Is there any future risk issue if a lady has done abortion before,like having Child birth issues, fluctuating stomach pains and many others .

In summary is it adviveable to marry a lady who has done abortion in her youthful age??

Like u know marriage is not just for companionship, but also to keep on the continuity of a family.

Ahbeg drop ur opinions..

Is willful murder acceptable to you?

Stephenmoka4:
Is willful murder acceptable to you?

Nope not at all.
Thou the reason for her action is understandable,... According to her and her parents she was raped in secondary school during a graduation party... But I don't know how true it is... U know humans and lies

The lady can complicate her reproductive system and sometimes die due to abortion. It is risky... I don't like it and wouldn't encourage it. This doesn't speak for everyone but, it's a no to me.

OsilaGama:


Nope not at all.
Thou the reason for her action is understandable,... According to her and her parents she was raped in secondary school during a graduation party... But I don't know how true it is... U know humans and lies

Quite complicated, it's a double risk -; you know... She might get rid of herself trying to get rid of the child.

Stephenmoka4:
Quite complicated, it's a double risk -; you know... She might get rid of herself trying to get rid of the child.

She did it already

Is there any thing wrong with abortiom

Southernigbo:
Is there any thing wrong with abortiom

Ya alot

OsilaGama:
Is there any future risk issue if a lady has done abortion before,like having Child birth issues, fluctuating stomach pains and many others .

In summary is it adviveable to marry a lady who has done abortion in her youthful age??

Like u know marriage is not just for companionship, but also to keep on the continuity of a family.

Ahbeg drop ur opinions..

It is the women u shoukd ask why they lie about it....its the lies that make men worry there's something bigger and want to avoid auch women..........same thing with body count....they will always lie they only have only had two boyfriend....

Women understand moral standards..they understand the negative implications of their actions, yet wilfully do it anyways....

and thats why they lie amd form saint when a new guy comes along....its the same reason they are always angry here when guys come and reveal the various experience they had with women

OP sir @OsilaGama
What advanceDNA said is nothing short of the truth ....

Women know moral standards...
They know the implications of going against it...
And yet, they still CHOOSE to fall short...

And to answer your question...
YESSSSSSSSSS!!!! ABORTION IS A BIIIGGGG RED FLAG!!! And I wouldn't advice anyone to be with a woman who has had an abortion ...

You and I know that...
Actions have consequences...
And there are implications to doing an abortion, so the question I ask is why should I join you in facing the possible consequences of your past stup.idity? ...

And besides...
Those qualities in her that is making you consider marrying her eh, I'm VERY CERTAIN that you can find those same qualities and even more in another lady that hasn't done abortion ...

But las las, the choice is still your own sha ...

You could always ask for medical checkup. However, she will feel like you want her for kids alone and will likely resent you.

Properly done abortions shouldn't be a problem.

OsilaGama:
Is there any future risk issue if a lady has done abortion before,like having Child birth issues, fluctuating stomach pains and many others .

In summary is it adviveable to marry a lady who has done abortion in her youthful age??

Like u know marriage is not just for companionship, but also to keep on the continuity of a family.

Ahbeg drop ur opinions..

[quote author=advanceDNA post=117599537]

It is the women u shoukd ask why they lie about it....same thing with body count....they will always lie they only have only had two boyfriend....

Women understand moral standards..they understand the negative implications of their actions, yet wilfully do it anyways....

and thats why they lie amd form saint when a new guy comes along....its the same reason they are always angry here when guys come and reveal the various experience they had with women[/quot


Yes that's true bro..
Na so dem de o
After flerting life they will be looking for love and sympathy..
I grab ur point boss

Fahvvy:
OP sir @OsilaGama
What advanceDNA said is nothing short of the truth ....

Women know moral standards...
They know the implications of going against it...
And yet, they still CHOOSE to fall short...

And to answer your question...
YESSSSSSSSSS!!!! ABORTION IS A BIIIGGGG RED FLAG!!! And I wouldn't advice anyone to be with a woman who has had an abortion ...

You and I know that...
Actions have consequences...
And there are implications to doing an abortion, so the question I ask is why should I join you in facing the possible consequences of your past stup.idity? ...

And besides...
Those qualities in her that is making you consider marrying her eh, I'm VERY CERTAIN that you can find those same qualities and even more in another lady that hasn't done abortion ...

But las las, the choice is still your own sha ...

Thanks bro Tho we just started dating and I haven't even started considering marriage, I just dropped the topic so as to know the implications of going an abortion.

Africans and their mentality.....all this people shouting ABORTION IS A RED FLAG,,, na una go still reject belle wey una give girl

ABORTION is not a RED FLAG,,,, u can marry a virgin and she can still have fertility issues,, u can still have delay in having children..

ABORTION is bad and it has it's own consequences....but as long as the doctors have confirmed that she is medically fine and fit to conceive to have children then there is no cause for worries

OsilaGama:



Thanks bro Tho we just started dating and I haven't even started considering marriage, I just dropped the topic so as to know the implications of going an abortion.

if she gets pregnant for u now while u are still dating,,,please will u marry her....just a harmless question.....

OsilaGama:
Is there any future risk issue if a lady has done abortion before,like having Child birth issues, fluctuating stomach pains and many others .

In summary is it adviveable to marry a lady who has done abortion in her youthful age??

Like u know marriage is not just for companionship, but also to keep on the continuity of a family.

Ahbeg drop ur opinions..

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OsilaGama:
Is there any future risk issue if a lady has done abortion before,like having Child birth issues, fluctuating stomach pains and many others .

In summary is it adviveable to marry a lady who has done abortion in her youthful age??

Like u know marriage is not just for companionship, but also to keep on the continuity of a family.

Ahbeg drop ur opinions..

OsilaGama:
Is there any future risk issue if a lady has done abortion before,like having Child birth issues, fluctuating stomach pains and many others .

In summary is it adviveable to marry a lady who has done abortion in her youthful age??

Like u know marriage is not just for companionship, but also to keep on the continuity of a family.

Ahbeg drop ur opinions..

abortion is the best ever...no mans wants no blooody childrens ruñing around the house like hungry rabbit especially watching those eeediot things sukin booobsi like its there human right.abortion must come into law..piriod¡(no oofencsse)

Realmi:
if she gets pregnant for u now while u are still dating,,,please will u marry her....just a harmless question.....

yes but not even considering unprotected s€x at the moment...

Realmi:
Africans and their mentality.....all this people shouting ABORTION IS A RED FLAG,,, na una go still reject belle wey una give girl

ABORTION is not a RED FLAG,,,, u can marry a virgin and she can still have fertility issues,, u can still have delay in having children..

ABORTION is bad and it has it's own consequences....but as long as the doctors have confirmed that she is medically fine and fit to conceive to have children then there is no cause for worries

bro thats true,but there is no 100% assurance of not being affected by that action now or later in the future

OsilaGama:


bro thats true,but there is no 100% assurance of not being affected by that action now or later in the future

my bro....everybody has a past...even the bible said "he that is without sin should cast the first stone" that statement was even made over an adulterous married woman's case oo...not a single lady...

Some people who do this ABORTION did not do it because they enjoyed it, they did it because it was the only choice they were left with...nobody is even blaming the guys involved...or are they free from consequences

Let's be realistic...na man dey give woman belle...na this same men dey reject girl wey don do ABORTION before.....it does not make sense

Once the girl admits to here past and has changed her ways,,, who are we to judge her

OsilaGama:


bro thats true,but there is no 100% assurance of not being affected by that action now or later in the future

what is ur fear exactly

OsilaGama:

yes but not even considering unprotected s€x at the moment...

well,, the only thing I can say is,, if u know that her past is a red flag for u, please dont hurt her by leading her on only to dump her later...its best u leave her now....she already has a traumatised past it will be wicked of u to add to it

OsilaGama:

yes but not even considering unprotected s€x at the moment...

well,, the only thing I can say is,, if u know that her past is a red flag for u, please dont hurt her by leading her on only to dump her later...its best u leave her now....she already has a traumatised past it will be wicked of u to add to it....and please note, ABORTION is not the only sin or medical procedure that has a consequence

U are not considering unprotected sex, that means u will still have sex with her, but with protection...so tell me,, why would u want to have sex atall with a girl that has done ABORTION

So she is good to sleep with but not good to keep

OsilaGama:



Thanks bro Tho we just started dating and I haven't even started considering marriage, I just dropped the topic so as to know the implications of going an abortion.

OP sir...
The choice is yours...

For me, I can't marry a woman who has done an abortion (unless she hid it from me)...

For others, it's not that big of a deal...

To every man his own....

If this is a deal breaker for you (it definitely is for me), please walk away asap, but if not, you can go ahead...

Enjoy your evening chief...

Realmi:
1. please note, ABORTION is not the only sin or medical procedure that has a consequence

U are not considering unprotected sex, that means u will still have sex with her, but with protection...so tell me,, why would u want to have sex atall with a girl that has done ABORTION

So she is good to sleep with but not good to keep

1. You're very correct...
Other medical procedure also have consequences...

But the question here is why should I be advised to be with a girl that has done an abortion which has a possibility of future complications, when I can have other girls without such possible complications?

@bolded...
When it comes to men and se.x, EVERY GIRL is good enough to sleep with, but not every girl is worth keeping ...

As "somehow-ish" as it sounds, it's the truth...

Se.x requires absolutely NO COMMITMENT, but keeping a girl long term requires a lot of commitment...

So if I'm going to be committed to a girl ie spending my time and resources on her long term, I've got to make sure that, that girl is da.mn well near perfect ....

In summary, the fact that she is nackable doesn't automatically mean she is worth keeping ...

Girls should know this and know peace ...

Just as ladies have a "friendzone", guys too have a "se.x zone" ...

Just as no matter what a guy who is in the friend zone does, she can NEVER consider him for anything serious (asides billing and free attention ofcourse )...

A girl in the se.x zone can NEVER be considered for anything serious other than se.x ofcourse ...

Realmi:
well,, the only thing I can say is,, if u know that her past is a red flag for u, please dont hurt her by leading her on only to dump her later...its best u leave her now....she already has a traumatised past it will be wicked of u to add to it....and please note, ABORTION is not the only sin or medical procedure that has a consequence

U are not considering unprotected sex, that means u will still have sex with her, but with protection...so tell me,, why would u want to have sex atall with a girl that has done ABORTION

So she is good to sleep with but not good to keep

Lol bro we never go intimate yet oHh

Just casual stuffs no sex for now boss...

Realmi:
my bro....everybody has a past...even the bible said "he that is without sin should cast the first stone" that statement was even made over an adulterous married woman's case oo...not a single lady...

Some people who do this ABORTION did not do it because they enjoyed it, they did it because it was the only choice they were left with...nobody is even blaming the guys involved...or are they free from consequences

Let's be realistic...na man dey give woman belle...na this same men dey reject girl wey don do ABORTION before.....it does not make sense

Once the girl admits to here past and has changed her ways,,, who are we to judge her

Na u done tok sense so far

Fahvvy:


1. You're very correct...
Other medical procedure also have consequences...

But the question here is why should I be advised to be with a girl that has done an abortion which has a possibility of future complications, when I can have other girls without such possible complications?

@bolded...
When it comes to men and se.x, EVERY GIRL is good enough to sleep with, but not every girl is worth keeping ...

As "somehow-ish" as it sounds, it's the truth...

Se.x requires absolutely NO COMMITMENT, but keeping a girl long term requires a lot of commitment...

So if I'm going to be committed to a girl ie spending my time and resources on her long term, I've got to make sure that, that girl is da.mn well near perfect ....

In summary, the fact that she is nackable doesn't automatically mean she is worth keeping ...

Girls should know this and know peace ...

Just as ladies have a "friendzone", guys too have a "se.x zone" ...

Just as no matter what a guy who is in the friend zone does, she can NEVER consider him for anything serious (asides billing and free attention ofcourse )...

A girl in the se.x zone can NEVER be considered for anything serious other than se.x ofcourse ...

Hahah bro u gott me laffing..
But u made a big point

ph gal i wan book and smash told me she did abortion,omo feelings are gone..even to send messages na war

OsilaGama:


Nope not at all.
Thou the reason for her action is understandable,... According to her and her parents she was raped in secondary school during a graduation party... But I don't know how true it is... U know humans and lies

If you believe this nonsense you will be easily scammed, mugu