Good morning friend?! I thank u for your wonderful advice!!! finally the union is over!! I thank God!!!

It wasn't easy but blood is thicker and thank God my brother hasn't lost his senses he made the right choice!!! He even confirmed it that the lady will often want to like control him or try painting his friends of so many years before they met!!. victory at last !!! once again I say thank u my good people!!!

You did the right thing, also your cousin's.

Aareakinwunmi:
You did the right thing, also your cousin's.

Thanks bro

udofia234:
Good morning friend?! I thank u for your wonderful advice!!! finally the union is over!! I thank God!!!

It wasn't easy but blood is thicker and thank God my brother hasn't lost his senses he made the right choice!!! He even confirmed it that the lady will often want to like control him or try painting his friends of so many years before they met!!. victory at last !!! once again I say thank u my good people!!!

Hope say you don leave that your neighbor wife wey dey live for the same yard with you oo?

You did the right thing OP and your cousin made the right choice ...

"A person's true nature is known not by how he treats those above him or those on the same level as him, but by how he treats those beneath him (those he feels can't be of any use to him)"

Your story made me remember this quote...

Though some may argue that "work attitude" is different from "outside attitude", but that's not entirely true...

A woman that can audaciously try to slap a man at work (or anywhere for that matter) over a misunderstanding that could otherwise be resolved by a conversation is A VERY TERRIBLE WOMAN...

And getting married to such a person is DISASTROUS!!

If your cousin didn't make the right choice even after you advised him, he would've definitely died before his time...

You saved a life OP...
Thumbs up ...

You have just saved man-kind. Na man you be bro. Vile women have no place in decent homes because all they bring to them is vileness.

Wotoporiously speaking

It's all good bro, kudos to you

Hope she will get sense after this incident to always treat people with respect

imadiyi:

Hope say you don leave that your neighbor wife wey dey live for the same yard with you oo?

yes oh!! I don cut that parol

Fahvvy:
You did the right thing OP and your cousin made the right choice ...

"A person's true nature is known not by how he treats those above him or those on the same level as him, but by how he treats those beneath him (those he feels can't be of any use to him)"

Your story made me remember this quote...

Though some may argue that "work attitude" is different from "outside attitude", but that's not entirely true...

A woman that can audaciously try to slap a man at work (or anywhere for that matter) over a misunderstanding that could otherwise be resolved by a conversation is A VERY TERRIBLE WOMAN...

And getting married to such a person is DISASTROUS!!

If your cousin didn't make the right choice even after you advised him, he would've definitely died before his time...

You saved a life OP...
Thumbs up ...

True talk baba!! u get level!!!

Nonexisting1:
You have just saved man-kind. Na man you be bro. Vile women have no place in decent homes because all they bring to them is vileness.

Thanks baba!! u are mouthed!!! your advice saved my family

Theboy21:
Hope she will get sense after this incident to always treat people with respect

If she like make she no change na she sabi

You made the right choice...You save your bro full time, he was having his doubts tho but was not yet certain. It's better not to marry than to get married to an abusive and domineering women...They will so much frustrate you to the extent you begin to wonder how you managed to fall in love with such person at first...

Slynation:
You made the right choice...You save your bro full time, he was having his doubts tho but was not yet certain. It's better not to marry than to get married to an abusive and domineering women...They will so much frustrate you to the extent you begin to wonder how you managed to fall in love with such person at first...

Thanks for your candid advice!! you saved my family and bro

udofia234:



yes oh!! I don cut that parol

Better ooo. But, how she come dey feel each time she see u for compound?

OP you have done well

Op that married woman who has been showing you greenlight you don finally commit the sin?

imadiyi:

Better ooo. But, how she come dey feel each time she see u for compound?

She's still making advances at me, but I can't do that anymore
i

Nicepoker:
Op that married woman who has been showing you greenlight you don finally commit the sin?

I can't resit it until I knack her more than times before I run oh!!

udofia234:
Good morning friend?! I thank u for your wonderful advice!!! finally the union is over!! I thank God!!!

It wasn't easy but blood is thicker and thank God my brother hasn't lost his senses he made the right choice!!! He even confirmed it that the lady will often want to like control him or try painting his friends of so many years before they met!!. victory at last !!! once again I say thank u my good people!!!

okay brother

udofia234:



I can't resit it until I knack her more than times before I run oh!!

You slept with another man's wife? Is that what you mean?

placeofallure:


You slept with another man's wife? Is that what you mean?

I have repented of it dear!!! I'm now a new creation!!

udofia234:


She's still making advances at me, but I can't do that anymore
i

Better. Please,stay clear off her

Tell us how d separation happened nau. How is d lady now? Didn't she beg u?

udofia234:
Good morning friend?! I thank u for your wonderful advice!!! finally the union is over!! I thank God!!!

It wasn't easy but blood is thicker and thank God my brother hasn't lost his senses he made the right choice!!! He even confirmed it that the lady will often want to like control him or try painting his friends of so many years before they met!!. victory at last !!! once again I say thank u my good people!!!

What really happened? I need to know the full gist.

Congratulations to you and your family

imadiyi:

Better. Please,stay clear off her

Affirmative!!!

Kobicove:
Congratulations to you and your family

Thank u too baba! Na your advice help us ooo

Enny2013:
Tell us how d separation happened nau. How is d lady now? Didn't she beg u?

After the day I shared that issue on nairaland, that same week I went down immediately to see my parents, I narrated the whole story to them, and I let them know she was the same lady that made me not to witness by brothers wedding, I reminded them that there was a time I said I left my job that I came back home to stay with them for months because I couldn't pay my rents!!!

At this point I haven't told them is the lady my brother wanted to marry and my parent were already pissed off with the lady in question, when I broke the news to them they where so mad, pissed and went ballistic, they called my brother immediately that he should find time to see them before the weekend!!
Though I wasn't there anyways but my parents told him every thing of which he first objected to on the grounds that he won't break up with that lady ,cos the Jezebel told him another version of the story, that i embezzled the company funds and she dealt with me that that was why I resigned (lies from the pit of hell), and that she was only doing her job.
Back then when I resigned I once chatted with him on wattapp and I talked bitterly on how my female MD talks and treats me , he was mad( this is before he met this lady the Jezebel) and told me not to worry that he'll connect some of his friends to help me get another job!!!
After he left my parents angry he went home and probably he remembered I once told him about it, he then checked through the chat and saw everything, he invited the lady over and asked her the same question ,she repeated the same lies , my cousin then showed him our chat on lines years back, she was shocked and latter began begging my brother, he told her he would have do everything to keep her , but the lies and not being remorseful about her attitude and that at this his age no body can choose for him but if the lady have taken care of it before all this , may be he would have ended up marrying her.
He told her the extent of damage her attitude caused me and my journey in life, that I'd the lady had done everything to find me to make her ways right , that would have changed everything... The Jezebel came to my parents crying and begging them for forgiveness that she loves my cousin, they told her point blank that my brother can not marry a lady who has no regards for anyone regardless of the kind of position they occupy!!
Could you believe it that after all this tears she did not even come to beg me or even find a way to reach me, but I thank God she did not even come, because I will curse her and her whole family for making me pass through such pain of starting my life from the scratch again.
To me she's still not remorseful and I don't care let her go to hell and anyman that marries her is in trouble!!
And this will serve as a deterrent to all ladies who because of their position or achievement treat men like shit, No doubt the Jezebel is out to scatter my lovely family shedding her crocodile tears!!!
And this is to those who where supporting her on nairaland that I should forgive her, do u see why I'm bent on scattering that union? She's not remorseful of her actions at all, you can force a horse to the stream but u cannot force it to drink water, that wickedness is in her and she won't repent even if she's forgiven!!!

udofia234:



After the day I shared that issue on nairaland, that same week I went down immediately to see my parents, I narrated the whole story to them, and I let them know she was the same lady that made me not to witness by brothers wedding, I reminded them that there was a time I said I left my job that I came back home to stay with them for months because I couldn't pay my rents!!!

At this point I haven't told them is the lady my brother wanted to marry and my parent were already pissed off with the lady in question, when I broke the news to them they where so mad, pissed and went ballistic, they called my brother immediately that he should find time to see them before the weekend!!
Though I wasn't there anyways but my parents told him every thing of which he first objected to on the grounds that he won't break up with that lady ,cos the Jezebel told him another version of the story, that i embezzled the company funds and she dealt with me that that was why I resigned (lies from the pit of hell), and that she was only doing her job.
Back then when I resigned I once chatted with him on wattapp and I talked bitterly on how my female MD talks and treats me , he was mad( this is before he met this lady the Jezebel) and told me not to worry that he'll connect some of his friends to help me get another job!!!
After he left my parents angry he went home and probably he remembered I once told him about it, he then checked through the chat and saw everything, he invited the lady over and asked her the same question ,she repeated the same lies , my cousin then showed him our chat on lines years back, she was shocked and latter began begging my brother, he told her he would have do everything to keep her , but the lies and not being remorseful about her attitude and that at this his age no body can choose for him but if the lady have taken care of it before all this , may be he would have ended up marrying her.
He told her the extent of damage her attitude caused me and my journey in life, that I'd the lady had done everything to find me to make her ways right , that would have changed everything... The Jezebel came to my parents crying and begging them for forgiveness that she loves my cousin, they told her point blank that my brother can not marry a lady who has no regards for anyone regardless of the kind of position they occupy!!
Could you believe it that after all this tears she did not even come to beg me or even find a way to reach me, but I thank God she did not even come, because I will curse her and her whole family for making me pass through such pain of starting my life from the scratch again.
To me she's still not remorseful and I don't care let her go to hell and anyman that marries her is in trouble!!
And this will serve as a deterrent to all ladies who because of their position or achievement treat men like shit, No doubt the Jezebel is out to scatter my lovely family shedding her crocodile tears!!!
And this is to those who where supporting her on nairaland that I should forgive her, do u see why I'm bent on scattering that union? She's not remorseful of her actions at all, you can force a horse to the stream but u cannot force it to drink water, that wickedness is in her and she won't repent even if she's forgiven!!!

Ha! What a Jezebel. She still lied on u join. She can't even change. Yes.
She really humiliated u,bro.

Enny2013:

Ha! What a Jezebel. She still lied on u join. She can't even change. Yes.
She really humiliated u,bro.

I swear she really meant to destroy me by all means!!! I'm short of words

Brotherly... victory at last for ur bro and family..you inclusive....good one....some ladies learn the hard way....peace bro..and like I told you in the other thread...never go back to the married ashana ooo ..one love bro