin.we dated 4 10 months before we broke up.he was d one who deflowered me.i also had an abortion for him because he was not stable financially and i wanted to further my education.i was neva d demanding type of girl because i believe in bin independent as a woman.unless he buys something for me i dont demand 4 anything from him.i loved him more than d way i love myself.we had our ups and downs in a relationshid but we were stil 2geda.al of a sudden he started behaving strange .it got to a time i was sick and did test and i was told i was pregnant again.i told him and he said i should abort it again.i told him i cant do it and dats was where our issue began.he ditched me and lied about his company transfering him.he has refused to cal me or talk to me till date.and it turned out d result were mixed and i was neva pregnant.pls advice me on how to move on with my life because i sacrifed alot .

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